Posts made by warpaint

@ethernet5:

No - 1 inch longer and about 1/3 thicker please. & yes I would like fries with that.

Made ma skratta xDD

Well honestly hmm, could be bigger. I mean it's average so I'm okay with it - it's the way how I like dicks - not too big, not too small. So on one hand it's not impressive when it just hangs and I don't have chances with big muscle power bottoms and bisexual guys looking for xxxxl dicks but on the other hand it fits everywhere it needs to go and I have more chances with the guys that don't usually bottom cause it's less painful.

Good point. Kingdom Hearts well… it is emotional but the story is so fucked up. Like it's emotional totally on purpose. I mean, I know how absurd it might sound, but well who creates an unexisting character to let it disappear and everone forgets about them. Gash this game is so weird but so dark. I thought it's supposed to be a game for kids lol

Persona 5 really killed me emotionally. Almost every awakening of the character and all of the plot twists.... and the ending. Totally immersed into it.

Don't you mean str8 cam jeff or Chizzad ?

Sounds a little bit sociopath. But you know him better than any of us do. No matter how many advices you get. If you're not sure there will be a risk. "Either… or either... ". Do it the way so you won't regret anything I wish I could say it's all ok but when I hear stories like this I always feel like the worst option is the true one.

No need to add anything  ;D
I'll just leave this here.

@raphjd:

I'm sorry. I'm just banned from every other gay site for being black and gay, so where the fuck else can I go?

Maybe you're banned for another reason?

@dzirlo:

thanks for proving my point. gosh this is too easy…

@Domosuke:

I just think it's time to die.

How far is too far ? That's the question? Well depends how you feel. Nowhere is too far if it's worth it of course. So confront your feelings.
Well as for me I'm always in LDRs. Eh. It is pretty hard but not impossible. Had 3 hours to my ex bf. Then there was 7-9 hrs for another. Now I'm dating since some time and it's hmm 'overseas'. So also, plane tickets and stuff. For now it's actually ok. Visits are every 2 months and it's ok the way it is for now. Also maybe because I gave it up a little. Not so stressed anymore and not taking it as a strict relationship. Just something easy going

The truth is - having a boyfriend won't fix your life.
If you hate being gay - be straight.
If you don't feel straight - accept being gay.
If you're unhappy - you'll still be unhappy but in a relationship.
Believe me. This is how it works.
So find a meaning, find a hobby reorganise yourself.
If you don't like something in you - change it.
If you hate being feminine - don't be.
Start gaining mass, go to the gym, put up a little muscle.
When you'll accept yourself - then it will be time to find a boyfriend.

Dick really doesn't matter.

@nickys1177:

just because you think you look good that any person out there from any country would be drooling over you

Two words.

Reading comprehension.

@Domosuke:

I notice this shit as well. I think it's crazy they play with your emotions and waste your time like that.

I was talking to this one guy who lived nearby me, (and mind you, he was the one that messaged me first) and asked if I would like to get a drink sometime.

I said yes, and to cut the bullshit agreed to go out for a drink that following Friday evening at a gay friendly venue in town.

He later replied and said he would love to, be he's swamped with work (so why did he did ask if I wanted to grab a drink then? lol)

So I said okay, rain check. He woudln't give me an answer back, I think he blocked me.

I was talking to another guy that contacted me. We were sending lots of messages back and forth for a couple days, and I up front asked if he wanted to go out for lunch one weekend.

He replied and said that would be great. (Mind you, he picked out this place.) He messaged me a place to meet up at.

So I arrive there, and the asshole never shows up.

I later find out he blocked me on the dating site.

So yeah. Lots of gay men do this. Why I don't know. But it's getting on my nerves.

That's exactly what I'm talking about.
Like fuck.
Why do these people start a conversation or agree on meeting if they don't even intend to.
Mental illness?

@clkkid:

Heres the weirdest thing, every time i lost weight, my butt is the first to get slimmed..HELP

Squats.

@Zeitgeist:

@jessiegirl:

Sit ups don't help reduce belly fat. They train your abs, which you won't see because of the fat. Also, there are much better core exercises you can do to train abs/oblique etc.

The three rules to lose that fat, in order of priority;

1. Diet - count your calories, get rid of processed foods, high protein
2. Strength / Resistance training - you burn a shit load of calories at the gym building muscle
3. Cardio HiiT training 25mins for times a week to speed up the process when you get down to a decent body fat percentage

Cardio is a tool put on top of the foundation of the first two when the process slows down a bit and you need to push the body harder to get down into the -15% body fat range. You shouldn't rely on cardio to lose belly fat.

Agreed. All three factors are integral to losing belly and gut fat.

Well I wouldn't agree on "burn a shit load of calories" at point 2. You're right with most of the things, but strength training doesn't burn a lot of calories. Cardio does, yeah.

• While doing the training while cutting - strenght training doesn't help you reduce fat. It helps you build muscles yeah, but that's two different things. You can't do both of those. There is one exception - if you don't workout or have a LOOOONG break and then start going to the gym, that's the period when for some time burning fat and building muscle is possible - but only then.

Do you knw anythig about such cases?
Tanks for replying : )

I agreee with you on this. Should be very careful nowadays. I always try to pose as that too. As I told someone and everybody knows where I am. So I kinda get the idea of using something like this. But not during a day lol. The worst that happened to me was guy not coming lol. But the danger is there and it's real.I didn't have a situation like you but been with guys alone of course. Sometimes it could've been a trap or something so I'm always suspicious but what saves me too probably is that I'm also very cocky. If someone is like "what if I tried to kill you" I'm like "you can TRY, but you don't wanna see what happens".

He's such a great guy. I only found out that he set up a gym.

That's what I said. We were supposed to go for a midnight stroll but oh well. That thing popped out.
I said like "ok if it's a problem we can meet tomorrow at a normal hour in a place full of people. you have my face I can give you a phone number too, get it to police or whatever you want" and he just stopped replying But let's be honest - would anyone.. actually do it? Would someone log and follow? Too much effort lol. At first I thought it's a bot but it wasn't. He assured me i's not a scam

I have a question:

What is it about with guys ? .. like really.
Okay, a little introduction. I have a good body. I work out I'm stil way from where I want to be but I'm getting such decent opinions. Face pretty okay too. I get a lot of attention on Scruff. Like I just logged in later in the day and I had 50 woofs. I was talked to by really hot guys sometimes even a porn star or a small insta celeb. Guys with lots of popularity say I look great and am such an intelligent person.
So now we move to the grindr app in Poland…
Wow, fuck. There aren't many guys I like. But if I do... we talk a little and we set a meeting. And they never come.
They just stop replying. I'm like - when do we meet and where and thye just disappear. Sometimes delete account. Sometimes don't reply. Another guy was supposed to visit me on weekend from another city and he said "i'm lazy, hmmm maybe you'll visit me", nobody makes an effort. They say people want sex, but even if I was up for sex or a hookup - still, the guys just stop replying and they don't come. So what do they wat ? What is it about ?

Hey guys. Did anyone stumble upon anyone who wants to meet you unless you follow them on some site called SAFE DATING ? they say it's for the meeting to be secure and someone to know where they're at and who they meet up with. Is this like legit? You guys had someone like that on grindr? To me it sounds like a scam or something.

@AimlessThund:

warpaint, I am sorry about your experience.  :hug2: That guy sounds really superficial. :blink:
What if you for example gained or lost weight.. :crazy2: Would he have ended things because of that?  You are better of without him and people like him.
I guess everyone is a bit superficial, but I don't understand how a "small" penis could be a deal-breaker.
I could understand if it's a micropenis, but 15 cm is more than enough, especially if it has girth.

Aww cute, thanks. I don't understand it either. Mine is a little over those 15 so not big, but I fucking love it. It could be bigger but at least I can fit it anywhere without lube and guys noticing I'm trying to fuck them hahaha. And I though this guy is a decent one…
So it doesn't matter for you guys. But there is a lot of dudes on grindr who won't even talk to anything under 21 cm. This is so funny. At least I know who to block.

@atlwrthit:

I think it is a good question, and not really an easy answer.  Yes, I agree with being cautious about being superficiality, , but there is also something said for honesty.  Years ago, early on in a conversation, a guy I was talking to made it clear that he only like 8+ which I am not.  It saved me a ton of time, because I am not 8+ and no need to judge him, at least he knew that was what mattered other than pretending to be something he is not.  It is kind of like would you want someone who hated giving head to "pretend" to like oral and then be dissatisfied later?

I think what you are describing is a yellow flag, not a red flag.  If you have the equipment he is looking for…then keep chatting.  Ask some other questions and see if he is really just a superficial prick, or just has a fascination with large dicks (which would not be unique to him).

@jkronfuss:

I don't know really, it's sex, I try not to be so judgemental when it comes to that. Sometimes I met bottoms that asked me whether I was close or above 19 cm for they told me "they would not feel my penis otherwise". I was shocked, to say the least but in the end. It's that. Some gays get to be really shallow but you could always choose not to talk to them anymore. That's what I do.  :blind:

What you both mentioned… I'm ok with that. But you skipped the most important part. I wouldn't bother with someone who is like that from the start. But the issues is - we talked for months before it happened. So it wasn't "early in the conversation".

We didn't talk since I started this topic. Says for itself...

as far as I know  - you're all talk : )

@hylas:

@warpaint: i also don't get the behaviour of some people. The guy in your 2nd paragraph is such a case. I guess he's enjoying the attention? Who knows.

But different folks consider different things to be rude. I don't think blocking someone you're not interested in is particularly rude… That way, they don't waste my time and i don't waste theirs. For example, Profiles without facepics are not interesting to me, i always block them right away. Not meant as a slight, it just means, I'm not for you, you're not for me.

Like totally.
Sociopaths? maybe.

No.
Blocking is a blessing.
And it shouldn't be considered personal. It's a path to success. Just don't take blocks personal - that's it. To me it means the same thing you just wrote in the last sentence. I hate faceless profiles… but I sometimes have hope that there is that one shy big muscled guy behind them hahahaha. Sometimes I will just text those profiles with "show your face" and some people will response - some won't. The ones that won't or are rude - sure are a waste of time.