Posts made by eobox91103

You say that your relationship is purely sexual, and that the sex is great.  It sounds like both of you want a more personal connection, beyond physical sex–and that while you realize this and are open to it, he's probably very much afraid of it...or at least deeply conflicted between his idea of religion and his natural bodily attractions.

I don't think you can resolve his internal conflict--it's something he has to work out on his own.  Until he works that out, I think it will be painful for you to be around him and not have things develop the way you would like.  (I have been in this same position, and it's not pleasant.)  I suggest that you tell him that you are open to a more significant interaction with him, but that you won't simply put things "on hold" and wait for him to come back after Great Lent.

This will be a difficult conversation to have, but I think it's valuable for you to stand up for your own feelings--and that you won't be controlled or harmed by him.  He may or may not realise that he is also harming himself...but that's something he needs to take responsibility for.

Please let us know how this turns out.  You sound like a sensitive, caring person who not only enjoys great sex, but sees the value of emotional attachment with another guy.  It also sounds like you are willing to "attach" to someone who has different beliefs or ideas than your own, and that's a wonderful thing.  But these characteristics can lead to pain if you don't actively take care of yourself.  There are lots of wonderful guys out there with whom you can form a wonderful, and mutual, attachment.

These things need time.  Your original post was over one year ago, and I would like to know how things are today.

And your English is very good 

Some studios will ask the site managers to remove content they've published, if it's still under copyright.  It's not against gt.ru rules to post this material, but it will be removed on request.

It would be helpful to know which sites make these requests.  I think EnglishLads usually asks their stuff to be removed.  I don't know if TIM is also in that category.  I don't usually look at TIM's stuff, despite the fact that I once fucked one of their models…but that's another story. ;D

If other users know of studios that routinely make takedown requests, it would be helpful for you to add a reply to let the rest of us know.

I'm familiar with giving bonus points along with a thank-you on a torrent.  I've been chatting with some guys on here who haven't uploaded torrents, and they could use a few bonus points to help their ratio.  I've got a bunch of them; is there a way I can give points to someone who hasn't uploaded a torrent?

Thanks!

EnglishLads material is also often taken down.  Sometimes it's almost random:  I've posted torrents that have been taken down, and then they've been posted again by someone else and have stayed up for years.

If you're posting a collection, it's good to not mix studios.  If you have a collection of "hot uncut redheads" and just one of them is from EnglishLads, the whole things could come down.

And your efforts are never for nothing:  A site like this relies on people sharing their material, and it's very much appreciated even if people don't always say so.

Thanks very much for the information!

Both my desktop workstation, and laptop ("Latitude" series, not a workstation but still high end), have SSD for the primary drive.  I have lots of backup drives, always synched (they're so cheap these days).  I'm not as concerned about losing data as I am the overall hassle, but you're giving me courage.  I might try it on the laptop first.

Thanks, every1.

I re-checked the TurboTax website.  It seems that their product will run on Win7, but they repeat the Microsoft party line, "Danger, Danger, If you keep using Win7, you'll be insecure."  It seems that their product will still run on Win7.  They go on to say that next year's product will not run on Win7.  What they probably mean is that one will need a 64 bit OS to run next year's product, but since my Win7 is the 64 bit version, I should be fine.

My fondness for XP is for two reasons:  Some software that run under XP won't run on Win7, such as PrintKey2000 and ImageGrabber (which I've used a lot to make tiled thumbnails for torrent uploads).  There are applications with similar functionality that will run on Win7/10, but they're clunkier to use.

My other beef with Win7/10 is that in Windows Explorer, XP had the option of giving you folder size for each element in a directory; I don't see that in the newer versions, and it was a handy way to see what folders were getting too big.  Sure, I can right-click on a folder to look at its "Properties," but that's clumsy.  Also, When I open a directory (Explorer window) in Win7, the default starting view is the bottom of the list.  My default directory sort is "newest file at the top" so I always have to scroll up to see what I want.  XP would open at the top of the directory, which was much more convenient.

Finally, when you say a "clean install" rather than upgrade, do you mean wiping the disk and starting from scratch?  I have all my data backed up, but it would be massive pain to reinstall all of my applications…Office, AcrobatPro, QuickTimePro, uTorrent, Firefox, etc., etc.  If I need to do all that, I might as well get a new machine--which I hardly need, as it's a Dell "Workstation" that cost me a bundle and has all the capability I could want.

If you have any suggestions about how I can address these issues, I'd love to hear them.  Or maybe I'm just being a whiny little boy...I've been called that before.

@every1enjoy:

Windows 10 is horrible.

If you are having no issues with Windows 7 no need to switch because support has stopped this doesn't even mean a great deal to most people the OS will still function just fine.

A lot of scare tactics floating around.

My computer at work has Windows 10–I don't find it horrible, but I don't see how it's an "improvement" over Windows 7 (or even XP, which has features not found in 7 or 10).

My home computer has Windows 7, and I'm tempted to leave it alone.  But I need to file US income tax, and the leading tax software brand (TurboTax) says its new version won't run under Windows 7.  Changing the operating system on a computer sounds a lot like doing a heart/lung/brain transplant, so I've held off.

I also have a licensed copy of Microsoft Office Professional Plus 2013 on my home computer.  It works fine under Windows 7.  I have a sneaking suspicion that after installing Window 10, the license won't be recognised and I'll be "asked" to buy a new copy of Office.

Microsoft sucks....and not in the good way.

To talk about "safe" vs. "unsafe" is an oversimplification.  Risk has to be measured along a continuous scale.  For example:

• Jumping out of a second-floor window might be less risky than jumping out of a tenth-floor window.  Does that mean jumping out of the second-floor window is "safe?"

• Driving 100 km/hr on an icy road might be less risky than driving 200 km/hr on that road.  Does that mean driving 100 km/hr on ice is "safe?"

There is risk of disease transmission in unprotected oral sex–even without ejaculation.  It's less than the risk of disease transmission from unprotected anal sex with ejaculation.  That doesn't make unprotected oral sex "safe."

Eventually we will grow out of labels like gay, straight, bi, or whatever, and just accept that people can respond physically or emotionally to other people as individuals, not as members of a group.

It's hard to believe that a guy could be that mentally f*cked up.  I would say to the girlfriend, "You don't need to diagnose him; just run away as fast as you can."

@manrmen:

I think people are just confusing the definitions.

sexual acts are just sexual acts. just blow your rocks off. If you use a fleshlight, does that mean you're attracted to it or something? A latexual?

once if there are feelings involved, I believe that would already be sexual orientation.

Precisely.  I have a friend who is "straight" by most definitions (although I hate labels).  He's married, loves his wife, and he's a great dad to their children. He also enjoys the sensation of getting fucked, and I'm happy to oblige him.  But don't infer from this that "he's really gay, and suppressed."  He's just freer than most guys, willing to enjoy what he can.

The younger guy with the curly hair is Johnny Polak.  He's in several torrents on here, just search by his name:  https://www.gaytorrent.ru/browse.php?search=polak&incldead=0&inname=1&infn=1&orderby=added&sort=desc

@afootytop:

Is it possible to filter by resolution please?

I have a 4k monitor, and find that after downloading rather large files over number of weeks, that they are impossible to view due to the low resolution of the original file.

I've noted on previous threads that some Globals Moderators have the ability to remaster files to a higher resolution, but I have not as yet learnt this dark art.

There are a few technical points here worth noting:

1)  I have found that a video file will look best at the original resolution in which it was created.  For example, most standard-resolution DVD material from, say, 2000-2010, was recorded in 480i (640x480).  It's possible to use software to increase the dimensions of the video file (such as to 1440x1080), but that's not going to improve the clarity of the image–it just stretches it out.  You can't add information that wasn't there to begin with.  And, depending on the software used to do this, it might even make the image look worse.  We can't make a true high-definition video out of a lower-definition video.  Some users on here will take a standard definition video and use software to "stretch" it, and claim that they have a "high definition 1080i video."  That's deceptive...and just plain wrong.

2)  I, too have a 4K monitor.  If I want to watch a video that is smaller than (real) 4K, my computer graphics card and monitor will do a better job of stretching the image out over the screen than a graphics application that fiddles with the file.  To put this another way, a non-4K file will look better on your monitor if you leave it as is, and let your computer blow it up to full-screen.  (I use VLC player running on Windows.)

3)  It's true that there's some good vintage material from the 19080's and 1990's that is low resolution and enjoyable to watch...but it can look wretched on a large screen monitor.  Unfortunately, there's no way to fix this.  I have some old favourites that I watch occasionally, and find the low video quality more tolerable if I just move back a bit from the screen.

4)  If you do want to change the frame size (resolution) of a video, I've found that "Movavi Video Converter" works pretty well, and is easy to use.  I got it a few years ago, and I think it was about $75 US.  [This is not an advertisement, and I don't own any of their stock.]  I use this to join files together, especially when they might have different frame sizes.  It's also handy if you need to change the encoding btween .avi, .mp4, .mov, etc.

Happy viewing!

I've noticed several torrents recently where there's straight (male+female) material mixed in with gay (male+male) or solo male material.  I'm not at all interested in "straight" material, and don't want to waste download traffic or disk space on it.

Uploading rule #3 says, "Porn with mainly sexual or fetish interaction involving women must be placed in the Straight older, Straight younger or Bisexual categories."  If it's a single video of straight material, I can report it to a Kind Moderator, who will often change the category of it.  If it's a collection of many videos (and uploaders seem to love those now), I don't know if I should report it or not.  But it's really annoying to see "straight" material appearing on my computer when it wasn't advertised as such.

A recent and flagrant example of this is https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=534a34e8fee57a963f627acd8bc2072f6699791a39604623 .  There are 12 pictures posted, all of solo guys.  The torrent has 52 files (50GB!), and I downloaded four of them.  Three of the four were boy-on-girl fucking, and the fourth was a solo jackoff.  Needless to say I'm not downloading else from this torrent.  Nowhere on the torrent page was I warned that there was "straight" material, nor did the file names suggest this.

I think this is a problem.  Any thoughts on how it should be addressed?  If "mixed" file collections in a torrent are acceptable, could we at least require (or ask) uploaders to have a separate folder called "straight" so people who don't want that stuff can avoid it?

Thanks for reading.  I feel better now 

I think you and I have much the same perspective.  Here are a few related thoughts:

If people are re-uploading material that is already seeding (same resolution, same file type, etc.), I think there should be a good reason for doing so, and the uploader should be clear about this.  For example, there are lots of torrents from the BelAmi studio with different actors in them.  If somebody has a favourite actor, perhaps it makes sense to upload a collection of films having just that actor.  In this case, I think the uploader should say, "this material is already here [and possibly give links to it], and I've kept the original file names so you can avoid duplicates."

If, though, someone is just grabbing a few existing files and reuploading them, especially with few (if any) pictures and a crappy (or no) description, solely for the purpose of scoring upload traffic, it's abusive.  I don't think the site's software can be tweaked to prevent this, so it would seem to be a loophole.  These garbage torrents are often quite obviously garbage…and they've become more prevalent in recent months.  It baffles me to see that quite a few members will download them.

On another note, the reference to potentially underage material is troubling:  If someone is going to share files, I think he has an absolute responsibility to ensure that there isn't underage material in them.  Not wanting to "bother checking 1000 files" is highly irresponsible.  Possession of underage material is a serious crime in most countries, and sharing such material puts other members, and the site itself, at grave risk.  If a member does share underage material, perhaps he should get one warning, but a repeat offender should be permanently banned.

And for yet another note, I sense that some members don't realise that they can select which files they want to download from a collection.  I use uTorrent, and it's a simple matter of ticking/unticking the box next to the file name before the client begins the download.  That way, I can often avoid downloading material I already have, or carefully select material that I want and avoid stuff I don't.  This presumes, though, that the uploader is using good file names.  Sites such as Tumblr or XTube often have random letters and numbers to identify the files.  It would nice if an uploader put in a more descriptive title, but that's probably expecting too much.

It was when I was in the seminary (or is that semen-ary?), and with another student.  He was a friend…not a hookup, but not romantic either.  When I left that vocation, I was worried that I wouldn't find other nice young men to play with.

It turned out, though, there were quite a few out there  ;D

One news programme said that many films have been shot at Trump-branded properties over the years, and one condition he places on the location agreement is that he have an quick on-screen cameo appearance.  The programme went on to say that virtually all of the films edit out his scene before the final cut is produced.

I haven't seen "Home Alone 2," but the programme seemed to imply that Trump's cameo remained in the final version for cinema release, and that the broadcaster edited it out when the film was prepared for television.  Editing a film for television is a complex art, as films usually need to be shortened, and pauses inserted for commercial breaks to satisfy contractual obligations.  If the Trump cameo wasn't essential to the story, it would be candidate for the bin…as apparently it has been in many other films, even before his political career.

All that said, I don't know whether this was the result of political bias or not:  I don't watch television, but I know that television and radio broadcasters are all over the political spectrum.  Perhaps the broadcaster here was following the usual editing protocol, or perhaps they wished to avoid controversy.

@aleksopoulos:

personally i cant undrestand how people can like both

I don't understand how my mobile phone works.
I don't understand why some of the roses in my garden are white, and why some are red.
I don't understand how the universe is 14 billion years old still expanding.

The fact that I don't understand these things doesn't mean they aren't real.  And it doesn't mean that they aren't valuable, and good, parts of the world.

Another good way to improve ratio is to:
1)  Find a new torrent with many files that hasn't been fully seeded yet (i.e., shows only one seeder, but many leechers).  This will only happen when a torrent is very new.
2)  Download the torrent, but only select some of the files (like the smallest ones) to download–which means marking the other files "don't download" in your torrent client.
3)  Let this torrent seed for at least a few hours, preferably a few days.

This way you will get the file(s) you have selected fairly quickly, and then be a resource for the other leechers who are trying to get all of the files.  Your ratio on this torrent can easily get to 5:1 or even 10:1.  And, this "trick" doesn't damage the system or harm other users.

The only disadvantage here is that this torrent will show up as "seeding" in your torrents listing as long as you don't have all of the files.  Once you've reached a good ratio with it, or most other leechers have gone away, just delete the torrent, and keep the files if you wish.