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Losing belly fat isn't hard. Like others have said its almost entirely in the diet. Stay away from sugar and processed foods.
Did you know that almost every product sold in stores has added sugar to it in one form or another. Some sugars are added for taste. Some are added for their addictive quality to make you want it more. Most foods you get at chain restaurants are the same way. They add different kinds of dextrose's for flavor or to make you want more.

But there is something else that hasn't been mentioned.
You have to get your mind into the right mindset before you do anything. Any stress from any source is going to sabotage your efforts. Because stress creates cortisol and that increases your belly fat and where your body stores it.
The higher your stress, the more your body will store fat in the belly.
This includes your self-esteem and self-image. So be positive and when you look in the mirror in the morning say to yourself "That is one handsome motherfucker". Never doubt yourself and see how much it changes the way your body works.
But just say it to yourself. You don't really want to be a stuck up prick that no one wants to bee around.

I never lost any friends when I came out. But then again I really didn't hide like lots of guys do.
I just told people my barn door was open to all cowboys or cowgirls. Nobody on my football team ever said a word to me. I was still invited to part's and out on dates. Even hooked up with a couple of my teammates years later.
The only person I lost as a friend wasn't because of my being gay so much because he was very cool with it. But his wife some years later didn't feel comfortable with me and him going fishing and hanging out. So he kind of just quit speaking to me. But that was years after the fact.
family was a totally different story.
Most of my cousins avoid me like the plaque. Because most of us have had lots of sex together when we were kids.

I did a very public outing of a local evangelical preacher about a decade ago. I just couldn't resist it because of his really hate filled anti-gay crap.
Even gave him a chance to stop it beforehand but he refused.
So I let everything I had on him out.
Lost his wife or fiance, church and moved to Arkansas.

I think your hot and would definitely hookup for a pounding.

No. Known I was gay since I was little and because I wasn't fem, most people thought I was a liar just looking for attention.
Besides, I have seen all the shit my straight friends have had to deal with. I wouldn't wish that crap on anyone. So, I consider myself lucky.

Give me number 5 any day of the week. But I wouldn't say no to any of them.

People are always attracted to what they don't have. Blondes like dark, cuts like uncuts etc etc etc.
Just enjoy what you have and make the most of it. Want an uncut dick. Go find one to play with. Leave your own stuff alone. To many bad stories of guys who went and had surgery to become uncut.

@revden:

My partner and I have been together for 30yrs. We only now have started talking marriage, I guess because we are older and don't want or need family drama in the event something happens to one of us.
We have talked about name changes and we are trying to incorperate both because he is the last of his line and I'm a junior so we want to honor both names. We will figure it out. everyone needs to do what's rite for them.

32 years here and we are in the same boat.
Talking about it but not sure what to do with the names at this point. Seem to be leaning towards a new last name.

You seem kind of paranoid. But considering where you are? it may be justified.
What you are experiencing is normal for everyone, regardless of orientation.
Think about what is going through your mind at the time of having sex? If its any worries or anything other than sex with the person in front of you? Then you are just doing it wrong.
Sex is 90% in the brain and mind. If your mind is preoccupied by fear, anxiety or a host of other emotions. Things just don't work well.
I was somewhat like this when I was younger. Eventually, I found that I needed some bonding to enable sex. Just a little conversation and that was all I needed. Bond made and dick worked fine. But just throw me into a room with a hot stranger/ Something just didn't click and the dick didn't work right.
Some people are the exact opposite. They only respond to quick sex with no connection at all. Talk and strike up a conversation and they can't perform.
Sexuality is weird.

Don't let it get to you. It's just part of the entire world of those hookup apps.
And that is what most guys want them for. Just a quick hookup and that's it.
The straight versions of those apps are the same way.
They are not dating apps. They are straight up "I want to fuck now" apps. Not for just meeting people.

I can't even name one friend who has made a real friend on one of those apps.

Just be careful. Lots of hate groups usee those apps to lure people into a bad situation.

You will never know what you are until you start having sex and experimenting.
Is your fantasy's gay? Yes. Very gay. Straight guys do not have those types of fantasies.
But its just a fantasy. Actual real sex is different and much more complex.
It's not just about where the dick goes and for how long. It involves taste, smell, body language, attraction and hundreds of other little things that give the experience its flavor.
You're into muscles. Nothing wrong with that. But until you act on your desire's, your entire sexual life is nothing but a fantasy and not real. Just a thought that's in your head.
Don't deprive yourself of one of life's best parts.

For me, it has more to do with stability and maturity more than age.
I know lots of guys in their 20's and 30's that are very unstable and mentally immature.
But legally? I would never mess with anyone under the age of consent. No matter how hot they were.

@kenjysn1:

if both of you can have a child, Responsibility will weaken the effect. tie you and your husband closer.

This is an old wives tale, idea. Children do not add to a relationship. They enhance what is already there. If you have lots of love and communication. It gets better. But if you have problems and think a child will fix it or make it better? Wrong. The child will only make it worse.

I would never give my money and stay in area's of hate. Too many wonderful people and places better deserving.

Is he bi or closeted? Big difference.
Either way, never get too serious and just use them for the dick. Get serious and you will get hurt.

I call BS on this story.

@blackwing:

If he truly was, his son wouldn't have had to wait until 20 to come-out.  ::)

Figuring out who you are is a tough rough for most people. But trying to figure out if your gay is really rough. Some people who are gay, don't want to be gay. But they know that trying to be straight will be misery and most likely a suicide.

A supportive parent stands by their child through all these struggles and is there for them with open arms when they make it to the other side.

sad to hear. RIP.

I and mine had our sons by a similar technique almost 30 years ago.
Besides being highly unethical at the time it was forbidden by international law.
But, having worked with some ingenious and really special people, we made it happen twice.
One son looks like me and the other looks like him. One dark and one white.
They share the same fraternal DNA between both but have separate maternal DNA.
I use to joke with them about being born in a Petrie dish.

Although this was new to most people, my family has been doing this stuff for decades now. But in more natural ways. The men in the family would marry a woman who would be a good mother, but many of the children were born of women of certain characteristics to enhance the man's natural characteristics in a male child (intellect, physical abilities) The old eugenics style of creation.
growing up I always thought it was strange that on my Dad's side of the family, nobody gave birth to girls. I didn't find out until a couple of years ago why that was. Digging thru my grandparent's documents I found lots of evidence that abortions and adoptions were done on all female children.

Regardless, I am glad to see the world starting to get a better grip on natural selection.

Yes, that is a very bad idea.
Many more reasons to have kids besides that.
like love. Real love.