@lololulu19 Problem is, all porn actors are acting. Any number of reasons, that we don't know, why that could be his comfortable way of doing sex for pay.

If in his "me time" he prefers a woman - he's straight.
If he'd prefer a man - he's gay.

He could still be flexible & do it with either - we're guessing his inner preference, ie. mind-reading.

@Dremric I thought that as long as POS people took their medication, it was not life threatening. I knew of one young guy who refused to take his medication, and died.

@raphjd I have a male cousin who was repeatedly raped by his mother's best friend when he was 13 years old.

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Both your brain and the porn are working as intended. It's hard for some people to realize that porn is a drug like any other, that you get self gratification from it like any drug and yes, you can get addicted. This addiction can present itself in many many ways, not all of them will be as harmful as completely killing your will to have real sex, but it can happen.

There are two conflicting discourses that are popular in our current time. One saying that porn is actually good for you, that it gets you to discover and explore new things, that it's liberating, etc. And the other saying it's actually the opposite, that you should avoid it completely.

Thing is, just like any drug, the frequency and amount will be key factors to what negative impact it'll have in your body. Quitting any drug is hard, but sometimes it's neccessary.

As an addiction, you put a considerable amount of your thoughts and free time into using that drug, the primary thing to successfully rehab yourself is to occupy your mind and your free time with something else. You can go out with friends, go to the gym, run, binge watch movies or TV shows, start playing a new game, all sorts of things.

The act of downloading and watching porn becomes just an habit after some time, you just do it and that's it. That's until you stop, then you'll definitely feel super important, you'll feel like you're missing out on good porn that you might never come across again, all sorts of thoughts like this.

But just like any habit, it's just a matter of consistency and time. Whatever you pick to override your addiction, make it something you enjoy and are able to do with the same frequency that you watch porn.

@johnmartinez you have to tell this person your feelings and see if they are mutual. You also have to state your boundaries for the relationship you want incase they don't fall in line with his. This is the only way for a successful relationship. As long as what you both want work with each other then great!

@lololulu19 You just wanna see the cute young jocks getting fucked while you are! LOL

'ethic'. you mean ethnic?

@eobox91103 thx for this list

What a surprise that you would volunteer yet another aberrant and useless train of thought.

@happycamping
My dog has trouble counting. I tell him he has 4 legs. He is not so sure, he says he has legs at many different sides. He tells me he has 2 on the left side and 2 on the right side. Then there are 2 at the front and 2 at the back side. Then there are 2 at this side and 2 at that side. Then there are 2 at the north side and 2 at the south side but then there are also 2 at the east side and 2 at the west side. Lots and lots of different sides.

Swallowing, I feel, is a sign of respect. Me taking what you are giving. But I completely agree with the guys who are saying that the "five second warning" is a must!

@Duvet said in Have you ever been caught masturbating?:

RY carefull and UBER fast.

I think this concept led to most of us cumming too quickly because were always trying to hurry things as much as we could so we could get off before being caught. Pity.

@nickcruise It is very important that you can do this with a top that is patient and that you can trust.If done properly, it's actually an amazing feeling, especially once you get past the thickest part of the fist. Make sure to use lots of lube of some sort and to work it in slowly one little bit at a time.

@frostycab
I gave up buying in the UK either from shops or online a few years ago. I found great inconsistencies, which I suspect are down to how they are stored by the supplier. None of the brands show any trackable supplier information. I usually pay £8 - £10 a large bottle online.

As to the hit/buzz/rush. I have a suspicion that the body adapts to use of a particular brand and so the hit is not so good after a while. You change to a different brand and back comes the hit. I don't really know. I remember dancing and giggling with poppers when I was young but I don't get that rush nowadays!

As to the suppliers - I suspect we are not supposed to give details. They advertise online though, there is one I use in Germany and one in France that have been around forever. If you look on their sites you will see they give proper information as to what they are supplying. If the site you are looking at don't do that, go look at another site.

Given that I live near Toronto, I can tell you that Toronto is hit or miss these days and is always changing. Montréal is where it's at these days unless you're into drama queens.

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It seems that by far, the most popular are the Lovense Edge and the Lovense Lush.