Haha yeah, wouldn't want you to be specifically be kicked in the balls
But thanks for answering though.
Feel sorry for you to be in such a pain while it lasted. Good thing you finally decided to do that.
Posts made by warpaint
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RE: Adult circumcision and sexually absent
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RE: What game are you obsessed of?
Well I had a lot of favourites. Probably Metal Gear Solid and Resident Evil series, but when it comes to OBSESSED that will surely be LIFE IS STRANGE. I didn't see a life beside this game really. It was so touching, so intriguing and intense. I'd say that is a MUST if you consider yourself a worthy player.
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RE: What porn genre do you usually watch
I'll take HD bareback porn with beefy/muscled/athletic guys maybe hairy, anytime.
But recently I have caught myself fancying porn when the bigger guys bottom or younger fucks or flipflops with daddies.
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RE: Which actor represents your perfect man
Not sure if any. I have few perfect types.
But I think Matthew Fox could be one of them.
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RE: Are you a smoker?
Well it acts great for the voice and singing.
But the sperm is bitter. BLEH. -
RE: Serious question i need an answer for
Problem solved…
Now show the nudes ! -
RE: Coming out : it's like waxing ?
Yep. That's it.
It's very stressful if someone doesn't reply at first. But they need to think it through sometimes. I know it's hard and you're on your toes literally and can't sleep or think about anything else but after day or two it's such a relief. Especially when you get some feedback. It's good to take of this weight and not bear it alone. -
RE: How to come out to a dad i barely talk to?
I know exactly what kind of situation you are in.
My dad was an alien too. I mean he's quiet, I didn't know anything about him. He's also from another country so he is isolated in Poland. He never talked about his feelings. I didn't know what he does, who he is, even what job does he have. I'd seen him every sunday for a few short hours. So I think I know how hard it is. Cause it is. It's just you don't know this man and even though it's your dad you just feel like it's a stranger which you are bounded still.
You should always do it with an honest conversation. I always encourage people to do that.
But well, I did this the other way. My mom did. She just told him. Just like that. So the problem solved thogh I told her I'm gonna do it myself. But she doesn't listen. I think half of my family know because she couldn't keep her mouth shut. But it still did the job. He texted me that he knows about my "otherness" but that doesn't change that he loves me. So yeah. If you have such a big problem then that's one way. -
RE: What's the process of coming out?
1. Admit that you're gay.
2. Watch some gay porn.
3. Have a boyfriend or date with guys.
4. Think through all the options and people you might tell or not tell.
5. Pick the best choice and proceed.
6. If you have a bf you can do it by introducing him he will also support you if anything goes wrong
7. If you don't have then just do a face-to-face conversation, or at least facebook
8. Leave clues for parents.
9. Tell your friends and gain experience.
10. Go from the easiest (most open ones) to the hardest.
11. When you're done with all that, start listening to Coldplay, go to Madonna concerts change your profile pic to RIhanna, and everyone else will know too. -
RE: Whom to come out?
Best friend. Really.
And girls first for me. Girls are more understanding. They appreciate that you trusted them and feel even better that you have more things to talk about now. Guys can be very confused about if they feel safe around you.
Older sister if you have one and you're in good relations.
Siblings are a lot easier to bear than the parents but they will also come around eventually.
I would say you should do it when you gain some experience at coming out starting with your best friends. Then it all depends on their reactions so you have to choose wisely not to hurt yourself. It will become easier and easier with time so pick all the friends you care about most and then check all the family. -
RE: Hardest person you had to come out to?
Probably to all the straight guys that I fell in love with
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RE: How to deal with people after coming out?
You don't
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RE: Am I gay?
Well I liked older guys too I was even less than a teenager. I had such a crush on my best friend's dad. God, I didn't even know what sex is then. But I had moments even when I was 15 y.o. that I should try with a girl. I saw one that I really liked and then she hopped on the bus with me and I was like "maybe that's it, this feeling, happiness , maybe that's love". But to be honest I was just happy to see her You will have doubts. And you will have problems in finding yourself out.
I don't say "You are gay. Deal with it."
Maybe you are straight and have lust that's hard to describe.
But I'm just showing you a way that it might be. You could say I didn't really have a DAD. That's probably how it all developed. But if you don't think of being gay as something weird and scary, just something natural then you might be closer to getting that answer you're seeking.
Maybe you don't dream of having a wife and kids. Maybe you dream of having just a family. And family can be created by two men too you know We just have to see it. We were raised to think of a family as a husband, a wife and kids but that's just a myth. Family is where your home and heart is Think about it. -
RE: How many people know you're out?
All in my family.
All in my band.
All of my friends.
All that I care about.
70% of my highschool class
90% of my college mates
The whole lesbian soccer club (don't ask)- couple of people in Dublin
I don't really hide it much. I don't tell people when I meet them first because I don't think of it as a declarance or something. If there's occasion I don't try to cover it. Only people at my work don't know, beside one girl who is studying with me. Well time will show. I don't feel any need to tell them because I don't care what they think, I'm just there to work. I have a little crush on two of my bosses But they have kids soooo.
I don't remember having any bad reactions. Like really really bad. Of course some of them heard by accident and out of my control, but never had any face to face confrontations or laughs or bullying. -
RE: Are you concerned about ISIS?
Well I'm maybe not concerned but pissed off about all the terrorist issues. I was to have a wonderful new year's eve and week off work in Greece and we didn't go because of the attack in Paris. Greece is dangerous too now, especially the islands, so that would be risky. Fuck terrorists actually.
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RE: Adult circumcision and sexually absent
I was always wondering and you can answer as a person who experienced both.
Your dick is more sensitive now I guess. How does that affect you ? I mean if you have it in your pants you still can stumble upon something or even feel the material on it. Or if someone kicks you in the balls and the dick it must be twice painful. Is that right ?
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RE: Which type of Porn turns you on the most?
Well if I had a choice of seeing guys fuck with condom or without I would take the latter.
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RE: Hottest male game character
1. Drake from Uncharted totally
2. Wakka from Final Fantasy X - my teenage years crush. Auron's good too, more mature and Final Fantasy XII had some hunks too, like Basch, Balthier, Vossler, Gabranth.
3. Joel from The Last Of Us
4. Chris Redfield
5. Barry Burton