Posts made by eobox91103

@twinkerzzz said in Why are porn star ID request posts being deleted ?:

@eobox91103 said in Why are porn star ID request posts being deleted ?:

Clearly an ID request is different from an upload request. ............ That said, I think people should use judgment in how they use the ID information they get--as much as we might enjoy a performer's on screen activity, we need to let their private lives remain private if that's their desire.

Thanks - actually i meant often members place posts wanting to ID a performer's /star's onscreen ID nor their private ID - these types of posts are being systematically deleted but i don't think they should be.

Ah, I see what you mean--somebody posting a picture of someone and asking "who's this" so they can find more videos for him. I can't think of a reason those should be deleted. If the question gets answered and the performer's stage name appears in the forum, it's likely that the performer's name also appears in torrent listings.

Thanks again - so i pointed out request forums exist on gay torrent site https://en.gay-lounge.net forums - is there any reason gaytorrent.ru forums need to be public and so are unable to list requests?

I don't know why the forums are public. Putting them behind a log-in wall would solve lots of these problems.

@twinkerzzz said in Why are porn star ID request posts being deleted ?:

Do / should requests to ID a particular porn performer constitute an 'upload request' ? Surely an upload request is different to an ID request ?

Clearly an ID request is different from an upload request. If you want to find that information, a good resource is PornBaseCentral, at https://pbc.xxx/wiki/Main_Page . That said, I think people should use judgment in how they use the ID information they get--as much as we might enjoy a performer's on screen activity, we need to let their private lives remain private if that's their desire.

Also just out of interest why is the new rule concerning upload requests in existence ?

Nobody has answered this, but I think it's because the site wants to protect itself: The forums and the torrent pages are public--one doesn't need a username/password to read the material, only to post or download torrents. That means anyone can see this stuff, including copyright owners. If someone requests an upload of "Tasty Twinks from Transylvania"*, a copyright owner could see that his material is being requested and thus can watch for it and potentially take action if it shows up.

.* I'm using that film name as a placeholder, not as a covert request. I don't think that title exists. If it does, it's made by the same company as "Bushy Bears from Boston," "Hairy Hunks from Huntsville," :Filthy Fratboys from Florida," and, from their straight division, "Naughty Nurses of Nashville." You get the idea...

@flozen said in First Trans Lutheran Bishop:

So, this comment relates back to the decline in participation on the Religion board, and any others that aren't political (now that Requests are history).

Participation in the Religion board has indeed fallen off drastically (as it has on the few other boards that remain), which is a pity: Religion, or something claiming to be religion, is a part of society and family, and something that will affect LGBT people in a variety of ways. It would be good to have discussion on that, especially since the religion topics don't seem dominated by bullies or cancel culture. People tend to be civil and rational even if they don't agree on something.

As my memory fades, didn't the old design have a scroll-over capability on boards, where the most recent response would come up in full as a thought bubble, rather than the few words that appear in static form today? Hmm.

There were several features of the old forum (including the mouse-over item you identify) that got lost with the new design. I don't know the back story on why there was a redesign--the previous forum worked just fine.

@raphjd said in Spies Who Lie for the DNC:

Your response in the other thread shows you got butt hurt, because I showed that your beloved Dear Uncle has made a career of being a liar for the last 50 years.

I'm not hurt at all. You embarrassed yourself by making that assertion without any evidence at all--as is your usual style.

If you don't like it, you know where the door is.

You are the one who needs to find the door.

@raphjd said in Spies Who Lie for the DNC:

You seem angry because I pointed out that Dear Uncle Biden has made a career out of lying for the last 50 years when you wanted to make it about Putin and Trump.

Oh little boy, I am not the least bit angry. I'm disappointed, though, that this thread, like so many others, has been reduced to idiocy by your refusal to read, reason, or provide supporting fact for your assertions. Perhaps you could leave these threads alone and start your own website: the domain name "IisAnIdiot.com" is available.

@raphjd said in Spies Who Lie for the DNC:

@eobox91103

Are you butt hurt that I used your words against you about Dear Uncle Biden?

You hurt me? Don't flatter yourself.

@NF16 said in Spies Who Lie for the DNC:

[Oh, and for the record, I'm not going to go comment on that other thread because a) I'm absolutely confident that the results will be precisely the same as this one, and b) I've already annoyed people enough on this one. I have no intention of making a nuisance of myself on every thread in this forum.]

You are hardly a nuisance. I admire your willingness to persevere, although as you have seen, one cannot use facts and reason in discussion with someone who has the brain of a dung beetle. Unfortunately, that creature cannot be "blocked" on here, because little boys like their tantrums to be heard.

Hang in there, though, because many of us appreciate things like thought and logic.

@raphjd said in Dems who once decried "loose canon" Trump, now defending Biden "going off script":

@eobox91103

Oh, I thought you were referring to Biden since he's made a career out of lying for the last 50 years.

Your BDS seems to be clouding your ability to read. Perhaps you can check with the local school authorities to see if they have remedial classes for you.

@raphjd said in Dems who once decried "loose cannon" Trump, now defending Biden "going off script":

You're talking about Biden, right?

Re-read the sentence carefully, although I know that reading comprehension can be challenging:

... on the rare occasions that Putin's not behind layers of handlers, he can call upon his decades of experience as a professional liar.

"he" and "his" refer to Putin. That should be clear from the grammatical construction (my apologies for using multi-syllabic words).

We know that you love Putin because he is adored by the Dear Leader. Perhaps, though, you feel some conflict when you see what Vlad is doing? Or perhaps not. That would require thought.

@bi4smooth said in Dems who once decried "loose canon" Trump, now defending Biden "going off script":

Could Biden have said the same thing WITHOUT providing a "the yanks are coming - after us" soundbite for Putin's propaganda machine? you know it! That's what speechwriters are for!

This is the take-away point from the overall situation: Presidents (and probably everyone else) need a filter between their own thoughts-of-the-moment and what gets released publicly. Biden shares the view held by most people that Putin should not have the power to do what he's doing. Putin likely feels the same way about Biden, but on the rare occasions that Putin's not behind layers of handlers, he can call upon his decades of experience as a professional liar.

@raphjd My bad. I thought we could have a rational, fact-based discussion...but that can be threatening to a simplistic world view.

@raphjd said in Dems who once decried "loose canon" Trump, now defending Biden "going off script":

Please try again.

Will do...although this will require reading, and confronting facts, which you may find distressing:

Here's a partial transcript of your Dear Leader's comments about the "Unite the Right" march in Charlottesville:

Reporter: (Inaudible) "… both sides, sir. You said there was hatred, there was violence on both sides. Are the --"

Trump: "Yes, I think there’s blame on both sides. If you look at both sides -- I think there’s blame on both sides. And I have no doubt about it, and you don’t have any doubt about it either. And if you reported it accurately, you would say."

Reporter: "The neo-Nazis started this. They showed up in Charlottesville to protest --"

Trump: "Excuse me, excuse me. They didn’t put themselves -- and you had some very bad people in that group, but you also had people that were very fine people, on both sides. You had people in that group. Excuse me, excuse me. I saw the same pictures as you did. You had people in that group that were there to protest the taking down of, to them, a very, very important statue and the renaming of a park from Robert E. Lee to another name." [emphasis added]

(Trump frequently praised Robert E. Lee as a "very fine general," even though he commanded an army that fought against the United States.)

@bi4smooth said in Dems who once decried "loose canon" Trump, now defending Biden "going off script":

The Dems were all "The President's words matter" at the time...

Now, the President is an even OLDER man: Joe Biden... and one who, while not as often (IMHO: because he's not actively trying to be the headline of every news-cycle!) ALSO has a tendency to put his foot in his mouth!

Going off-script has its perils--that's why people have scripts. At the same time, extemporaneous remarks often give a clearer view of what the person is really thinking, and that's not always good to share in a public setting. But there's a difference between a "Trump moment" and this "Biden moment."

Biden's riff echoed what any sane person in the world world would think: That it's wrong to have a brutal dictator in power who bombs hospitals and kills children.

Trump's more frequent riffs included things like "there were some good people among the white supremacists" and "injecting bleach might cure covid." (For a musical riff on the latter, see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DPDPzbLFeP4. This is especially useful for those who can't or won't read.)

@Fennekin said in Site changes 7 March 2022:

... So by removing that [request] section, you've essentially killed the forum.

@kalayaan said in Site changes 7 March 2022:

@Fennekin "Killed the forum" is a little bit stretched, don't you think?

Forum death started several months ago with the new software, making things clumsier, deleting topics, etc. Anyone keeping metrics would have seen a sharp drop in participation.

There are lots of forum topics that you can go to.

Yes, but fewer now than before the redesign...or if they're still live, it's very hard to find them. Many disciplines follow the maxim "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." Software--and especially web--designers seem to take an opposite approach: Once they get something working, they redesign it.

@bi4smooth said in Which City/Country are you guys from?:

West-Central Florida (Tampa Bay area), USA
Home of the:

• 2020 Stanly Cup Champion Tampa Bay Lightening
• 2020 Super Bowl Champion Tampa Bay Buccaneers
• 2020 MLB AL Champion Tampa Bay Rays
• 2020 NASL Soccer Bowl Champion Tampa Bay Rowdies

If only we had an NBA Franchise....

Of course, this is a gay board... there are, maybe 5 other sports fans here? LOL

Perhaps I am one of the five: I enjoy (men's) swimming, water polo, and gymnastics. And then we have American football, which has men in tight pants grabbing each other, and each play of the game begins with all of them bending over. Often the quarterback place his hands up between the center's legs in order to receive the (game) ball. Make of all this what you will.

@russbill said in Which City/Country are you guys from?:

Having said that - where are you guys from?

Hard to answer: My family is Dutch/Swiss; I call Calgary (Canada) home, but I work a lot in the US. I've also worked in UK, France, pre-Putin Russia, and UAE. Maybe I'll settle down some day.

@lololulu19 It does indeed sound like denial--he's definitely attracted to men, not simply the physical sensations of male-male contact (as was the case with the two "buddies" I mentioned).

Probably the most you can do is be a kind and affirming friend to him, which seems to be happening. He could probably benefit from some quality therapy, but most people will take that suggestion as an insult. Hang in there....

@GareMyster said in Copyright Infringement - Information:

I've read the rules over, and over, and over, but I don't find any rumors that these files are copyrighted, considering I've downloaded them elsewhere.
If you help me shed some light on the matter, I would be grateful, otherwise I find it difficult to download considering that (donors aside), considering that I should also upload my files.
I conclude by saying that I am very happy to share my files, but I find this unfair.

First off, thanks very much for sharing your material--that's what makes this site work, and I hope you continue to do so even if there are frustrations along the way.

As others in this thread have noted, pretty much everything here is copyrighted, and it's ultimately up to the copyright owner how much--or little--to enforce their copyrights. If something is posted on this site and someone can prove to the site owners that they own the copyright and want the material to be removed, the site will do that. There are some studios that are very vigourous about this. I won't mention their names, but some of them will make a take-down request within a few hours of something being posted. Other studios are more lax...in fact, I got a notice from the site that some material I uploaded was being removed some five years after it went up.

(The situation can get more complicated if the studio that produced the material no longer sells it--maybe they fired a model or their was some other legal issue. In that case, the studio is not losing any revenue by having their material on here for free, so they're less likely to ask for it to be taken down. They might even like to have it here, as advertising for what their studio produces.)

If you're uploading material from studios that ask the site to take down the material, I'd suggest that you keep doing so, because people who like that studio will probably keep an eye out for it and grab it quickly before it goes away. I also suggest uploading smaller torrents (i.e., one or two files) that users can fully download before the torrent goes away. A "mega-collection" of 50 GB will can leave people with a lot of incomplete files.

Again, thanks for your contributions, which make this an even better site.

@lololulu19 said in What is to become of our young generation?:

... THEN to my complete surprise, he started sending me photos and video clips of himself jacking off.. his cock and balls and ass.. etc. He has very little access to porn.. and suffers jacking off to things like Chaturbate and Flirt4Free.. watching guys for hours doing nothing in hopes that you might see a short blowjob or lush vibrator. How is this young man ever going to become a full-fledge gay homosexual.. if I cannot supply him with the cream of the cum in gay porn?

Interesting story; thanks for sharing. It does sound like this guy is most likely gay if he's into porn. I had a couple of buddies who are married (to women), with kids, and probably count as straight from a psychological standpoint as they said they were not "attracted" to other men and didn't watch porn. BUT: one of them really likes the feeling of getting fucked, and the other enjoys sucking and swallowing...so even though I met up with them several times, they were clearly just hookups, and nothing more.