There is a big difference between fantasy and reality. I have been fantasising about being gang raped in a prison or military. I have also read that the rape fantasy is very common in both males and females.
Porn exist to exploit these fantasies. But porn does not depict a realistic situation. It is edited to be viewed as very hot and arousing. Reality however is different. Being sexually exploited without your consent is a crime it is not pleasant, it is violent and it has nothing to do with porn or what you have in your mind.
I guess in the old days, gays fap to this type of porn that require lots of imagination.
In this age of porn online, this is tldr;
not only r there plenty of porn videos for straight to the point fucking, there's plenty of variety to choose from too.
Sure, reality is different but there's role playing. Sometimes it's almost too real if you dare to.
Rape is violent without consent.
I've being literally violently raped without consent. But then being at that kind of cruising park late at night, I'm obviously looking for sex. Maybe that's his thing bc he grabbed me unexpectedly, I thought he's gonna rob me so I fought back. He banged my head against the tree trunk. Though the trunk was soft, I was dazed. He literally tore off my t-shirt and pulled off my shorts. I remember his hot panting breathe on the back of my neck as he got his arms around me vice-like and pounded me with urgency. Smell of alcohol beyond legal limits maybe explained his behavior.
Maybe that's not acceptable to most but just so happen I'm the willing victim. He didn't know and he didn't care. I played along with the pretended hurting and the "no,no,no...don't hurt me, you can take my money.."
He never let up, banged my head against the tree to shut me up. That hurts, that's real.
Then he hugged me tightly and deposited his load into me.
I could feel every shudder of his orgasm. That stimulated me close to my orgasm.
I was about to orgasm when he again grabbed my head, I was afraid he'll bang my head against the tree trunk and I covered my face with my hands. No, he flung me to the ground instead.
With my shorts around my ankles, I was too tangled up to balance myself. I fell heavily onto the soft ground while I suddenly orgasm-ed, spewing sperm. In the dim lights he didn't see it. He gave me a hard kick on my butt side and walked off.
In the heat of the warm night, I was dizzy enjoying the orgasm. It was intense, I was aware what triggered it.
I'm an old man. An easy target to be bullied. He's that type.
Recently I've come across the terms "Pozzing" and "Stealthing" which basically is intentionally infecting a bottom with HIV/ADIS.
Is this more of a buzz word?
It makes me wonder if most bareback porn is considered pozzing or the actors perform tests prior to fucking bareback? (depends on the studio of course)
have you ever been knowingly pozzed or unknowingly stealth-pozzed?
what are your thoughts on the matter?
These terms (as well as the term "bug-chaser") were far more common pre-PrEP. Porn studios today strongly encourage their actors to use (be on) PrEP - not just for their own protection, but also to alleviate "tension" on the set. Mind you, they still test - but when everyone in the scene is on PrEP (which implies being HIV-, and being regularly tested for HIV so that you can remain on PrEP), there is far less "trust" needed...
The Dorm Room Education scene from Encounters: The Heat of the Moment (Lucas Entertainment) with Blu Kennedy and Danny Bitho is still one of the hottest scenes I've ever seen. The sexual tension is so palpable. It's a really intense scene.
There are lots of things you can do together, out of the house, that don't have to be in groups. My ex and I used to, for example:
picnic in the park - for no special reason
go for long walks around the neighborhood (we used to walk our dog together)
go to the beach (or lake or river)... late at night! We used to put our beach chairs in the surf and have long, deep conversations. Once, we lost track of time and didn't get home until close to 3AM!
Drive - and play your own version of carpool karaoke (our rules were that we got to pick our own songs on the way there, but pick each other's songs on the ride home!)
if you're into it, play a board-game or card game together (David loved to play Uno!)
we had a noisy and busy household (6 of my kids lived with us!) - so, sometimes we'd get fast food and just park somewhere... stay in the car and eat our meal with just us...
I don't know if you live (or sleep) together, but for David and I, we never ever - even in the midst of fights - went to bed without saying I LOVE YOU (although it was sometimes: I still love you!). Additionally, we never left the house without saying goodbye and I love you....
I'm a switch hitter! Jerking off with the "non-primary" hand (in my case, as a right-handed person, that would mean my left is non-primary) almost feels like someone else is doing it - which is preferable!
I like to switch tho... jerk right for a bit, then switch...
HOWEVER, I almost always CUM holding it in my RIGHT hand!
Even if you can't, you should keep going for your partner who hasn't finished yet
I have little respect for those that once they cum, they leave me hanging and I am forced to jerk off to ejaculation….
I never once stopped after I came before my partner
But back then I had certain hang ups about my hole, I thought once it started to show any signs
of wear and tear from all the hundreds of guys and all the thousands of fuck it would be considered
used up, and less desired.
I, for the most part, have always preferred a visibly used hole