Posts made by warpaint

Yeah I know exactly what you meant by that but I still think it's wrong.

If it's about the parents. I can't put myself in positions like that though I tried so many times. My parents were not keen on me being gay too but I just worked it out. I made them accept me, I was very stubborn, didn't let myself be a victim or smth. My mum is like a church freak so it was hard but eventually I just invited my bf for every weekend and she began to like him. I don't think she still thinks it's okay and is cool with it but at least I stopped hearing things like "one day you'll have a wife" "you'll never be happy" "you're not normal" everytime I was like "well, fuck off" : D But we still love each other. Who would think we made like thousand dumplings together the whole yesterday.
I think sometimes people coming out should stand their ground really hard and be stubborn about everything. But this kind of behaviour will not be able to achieve if you're not fully at peace with yourself. If it's still not working then probably parents ARE total dicks. But that's how it is if someone is treating their child as a duty or an addition. But that's totally offtopic right now. Sorry.

So. Have you had any funny episodes of coming out to random people ?  ;D

For example my friend was in the club with friends. And there was this girl that kept complimenting him. She started to get really close and stuff and say she wants to kiss him or smth or buy a drink and he was like. NO. I don't want a drink. I prefer sausages. And she couldn't understand what he meant Until he kissed the other guy.

I was hurrying somewhere and there was this girl that goes around the city square and tries to convince guy to go to the strip clubs.
Of course she had to come and talk to me and she was like:

• come on! there's a party there will be a show and stuff
• yeah, yeah I don't have time for this
• but WHY - in such an accusing tone, she stood on my way and really wanted to know the answer
• just don't
• but there will be a show!
• yeah I don't care
• A SHOW. Don't you wanna see the show.
• (for God's sake) what show?
• There will be hot girls dancing ! (see, huh, convinced you now?)
• Oh if that's so… come a little closer
  And she's like wut ?
• Yeah, come closer
  She comes closer I move my mouth to her ears and shout:
  I'M GAY.
  Haha you should see her face. Like seeing a ghost or something. No questions asked after that. She looked like this:

Youtube Video

Envy?
Nobody deserves parents like this.
14. Gradually of course. Never had a big comeout like posting on facebook or doing a party or whatever. Just people got to know. And it's no longer a thing of 'you have to know something about me', no it's just natural.

Are you guys being gay really feel offended by a sweating male body after workout?

I always go with bath gels. Something like Axe or similiar. I just like to feel a manly smell when I'm taking a shower…

@dist:

I've read many of those articles that say sleep this and eat that. In the end of the day, I do what feels right for me and what my body tells me to do. If I'm hungry at 1 am, I will eat at 1 am. If I'm wide awake at 11 pm,  I will stay awake until I get sleepy. I'd say I'm pretty happy with my current form. But I do wonder, if I had followed the guidelines of those articles, maybe I would've looked like Wolverine by now (since I've been lifting weights for 4 years).

Yeah that sounds quite right. Nope I don't think you would look like one. I mean, depends on what articles you're talking about. If it's about "healthy" lifestyle it's bullshit as bearlove noticed. It just doesn't work and it's a sad bullshit for middle age women to come back to form. Actually bodybuilding articles never quite say you should do something one way or the other. They always just lead you to the right direction but the choice is always yours after all. They never make you one perfect solution cause it always depends on an invidual and the body.

Maybe you guys don't know about it but yeah, here in Poland every women is convinced that not eating after 6p.m will save their life and make them healthy and skinny. REALLY. It's funny cause some people who think they are healthy or vegan or smth don't really know what their doing. So I will always listen to those bigger guys who actually do something with their body and you can see the effect of their knowledge. So yeah dist. I'm doing the same. If I'm hungry ad 1 am I will eat. You just have to stick to your macro.

@lovebearlove:

@warpaint:

3 to 6.
Depends how much duties I have and if I'm feeling good. But I need to really feel utterly bad to not work out at all. 6 is a max cause of course I want to have effects so I take days off for regeneration. Mostly it's 4-5 times though.

6 times? ur really pushing urself to the edge…..arent u 

Well for example this week I had 6 but it was not the same training I always do. For example I did 2 full workouts and then the third day I just did some of the chest for that day and then the fourth day I just did chest again but in different places with different exercises. Usually I do this in one workout but I just changed it for fun because I had a P.E. lesson which also has a gym so I wanted to try the equipment so I purposely did more workouts but divided them into two days. Then back with bic and tric (I try to do them more often cause they're such a small part) and a day off and back to the cycle. I just usustally do 1.push 2.pull and on 3 day legs with shoulders. a day off and then over and over again. So yeah it might sometimes take 6 days a week. But I totally watch out for the regeneration I think about which of my part is already cool and can work out again and if something's wrong I try to do something different. Not pushing myself too hard, but I really want this. I'm just mad that I don't have such good genetics as all other people have. I would be a fucking strongman already with all of that dedication.

Well the truth is it takes time. I get pissed off because most of the guys here can easily achieve the shape I would dream of in 3-6 months. Some guys are just genetically built for it, some don't. And that's probably dist and I. I had to put really a lot of work to do that. I gained 20kg but not in a single day or month. I just started to eat more, spend time with pushups and some occasional ABS. I'm still far away from what I want but everybody tells me I'm actually a whole different person.
You see muscles don't just grow from eating. You have to work out you have to have a good training system you have to have a diet to load some proteins cause if you eat fats and carbs that won't give you any muscles, so all those things contribute to a body. Obviously you did something wrong. But everybody does at first. It takes time and practice to know what's good for you and what you can and can't do. It needs work and dedication but the beginings are really pleasant when you see the effects. So man up and try again if you don't like your body.

They need sleep but what time do you go to bed… well it's just your thing. If you say you have 8 hrs of sleep it's cool. You're day starts later than anybody else's and ends so. If it was really affected by that imagine guys near the poles who have polar day and night for like half an year. Wouldn't have much sense. You just need to sleep it out. If you stay up late it's of course not super good for you but if you still eat enough you'll be alright. Eating for sleep is actually good for gym enthusiasts. I feel bad for women. Someone told them the shouldn't eat past 6 p.m. and that's such a bullshit.

3 to 6.
Depends how much duties I have and if I'm feeling good. But I need to really feel utterly bad to not work out at all. 6 is a max cause of course I want to have effects so I take days off for regeneration. Mostly it's 4-5 times though.

@hngn2:

answering the phone

You think so?
Me and my ex were 8 hours drive apart. We rented an apartment for the night in the capital halfway.
Haha when we got there we couldn't keep hands of each other and then after few hours of sex the owner called me and my bf was like "answer it! answer it and I will suck your dick and let's see if you can keep focus" that crazy sexy mother fucker…

Plus what?

Sia Furler

Adele Adkins

Jillian Banks

Theresa Wayman & Emily Kokal

Dua Lipa

Agnieszka Chylińska

Monika Brodka

Zalef

Justin Vernon

Ben Howard

Popek

Colton Ford

my city is 8th biggest in the country and sill there are mayb 2-4 people including me using Scruff here.
Grindr is much more popular but Grindr is a fckin pain in the ass because out of 120 guys near me only 40 have a legit pic. mostly it's a fucking lake, forest or just annonimous body or a leg or a sneakers. am i the only one pissed off by it ? when I travel around the world I usually use grindr and tinder, scruff too sometimes. I had a lot of other apps but they were all useless. even daddyhunt. maybe it's just the area, it doesn't do any justice here in Poland. tinder has a lot of guys but they don't talk. if they do well it's mostly not about sex so it's good and pretty cultural. i met my first long time boyfriend there. now when I'm shuffling through the guys it's just 'no, no, no, fucking no, nope, not no, never, gosh". grindr is the best and universal tool but there are a lot of nasty messages actually and that turns me off pretty much. scruff is the best in terms of a target I guess. guys there are mostly muscled hairy and cool but as I said it's not popular in my place + some guys are weird.

@Gman2034:

When he's in a hurry.

Ohhh. Hate it too. I spotted it in a lot of people lately.
One guy was rimming me like 5 minutes after starting kissing. And I was like "whaaa…whaa...whaaaaa. wait and get the fuck out i'm a top" as he was trying to get his dick in me. The other guy went like through 30 positions of kamasutra in 10 minutes xD That was funny too. I'm always like "hey, we have all night why rush? it's cool like this. let's pay attention to every little detail on our body". That's why I also don't like poppers and guys on poppers. Generally drugs. I just don't see the point. I loved it with my ex that we were doing it without anything - only music. No drinks, no smoking, no sex toys, no drugs, no fetish. We were getting along amazingly and still could have one sex for a few hours. We were just pasionate for each other. That's how it's supposed to be I guess.

It's kind of weird. Or is it not? I mean godfather isn't technically your family (but can be) right? So it only matters in terms of religion ? But that's a huge age difference. Cool for you. I mean it's not like I'm saying it's bad or smth it's just something new to me. Didn't expect that.

EEeeeee?
I don't fucking get it.
Maybe I shouldn't.

@zvonac:

could be two things:

medications

excessive jerking off to porn

Can the second one be healed ? xd

@rfh005:

Thank you guys 

I think the greatest problem is inside my mind. I'm always unsatisfied with everything, including my body, especially now I'm nearly 30. I'd like to have a hot muscular body like an instagrammer or a pornstar. I know they have idealized and photoshopped bodies, but even so, that's the unreachable body type I'll never have.

Anyway, thank you all for your support.  ;D ;D

Actually that's some bullshit. They don't have idealized photoshopped bodies. That's a stupid way to think. My ex is very popular on instagram but he doesn't use any filters or photoshop. He just looks beautiful. I still can't find such masculine muscled and perfect body. But it took him some time to work on it. The truth is everybody can have a body like that. NOT like that ok, cause there are some genetics you can't change but if you have enough dedication and put enough hard work you can achieve that. Yeah I know some people say they are ill, some they just can't. The truth is there's at hishomeless guy who looks better than any of us even though he shouldn't have any possibilities to do so. There are guys with cancer or without legs that will still do anything to claim what they want.
I think it's just an excuse you're making. I was also always sad and sulky and thought I'm just a shadow but then a decision came to do something else with my life, something that works. I also always wanted to look like one of those guys. My father weights 41-46kg now. Something like that. I'm not joking. And he's like 167cm tall. Imagine what genes I have to deal with. But I suddenly grew taller and I'm really struggling with my weight. I was gained 18kgs then started the gym. I'm still not half of my big ex, but with my 81 I feel like a fucking stallion. My forearm is TWICE big it was before. And I really feel great. All I had to do was to find some interest in sports to become my dream self. And I will not stop. I'm training harder than yesterday I eat more, learn more. Of course some people are built to be powerlifters, some don't. But still you can get as close to that as possible and that's only your choice.
I don't know you, I have no reason to tell you this to make you feel bad, maybe you read this post and you think I'm a random internet troll or smth but the truth it is not my life, it's yours. I feel good cause I'm doing the best with mine. You're 30. You can still do it cause you're young never too late to start but you're running out of time too. Each day you'll postpone it you'll regret you didn't start earlier cause everyone goes through it, believe me.
I hope you'll make up your mind and fix something to feel good with your self. Wish you all the best.

@mhorndisk:

I'm doing a new show with some gay guys who really know their stuff. I'm looking for a lefty and a righty who will battle it out to the death. I'm the outsider/centrist/moderate/political atheist. You will both be asked questions regarding issues. The first show is about racism, and how you believe either side is racist. So homophobia, xenophobia, misogyny, islamophobia, etc will not be allowed in the first round, those are for later. The only thing you can talk about is racism in this first episode. I would like this to be three white gay men to give a 5-10 minute point by point video, and then a one minute response to the others if necessary later. There will be up to ten questions asked about each subject. Starting with Trump and if he's really racist. If you'd like to become a new star on this show please send me a message. Thanks.

Don't want to become a new star in your show, but it got me interested and I want to see it when you release it

Don't you think though 5-10 minutes is long enough already ? So it would be like 10 for each + replies + answers. It will take forever.