( I am on disability as well)
…and you spent $500 on groceries, of which "stupid", unemployed, William, who steals all your boyfriends attention, ATE HALF?!? :crazy2:
Oh yeah, I would be livid! BTW, thanks for sharing your very personal story. I'm sure it will help many who will no doubt come along finding themselves in a similar situation.
The more you explain, the more it seems like Lee is just not ready for a mature sexual/romantic relationship with you (…if there is even a sexual component to your relationship in the first place). Lee has to want to stop being in contact with William so often, Lee has to want you in his bed without conditions, and it sounds like he has no real desire for those things. The more you try to force it, the more he will push back, however passively. Those two will get along just fine without you (or not), but as long as you stay in that situation, the longer you will be stewing in misery.
Each of us here has arrived at the same conclusion via different routes: You've given it your best shot, but now it's time to move on.
Again, all the best to you.
I would wager a bet that he never slept on the floor in that room and been in your "boyfriends" bed the whole time.
Yup, I agree! Like, why would he be on the floor?
I am considering looking for another place to live and not sure if I even want another lover. Loving someone has brought me grief too many times.
We've all had THAT feeling before. You just have to be more careful, that's all. You're learning a valuable lesson right now.
Lee who is totally blind will be lost without me…
Yeah, don't kid yourself. I get the feeling that Lee probably knows what he's doing. In any event, keep your head up man. You'll get through this. Good luck, and don't be so hard on yourself. Like The Tin Man in the Wizard of Oz… Now you know you've got a heart, 'cause it's breaking.
Sounds as if you are being used by the pair of them.
…and for as long as "William & Lee" have known each other (8 years), and the OP has known his "partner" for less than a full year… "William & Lee" are probably the one's having the conversation about how the OP (jazzmale29) is the problem.
He's not a problem because they were getting a free taxi service and probably other things. The other guy struggled to find a job so was living off of the two of you. Were you paying the bills, groceries etc…? Sounds as if they are just scamming you for free shit.
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Sounds as if you are being used by the pair of them.
…and for as long as "William & Lee" have known each other (8 years), and the OP has known his "partner" for less than a full year… "William & Lee" are probably the one's having the conversation about how the OP (jazzmale29) is the problem.
Sounds like you were the 3rd wheel in an already established relationship (…doesn't matter what kind of relationship). You should have made sure you had a clearer understanding of what was going on before moving in. If your "partner" didn't invite you to sleep in his bed when you moved in, that should have been the first red flag. While I wouldn't try to advise you, because I know I don't have all the specifics, but from the parts you are sharing, I'd already be looking for somewhere else to live, someone else to love. That whole situation will probably only get messier as time goes on, and I can't see where you'll benefit.
And don't let the fact that your "partner" is blind cloud your judgment. He's probably well-experienced with how to use that to his advantage. People with disabilities can be as shady as anyone else. Nevertheless, seems clear that he does not consider you #1 in that threesome, no matter how "stupid" you consider that other guy to be.
As far as I'm concerned, George Foreman could always get it, all the way from when he was a young man until now. Wouldn't mind sneaking into OJ's cell at night either, lol.
Because glue only becomes sticky once it dries. As long as it's in the tube or bottle, with the cap sealed, the glue doesn't dry. Leave the cap off the tube or bottle of glue, and it most certainly will completely dry up over time.
I'm very sensitive to cigarette smoke, to the point where I can smell a cigarette being smoked from several rooms away, or even in another apartment of a residence. The smell of a person who smokes reminds me of an ashtray, while I certainly prefer those whom smell fresh and clean. But not only is it a turn-off for me in person, but even when I view a picture/video of a handsome man online, if I see a pack of cigarettes anywhere within the frame, not to mention actually in his hand, I immediately lose interest and move on to the next. It even bothers me when walking down the street, for someone to be smoking while walking up ahead. It just feels to me as if they are spewing this toxic gas with no regard for those around them.
That being said, I have known some wonderful people who have smoked nearly their entire lives, and have also known a few who have died as a result of having done so. Ironically, I often encourage those who really enjoy smoking to just continue doing so, although preferably, not around me.
As for RectalTemp's comments on ourGTN, he has his own opinion. But as he only posted 9 messages when he used it over 3 months and hasn't been around since 2014 he is perhaps a little hasty with his condemnation.
I would certainly advise the OP to check it out for himself, and have offered him an invite to do so.