So, some advice you asked for and some advice you didn't ask for.

I'm Jewish and was circumcized when I was 8 days old.  I have a very sensitive penis.  Talking with guys who were circumsized when they were adults - there is a higher possibility of problems with pain and infection as an adult but as an adult you are better able to take care of yourself and be aware if there are problems.  If it's done by someone who is a trained specialist you shouldn't expect any loss of pleasure.

The advice you didn't ask for.  It's a red flag when a person you are in a relationship with is telling you that you are "too unclean to touch" until you change an aspect of your body.  Do not get circumcised/a tattoo/a piercing that you do not want to please someone else.

Back in the late 90s I figured out that I have good Queerdar.  About 5 guys I identified as to myself as being Gay (over a couple of years) came out as Transwomen.
So, I can pick up something with men or women that might end up being Trans or Bisexuality or Gayness but I'm not neccesarily good at distinguishing 'Gay' in particular.
Except for celebrities - I even figured out Dumbledore from the books.

I'm going to mainly disagree with you.

1/  Is there no good gay romance written by (straight) women?
Brokeback Mountain, The Front Runner, the Nightrunner series, and The Catchtrap come to mind as good gay romance stories written by women.

2/  The Seme/Uke tendency of (mostly) straight men fucking chicks with dicks is something that gay men write as well.  The fantasy of straight men fucking other men is very popular even in porn for example Broke Straight Boys.

3/  Yaoi developed in Japan quite separately from the development of m/m in North America.  Here it came out of fanfiction culture, largely female but not exclusively, who write romance stories about their favorite characters.  M/M represents male with male, M/F represents male with female, and F/F represents female with female.  Quite often you'll see men forced into hyper-feminine and hyper-masculine roles but that's based on how heterosexual romance tends to be written:  Mr. Darcy is older, wealthier, higher social status and smarter than Elizabeth Bennett.  Women will write X-Files fanfiction where Scully is completely subordinate to Muldaur as well as fanfiction where Krychek is completely subordinate to Muldaur.

4/  Homophobia doesn't come out of reading YAOI.  It doesn't particularly get rid of homophobia either.  It's no different from straight men watching "lesbian porn".

#4

The guy who has had inflammatory bowel disease and would much rather poop in a public toilet than in his pants.

Fucking with a condom where the top doesn't pull out when he comes.  Let's see the condom filled with cum when he pulls it out of the ass.

It's not quite a turn-off but it's something that throws me off with condoms in porn.
1/  The magic appearing condom - putting on a condom can be sexy.  Having one just appear throws me out of the moment.
2/  Why, why, why doesn't anyone ever come in a condom.  Guys pull out, take the condom off, then jerk-0ff.  I'd love to see someone coming inside the bottom then pullling out with the condom full of his load.

OK, I'm going to be shallow. 
Long hair is a boner killer.
If I see a man-bun I won't even bother downloading.

Nope enough.

You are claiming to be an expert on Islam, Islamic exogesis, and Quran.  There are standards.

You have said that the Quran states that Allah forbids homosexuality.  Here is a site with various English translations of the Quran.  Tell all of us which verse(s) state some version of 'man shall not have sex with other man'.  Having read and taught the Quran I say that it's interpretation but you insist that it's explicit - put your money where your mouth is.

https://quran.com/?local=en

You've stated that Muslims believe that the word of Allah as being put forth in the Quran is the authority.  Please identify the Islamic jurists who state this in each of the four main Sunni madhabs as well as the main Shia groups.  I think that they use Ahadith, analogy, and cultural norms as sources for religious laws and as the basis for the interpretation of those (very) few laws put forward in the Quran.

I'm neither a Liberal (the political party Justin Trudeau heads) nor a liberal.  I'm just tired of conservatives making up their own facts, lying their heads off, and not shutting up when it's pointed out that:  Coronavirus exists, the Protocols of the Elders of Zion was created by the Russian secret police, the Earth is more than 6,000 years old, vaccines don't cause Autism….

Hello from Toronto.

Very hairy, a bit more than 'chubby'.

What an interesting article.

:announce: :thankyou:

It's very much appreciated.  It'll be a lot easier for us to find Transmen videos now there's a category.

Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!  Thank you!

G'Day from Toronto.

We say the same in the Ottawa Valley accent.

Looking at the three torrents, the pictures don't match the title.  You may want to try a reverse image search to identify the model.

Click on your own name on this site to see how many Torrents this site thinks you're downloading.
You may have a bunch of incomplete torrents that this site will consider active downloads; I currently have two.
If that's what's happening then click on the button for active downloads to know the names of the problem files - delete them from your Torrent server and you'll be good to go.

Stay away from Gay & Muslim.

Other topics in Religion don't seem to be toxic.

Granted, I do not wish to debate religion.  I do interfaith work and enjoy conversations but the idea that the only way that you will speak with someone whose experience is different than yours is by trying to force them into your opinion is not pleasant.

One of the phrases I like from (English translations/interpretations of) the Quran is "Allah has made you separate peoples and nations so that you can learn from one another; not that you should despise one another."  I like hearing what the process of Lent means to a Christian and sharing what the process of the 49 days between Pesach (Leaving Egypt) and Shevuoth (Recieving the Torah) means to me.  If you're interested in civil conversation, let's talk.

I warn people away from here.

Well, I think of a few Canadian shows that I never hear anyone talk about.  All of them are fun and most of them have significant queer content.

Andromeda - Star Trek and the Renaissance.
Lost Girl - Bisexual urban fantasy
Letterkenny - rural comedy with lots of queer characters
Eureka - town of mad scientists
Godiva's - dramedy set in a high end restaurant
Wonderfalls - Bryan Fuller's first series.