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https://x.com/bear4milk

He is credited as "Cole" in other Dreamboybondage scenes.
Also credited as "Elder Hardt" for SayUncle videos.

His IAFD page: Elder Hardt

There's no way to talk about this without turning it into a therapy session, it's pointless to say anything that's opposing to your views if you're here with the sole intention of being right and teaching how things really are for the delusional gays, who love to cast their gayness onto our good, god-fearing straight men.

For as much as I agree that being submissive and eager to show your hole, or have it played with, has nothing to do with one's sexuality, what you are describing in your arguments is just wishful projection:

You are actively shaping the conversation to validate your own narrative that straight men can (and do) engage with gay men for the giggles, while remaining straight. Depending one how many of those "experiences" you've had, it's easy for you to extrapolate this as a baseline. Just take yourself as an example, you describe yourself as "privately openly gay" as if that was an actual thing, when in fact you are simply a gay man who everyone assumes to be straight, and you have the last say on who will know you're not.

You see yourself as someone who is just another non-flamboyant, judgement-free bro, and still it never occurred to you that you might be signaling to them that people can be gay in secret.

You say that it's possible to be straight and still enjoy assplay and submission, while some will say that these are seemingly "gay" stuff.
You also say that these guys are absolutely and objectively straight... Because they don't look gay and are married to women; Things that are seemingly straight... To you!

You are just as sure about their sexuality as are the other people in that comment section, you simply disagree on the final value. But at the end of the day, you all know just as much about the guy (his name, some private family photos, his hole...) and you assume whatever aggregates to your own narrative.

In the end, the core idea that I'm trying to convey is that no one truly knows the full story, and we will always project our own biases onto others’ actions and behaviors. It might be very easy to spot when others are doing it, but not so easy when it's ourselves.

@mcondor you can, but you must not select the same categories as the original torrent, instead you must select ONLY the "images" category.
add a link referencing to the original torrent in the description.
this is optional: name your torrent as "Thumbnails for (name of the original torrent)"

@cp2000 his porn name is Justin Cox, but for that scene in particular he is credited simply as "Dylan II"

The file is available in this torrent: STHJ - the early years - PACK

File name is "Slow Teasing handjobs - Polishing the Knob and Stroking the Head.avi"

He's also featured in "Slow Teasing Handjobs - Four Teasing Hands Dylan.avi" from the same pack.

@cp2000 For as valid as your experience and arguments might be, presenting them as a response to a debate that didn't start here and that we don't have access to doesn't incite to start the same discussion here. Maybe framing it as a broader question, rather than just presenting your experience, would make it easier for others to jump in.

the whole star system is pointless and stupid because it does not explicitly indicates if what is being rated is the content or the distribution itself.

Some people use the stars to rate the content, how well it fits their expectations, or how they rate the production value (framing, lighting, image quality etc), some people use it to indicate that the content is faithful to what is advertised in the torrent page.

Some people will download a torrent, not like it, and still give 5 stars because it has good previews, good description, thumbnails included, etc.

There will be torrents where the uploader has clearly put a lot of effort, and it will be rated poorly because someone didn't like the actor, or because it lacked cum scenes, or they look too bored, etc...

Long story short, it was a lazy implementation that to this day nobody really cared enough to bother fixing its problems and making it useful.

tl;dr: don't waste your time looking at ratings.

@Richiroma you need to upload roughly 3 TB to go from 0.93 to 1.1
I don't know how many bonus points you have but I suspect it won't even tickle

heck, since i joined in 2017 i have only uploaded 4 TB lol

@Richiroma the thing is, fixing your ratio can be really hard depending on how much you have downloaded.

If you have downloaded 100GB and uploaded 10GB (therefore 0.1 ratio), uploading 100 GB would be enough to increase your ratio to 1.1. And it would be very easy to extrapolate this, and upload 200 GB, going to 2.1.

But if you have downloaded a lot more, let's say 2TB... Uploading 200 GB will be just 0.1. A pretty negligible number, despite the effort needed to upload 200 GB.

The first thing you need to do is check your numbers, have a good idea of how much you need to upload to achieve a ratio that is satisfactory to you.

If it turns out to be a big value, there is no easy way, and uploading your own torrents will be the fastest and most reliable approach.

As you have pointed yourself, freeleech torrents have a high demand, this means you are competing for the opportunity to seed. If you spend your own points to make torrents freeleech, you are contributing to increasing the ratio of all other seeders, and you might never get to seed it yourself, or seed only a small fraction.

@Minerboh80 Salvador Mendoza & Anteo Chara, video from FuckerMate

can be found here but has only 2 seeders, you might have trouble downloading:
https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=df1c5179f71f8cdc8cca2248b61a61e3d6aa484154b07f46

@noelburgundy i switched from utorrent to qbittorrent back in 2019 and i'm pretty happy with it, the features serve me really well

Scene: https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=3f90ded6f1b73caa8cca2248b61a61e3780669b392729859

@tommykrenke it doesnt need a re-seed, it has many seeders. you can try to request a freeleech here: https://community.gaytorrent.ru/topic/61578/seedbonus-pooling-to-make-torrents-freeleech

make sure to make it clear that you're requesting a freeleech because of the torrent size

@romantyke i am your antithesis!

i am aromantic, meaning i often don't feel any connection with sex partners other than the physical attraction. to me all attraction towards my partners come from what i see, smell, and of course from whatever i project onto them, which is inevitable. once i start to know them more intimatelly, i still find them physically attractive, but sexually i lose all interest, because that stranger who could be everything I crave no longer exists.

on the matter of masturbation, i share the same habit, but i would not go as far as calling it an addiction, it really is merely a habit. it's simply the activity i chose to spend my free time, but when i am doing something else i don't feel any urge to go back home and masturbate, if i stay several days without doing it it will not cause my body to start shaking uncontrollably or drop my pants and start doing it out of nowhere... so not fair to call it an addiction imo.

just like you, i am pretty happy with this habit, i could have a more balanced sex life, but it costs money to go out and meet people, and it can be emotionally draining, so i only do it very occasionally when i'm really feeling like it.

@Minerboh80 Dato Foland and Abraham Al Malek, from "Hotel X" series

All 4 parts available here: https://www.gaytor.rent/details.php?id=04af998aa1167e3c8cca2248b61a61e389c7030a90a318a9

The scene in question is Part 2.

@Birdsong

if it is a picture you can upload here directly, if it's a gif you need to make sure to mark the file as public before sharing the link

Blonde is Nevin Scott
The screenshot is from Scene 2 of this movie: Frat Boy Rush (2007)

welp judging by the 3 post views it's safe to say nobody really cares for what happens to these people outside Twitter

@noelburgundy welp, i'm afraid you're stuck with FDM for life, in that case

FDM doesn't store the torrent files, like regular clients do. I think all FDM stuff is stored in a SQL database, so you cannot swiftly migrate to a different client.

If your collection is not as extensive YET, I believe it is best to go through the effort of moving to a proper torrent client. If you have a backup of the torrent files, you're halfway done.

If you have the torrent files, with qbittorrent you can mass-import them to a predetermined folder. If all your GT downloads are stored in a single place, setting that place as the default path will automatically check the files and start seeding. This is the best case scenario.

Resuming, if all your stuff is stored in the same exact folder and you have a backup of the torrent files, it can be done automatically.

@LADude have you considered making an account in gay-torrents.org?
seems more in line with what you want.