Whenever I upload a torrent, I often try to add a NFO file to the section of the upload page that facilitates the upload of NFO files. Except, once the torrent has been uploaded, the NFO file is not available when "View NFO" is selected from the torrent page, and instead I get directed to a blank page (this time, a blank page that simply says "Puke" at the top left - like, WTF?). Is this a bug, or am I doing something wrong?
you seem to use a different site then…. on gtru a cookie is valid for 6 hours
My login expires much more frequently than every 6 hours as well, more like every 2 hours or so. Although, I'm relieved to be reading now that this is being done as a security feature, because for a long time I thought it was some sort of glitch.
I forgot to mention earlier…. that mothers generally, and secretly, already know that their son is gay... even if they say or act otherwise...
I agree, which is why I feel it's twice as unfair for them to put the squeeze on their son to pretend to be otherwise. I think it should make any young man mad enough to stand up to their parents.
Leaving family sound easy but what reason i suppose to tell them? People do live away from their family like in other city or country if they have job or study etc.
Move somewhere far away where they cannot interfere with your life. Tell them you're moving to the United States to study, then come here and LIVE YOUR LIFE as you please! Just tell them that you want to expand on your education (in the US) so that you'll have more to offer a wife, and then get the Hell out of there. As a side note: It's wrong what they're doing to you, even if it's traditional. You need to get far away from them because there really is no explaining things to them in a way they'll understand. You deserve to live your life on your own terms, free from their oppression. Don't put up with it, get away from there as soon as possible.
I have mostly always lived in either Los Angeles, California, or New York City, so I have always been around a wide rage of people from all over the world for most of my life. Likewise, I have recognized attractive men of every race and ethnicity from every part of the world. My only preference to dating someone is that we be close in age, and that they behave with integrity and with respect for themselves and others. I do prefer a guy that appears attractive to me, but since that's a quality I have found represented in every race of man I have ever come across, barring that, humor and a great personality go a long way to make up for whatever I may perceive he lacks in aesthetics. Long story short, there is no race of man that I would not consider dating, as long as I am single and available.
He had beard in 40 year old, right? I recall thinking who was that guy, hehe
Another part in the orgy that got me was the Hitler stand in getting topped and saying nein, haha
Yeah. Guess I'm a fan of both him and his work. Haven't seen anything by him yet that I didn't like on some level.
If it's a picture of me, I would be flattered. If it's a picture, or video, of someone I know in real life and have fantasized about, then it's very exciting. I do actually have a small collection of solo video clips a past co-worker of mine (that I thought was incredibly hot), has posted to the various tube sites. I'm certain he thinks he did so anonymously because he's careful to not show his face in any of them, but there are certain clues in his videos that give him away. And I came across the videos totally by chance (…no pun intended). The funny part is that he always used to pretend to be straight, but his "anonymous" video clips absolutely indicate otherwise (by the things he says in them, and does), lol. I can also see his "favorites" videos that he's saved to his various profiles, and they are all gay porn. I always knew anyway.
Did you ever confront him with the evidence? lol
No, I haven't… YET, lol. I say "yet" for a couple of reasons, although maybe never will.
But the main reason I haven't confronted him with the evidence is because he was in such denial (…with ME, anyway) about being gay, that I know that if I confront him he will try to delete all traces of the fact that he ever posted the material in the first place, which really wouldn't make much of a difference because I've saved everything. But the thing is, he still continues to post stuff on occasion, and even uses the same screen name (…or a version of it) everywhere he posts. I know that if he knew I was aware of those things he would just change his routine, but continue his antics (…because he is a MAJOR horndog, and very kinky), then I may not be able to find his stuff as easily.
The other reason I haven't really confronted him is because I haven't seen him in a long time. It was 2005 when we worked together, and even though I haven't tried to call him, it's likely he still has the same number. But even if not, I've also located his Facebook profile as well, so technically I could contact him, but just haven't. Because it's important to note that I was crazy in love with this guy, and when we first met, he was actually the one that was pursuing ME. But he was also a lot younger than me, and when other coworkers began to suspect his attraction to me and that he was likely gay, that's when he started acting like the hardest heterosexual on the planet, lol. Pussy-this, pussy-that, pussy pussy pussy, lol. That's also when he started avoiding me, and it crushed me. But eventually he was fired for an unrelated reason, and that's when my heart began to heal, when I didn't have to physically be around him everyday. So that's the other reason I haven't confronted him, because I just haven't seen him (…not in person, anyway).
But if I ever happen to run into him on the streets… 
...that may be a different story. I would say hello and speak with him, he would probably be nice (he was, after all, a very charming guy), but if he launched back into some sort of macho "I'm still straight" routine, I don't know where I might go with it, lol. Although, chances are he has probably changed a bit from the 22 year old he was back then to the 34 year old he would be today. Certainly, some of the more recent stuff he's posted online, you can hear him speaking about his lust for some of the gay porn he's beating-off to in his solo video clips. So it's likely he may be more comfortable with his sexuality now than before. I know one thing for sure, I've actually seen some recent face-pics of him on FB, and he's matured handsomely over the years, just as I knew he would. I'm just not trying to fall in love with this guy all over again, so yeah… no... I haven't confronted him, and probably won't. Plus, I just really wouldn't want to embarrass or hurt him in any way. He was a good guy, just REALLY mixed up.
Seth is such a funny guy, you don't have to like him. His ideas are so out there, I suppose it's due to his recreational use of pot. I think he's a clever guy and I like that he doesn't take himself seriously.
And for what it's worth, I always thought he was very handsome, since I first saw him in "The 40-Year-Old Virgin". His was the main character that caught my… "attention". :fap:
Does it count as progressive if the characters involved don't really have real genders?
In general, the movie was progressive as far as animated features are concerned, in my opinion. In some ways it seemed to me like it picked up from where "Fritz The Cat" and "Heavy Traffic" left off in the 1970's (which as I remember, got X-ratings upon their release, the latter perhaps a hard-R), not so much for it's sociopolitical commentary (although that was certainly present) as for it just being a cartoon aimed at adults. Ironically, those earlier films were tame in comparison to the blatant sexuality depicted in "Sausage Party". I felt, however, that the characters actually did have genders and specific sexualities, even if their genitalia wasn't clearly visible, as much as alluded to. The Fruits getting ready to rumble a la "West Side Story" to the tune of "Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go" by Wham! just cracked me TF up, as well as many other scenes. I thought the movie as a whole was just funny as Hell, and actually very cleverly written.
I thought it was a very clever movie, and actually funny (…and it's hard to make me laugh out loud).
The first time I've ever been to a gay bar, my heart jumped out of my chest. I was so nervous and awkward.
I remember the first time I went to a gay bar… many moons ago (The Centaur Phase II, in Hickory NC), I sat in my car in the parking lot for about an hour polishing off a six pack of grape flavored Malt Duck before I could muster up the nerve to go inside. And WHY did it turn out to be Drag Night?!? 
Once I went inside, I was just sitting there in the only available seat I could find, minding my own business, trying to be invisible while acting casual at the same time, when the music started and the first drag queen I had ever seen came out, lip-syncing to some old Judy Garland tune or another, sashayed right up to where I was sitting (…and of course the spotlight followed), threw her feather boa around my neck, "sang" a bar or two, then continued onward with her routine elsewhere around the bar. Talk about "nervous and awkward"! But as soon as I realized no one was going to "attack" me, and I saw the sense of humor behind it all (I learned the meaning of the word "camp" that night), I began to relax, met a couple of cool guys, and actually had a great time.
Gay life in the 1980's could've been great, I'm sure it was for so many, but for me it was very hard because in a time when I should've been running wild thru the sweat peas and kicking up my heels, we all had to worry about what was safe, and not safe, and what was true/false information, and you had to sift thru it all on our own, because our government abandoned us.
Holy smokes can you young guys imagine, going out to a gay bar, and the whole time standing there wondering who had the ticking time bomb inside them, and was this your night to catch it, and then possibly pass it on to others? No one knew because there was no test to see who had it, you could be full blown with no T cell count and look like a million dollars, and then in a week laying in a hospital bed, sheets soaked with sweat, tubes hanging out of your arms and one stuck down your throat, and oxygen mask on your face.
Sorry for not giving you guys a nice hot story about how wild the sex was (it was), and how hot them men were (the hottest), but sadly most of them are dead, and the ones that made it thru we know how lucky we are. We remember how awful it was being gay in the 80's with a nation that mostly thought we brought this on ourselves, and then turned their backs on us.
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How would you react if you find a picture of you or someone you know in a torrent images file?
If it's a picture of me, I would be flattered. If it's a picture, or video, of someone I know in real life and have fantasized about, then it's very exciting. I do actually have a small collection of solo video clips a past co-worker of mine (that I thought was incredibly hot), has posted to the various tube sites. I'm certain he thinks he did so anonymously because he's careful to not show his face in any of them, but there are certain clues in his videos that give him away. And I came across the videos totally by chance (…no pun intended). The funny part is that he always used to pretend to be straight, but his "anonymous" video clips absolutely indicate otherwise (by the things he says in them, and does), lol. I can also see his "favorites" videos that he's saved to his various profiles, and they are all gay porn. I always knew anyway.
I think it will be hard to get a fair comparison, because it's not just the era, but it's how people experienced dating in their 20's & 30's versus their 50's & 60's. In other words, anyone who is younger (regardless of the decade) is going to experience dating differently than when they're older. Time has a way of adding extra ZING to the past, and "The Good Old Days" often seem to have been better.
to the other members this is just for fun, release your inner kinkyness. :bj2:
The thing is, my "inner kinkyness" wouldn't apply to him. He doesn't fit any of my types.
as someone i know i would wake him up so he can go home .
as a stranger i would ignore him .
…ditto.
Then, just one last observation: At 54 years old, you meet a guy online who happens to be blind that you help move into a place in your town, I guess because you're resourceful like that. You decide you are compatible and so you sell your house (put your house "on the market" - instead of just having him move in with you, I guess) to go move in with this guy (that you've known for several weeks at this point) and sleep in a room down the hall while his best friend of 8 years, who is a "stupid idiot freak", sleeps on the floor of your boyfriends bedroom? AND THEN DRAMA ENSUES?!? 4REALZ?!?
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Who the fuck breaks up (if you are truly in love)and starts looking for another partner immediately?
Uh, YOU? :blink:
Since everyone was so helpful with your advice…now help me find a good decent man! I am in TX.
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I am moving back into my old home that has sat vacant and for sale for the last 9 months… I am getting the electricity turned back on on Nov 1.
Wow, that is remarkable! Really amazing that you can just take your house off the market and move right back in like that after 9 months, almost like none of this ever happened. That is all so fortunate, and convenient! And to think, just a couple of days ago, you were saying you were going to go live on the streets!
The sad part of this whole situation is that I have no where to go and I guess I will try to put my things in storage and live on the streets until I can find somewhere to live.
What an interesting story. Thanks for sharing, all the best!
Since everyone was so helpful with your advice…now help me find a good decent man!
Maybe some well-intentioned, unsuspecting (if not naive), thoughtful member of these forums, with more time & money than good sense, would be willing to allow a kind-hearted, helpful & loving individual like yourself stay with them indefinitely until you're ready to make your next moves.
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The sad part of this whole situation is that I have no where to go and I guess I will try to put my things in storage and live on the streets until I can find somewhere to live.
Otherwise, you could expect the heartache, drama & abuse to be ongoing as long as you remain under the same roof as "Lee". You may want to consider going back to where you were 9 months ago when you met him online (…assuming that's not a bridge that's been burned). Nevertheless, not sure where you are in the world, but be sure and check in with your local social service agencies, as there's likely to be shelters/programs available for homeless (LGBTQ) people who receive disability, to help you get back on your feet. Good luck, stay strong.