My all time favourite is BIKE. and the good news they are back https://www.bikeathletic.com although different country of manufacture

@truthbtold6 said in What gives you the best orgasms?:

@andergarcia said in What gives you the best orgasms?:

When he's fucking me hard and hits my insides  :)

Not sure if this is the same but when he cums inside of me. I love when he tells me he is going to cum and I get to tell him to breed me, please.

I love that too, but that's not my BEST orgasm! The BEST ones for me come when I'm being restrained and can't touch my own cock, then I'm brought to orgasm -either directly, or with some edging- completely out of my own control!

At least those are the times when I cum the MOST and HARDEST!

I've said many times: pulling out is for porn! That is: not for real-life! The penis is a semen-delivery-system designed to deposit the fluid as deeply as possible into the target. You are genetically programmed to want to pump your load deep!

When I was single and living alone I jerked off at least once a day, usually twice a day on weekends. Now it's only a couple times a week. But I can only really go all out edging for hours when I'm staying in a hotel which fortunately happens a couple times a month for my job.

While I jerk off less, the anticipation of my big edge sessions makes it a real treat and feels insanely amazingly good when I'm finally stroking my cock!

My beliefs - not stated as facts, nor being judgemental of people who believe or act differently:

I think, as with COVID-19, safety comes first, but what that safety IS may be different depending on where you live:

I live in Florida, USA - I am on a drug class called PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) that makes sex with-or-without a condom safe from HIV (but not any other STD!). I can have bareback sex without worrying about contracting HIV... but we'd be foolish to ignore other STDs and focus solely on HIV! So there are times I have bareback sex, but mostly I use condoms to protect against those other STDs. Most importantly, though: I have ZERO worry about contracting HIV - regardless of whether we use a condom or not - and that's nice! Plus, my insurance pays 100% of the PrEP (because it's a preventative), so it's FREE to me! My cousin lives in a European country (I will leave it unnamed here) where PrEP isn't available (at least not for that use), so he doesn't HAVE the option to use PrEP - and thus condoms are his safest bet. Always! When he has bareback sex (which he admits to doing - though he professes "only on 3rd dates or later" [Really? he "dates"? - but I digress...] he gets worried - esp if the other guy disappears or reveals that he's been promiscuous...[are there Gay Guys who are single and who are NOT promiscuous? Just saying! LOL] My cousin-in-law [brother's wife's brother?] lives in Australia, but is already HIV+ and takes modern HIV drug therapy. He is "undetectable," as-is his husband [they were both HIV+ before they met - in fact, an HIV support group is how they met!]. They do not use condoms, even though they regularly have 3rds join them for sex. (No, I haven't joined them - I've never been to Australia, and they've never come here in the US...) They do not profess to have any worries about HIV (so long as they stay on their meds), nor do they say they worry about spreading HIV, as all the medical experts seem to agree that undetectable = untransmittable.

So, depending on your circumstances, safety first may mean mandatory use of condoms, or it may not...

In my mind, people on the HIV meds - whether HIV- on PrEP or HIV+ and undetectable - are the safest people to have sex with - WRT transmission of HIV, anyway...

People who are HIV- and not on PrEP should be using condoms because otherwise, they're putting their own health in the hands of the people they're having sex with (even if in a relationship!)

People who are HIV+ and are not taking meds (or are not undetectable yet) should also be using condoms, as otherwise they are endangering those other people - in what I PERSONALLY would consider a criminal way.

Would that life was full of easy answers... but that's not the Universe we live in, now, is it? This shit gets complicated... and it always does! We just do the best with what we know (so far)...

One final comment:

The COVID-19 mRNA vaccines are a DIRECT result of Moderna and Pfizer research looking into HIV vaccines. Now, HIV isn't a corona-virus, but the research having already been done, they didn't have a difficult time getting the technology "re-tuned" for COVID - and quickly!

This bodes well for future vaccines (esp. since the PREDICTED protection levels were in the 70% range, with a 50% range considered a "success" - and the 90+% rate achieved being astronomically above expectations!)... and it may yet bode well for an HIV vaccine.

Remember though: when we say something is a vaccine we are saying that it is something that triggers our own immune system into successfully fighting off the pathogen. You still have to have an immune system, which some HIV sufferers do not.

So, no panacea - no miracles - no cure-alls - but some early, and promising, steps into the next phase of our (humanity's) fight against disease.

I was 25.5 years old. Lost it to a guy. Happened on July 4th. Not a good first time.

I could as a teen - and it earned me about $5k in college tuition money (I did some porn)... I could get about half into my mouth comfortably - if I pushed hard, I could get to the root!

I could suck myself off back then - these days (maybe because of that) I'm VERY hard to get off orally.

I lost the ability to suck myself in my 30's.... :(

@kraykid Im into all kinds of shiny shorts. Love the feel an looks.

@martin526 & bi4smooth I agree with what's been said above, especially the "pulling out before you cum" stunt.

One peeve of mine is bored actors. I realize that it's a paying job, and one actor might not be turned on by another actor...but hey, guys, you are acting. Act like you're enjoying it even if you aren't, but don't overdo it.

Then there's lack of communication between actors. Yes, we know that the reason you switched from doggy style to missionary is because the director told you to. But again, it's acting: Have the bottom say, "I want to try it on my back."

Also, let's be creative: It seems that 90% of the time the bottom sucks the top's cock first, and then maybe the top reciprocates before they start fucking. How about switching it up more 50/50 so we can be a little surprised at the outcome (so to speak). While top/bottom identification can be obvious from the start when there's some "macho" guy paired with an effeminate twink, if it's two Fratmen-type guys, leave us in suspense for a while.

On a more general level, these problems don't occur as much in purely home-made porn. The lighting and camera angles aren't as good, but real people having real sex often make better videos than the "professionals." Maybe the pro directors need to get laid more often.

@martin526 said in I want to have sex with all men I’m attracted to:

Anytime I meet a meet another gay man I’m attracted to, I instantly want to fuck them. It’s hard to have friendships with gay men, because I want to have sex with each one I come across.

Whenever I hang out with another gay male, especially if they’re attractive, I can’t help but feel a sexual tension, and sometimes, it feels like they feel the same.

There’s certain actions, the ways we look at each other, it feels like our eyes are screaming rip my clothes off grab my neck and kiss me.

I would love to have more friendships based off common interests, but the common interests make me feel even closer to them, and then I want to have sex with them.

Does anyone else have trouble like this with their male friendships?

There is a difference between "attraction," "desire," and "action."

I am attracted to a LOT of men... that attraction translates into DESIRE in some of them (that is, I might actually DO something to meet or converse with them)... and sometimes I'm luck enough that the desire turns to ACTION.

If I am single (and I am currently), or I'm otherwise NOT in a monogamous relationship, the number of guys I sleep with is purely a personal choice. These are the days of online hookups after all! Never let someone shame you with words like "slut" just because you get more sex than they do! Consenting adults can fuck whomever and as often as they like! We are PROGRAMMED (genetically) to like sex - without that programming, we would have been an extinct species a LONG LONG time ago!

However, when there IS a relationship in play, my desires should NEVER turn to action - out of respect for my partner (and myself). I can control my desires (to a point - I have been seduced before!), and if I lose that control (say, I'm too drunk to stop myself) I usually regret it.

Still, if you cannot control your desires, you may need counseling. There is nothing wrong with needing or seeking counseling (I have found it extremely helpful at various times in my life!)

FWIW - I'm "easy" when I'm single... I've had sex with 4 different guys (not an orgy - separate "encounters") in a 24-hour period before! But that is a rarity... these days (COVID days) I'm lucky to get laid more than 3-4 times a month. (Oh the pain, says Dr. Smith! :) )

But I think your question ALSO goes to mixing friendship with sexual activity. And that can be a tricky thing... BUT, in my experience, so long as you discuss and agree on the "limits", there shouldn't be problems (though there always will be - as with any friendship). What kind of discussion?

Will this be a one-time thing? Or are we gonna be FWB? If we do this, are we gonna still just be friends, or will we be lovers? If "just friends", are we both clear we're not looking to BECOME "lovers"? Or are one or both of us open to this growing into more?

You get the idea... TALK about it! (My current "candidate" for a boyfriend needs to be trained to talk about HIS wants and needs... he keeps it all bottled up inside him... I'm not clairvoyant (not even in drag!)... he's gotta tell me what works best for him and what doesn't! LOL

Communication is REQUIRED for good sex AND for good friends! Why wouldn't it ALSO be needed for a good FWB?

I know that when it comes to porn, I prefer a nice face shot then seeing someone blow his load in an ass.

@kamyk said in Advice for sucking cock and breathing:

@kekkaishi
If it really is your thing (and it's partially a thing of mine too) realize this: There are many people who do things like swim or dive, or other things of that sort who practice holding their breath. Some can hold their breath for up to two minutes, Some even longer, although that is not the norm. And of course, they are not forcibly inserting something down their throat at the same time, which complicates learning the technique. It is partially about breathing, learning to pull off far enough to get a lungful before going back down, but also about extending the time you can hold your breath.

I am able to deep throat for about 1 minute before having to back off enough to get some air in through my nose at least. There is also a reason why you see people in porn lick around the head and shaft a minute, or rub it on their cheek, before continuing, and it's not purely cock worship.

Also, if the idea is not abhorrent to you, some people like to make you gag, both for the feeling of control, and because it makes your throat tighten around their dick. You can also learn to control the gag reflex caused by choking, at least far enough that you don't throw up. Either way, gag or not, as the person above says, practice makes perfect.

At 57 years young, I've never believed I had enough practice... I always need to "work on my technique" :)

Behind a truck, parked on a residential street. Not sure if it qualifies as risky at all, but the thrill of it got me going

I'm afraid these went out in the 90s. Best I can find so far is these searches

https://www.amazon.com/QBO-Vintage-Graffiti-Style-Denim-40/dp/B0156SUR1W/ref=sr_1_86?dchild=1&keywords=shiny&qid=1631475251&s=apparel&sr=1-86

https://www.ebay.com/sch/260012/i.html?_from=R40&_nkw=shiny+jeans&LH_TitleDesc=0

Walk away, people who don't know what they want usually end up hurting others.

12cm it's quite small

@kekkaishi

Bareback started out as a gay term, but I would say most younger people in the west know what it means.

Bareback can be used for either gay or hetero, despite its original meaning of unprotected anal sex.