Posts made by MikeChang

Indeed, sunburn is damage to the skin that can only be repaired by your body.  The younger you are and the better you bodys repair system is the quicker it will return to normal, but it can take anything from a few days to a few weeks, depends on how bad the burn is and how your body can cope.  You can apply lotions etc to ease the pain/discomfort, and some do claim to aid healing but it's really just time.  I had it one from a holiday and it too about 2 months to completely return to normal, a lesson learnt and never forgotten.

As his Brother, can you gauge what his reaction will be based on what you know of him.  I was unlucky and lucky when It came to my Dad, Unlucky because he died young before I came out, but lucky as I know he would have thrown me out of the house and never spoken to me again, he was that sort of a guy when it came to being gay.  As it happened my Mother found it hard and I left home within 6 months and went 5 years without speaking to her, now we have the best relationship ever and my stepdad who is actually my dad's brother is fine and has no issues, so for me it turned out fine in the end.

What about the rest of the family, Mum, grandparents, siblings, etc.  Could he come out to them first to get them on his side, and what exactly is the issue, fear of rejection, disappointment.  At the end of the day your Nephew has a life that only he can live and sometimes we have to make big sacrifices in order to live that life, even if that means we have to walk away from friends, family and loved ones to live that life and be true to ourselves.

Oxford Blue

A top quality mattress can last up to 25 years and would have a guarantee stating this.  You should always use a mattress protector as this save's you having to do anything other than turn your mattress as directed by the manufacturer.  If it does become stained or soiled NEVER use a wet cloth as most beds will just soak it up into the top layers and you can't rinse out any detergent and it will take so long to dry you can get mould.  As scott1966 said use a good steam cleaner and give it a good going over during the summer months so it can dry out quickly,  not only does this kill the germs but also dust mites and any smells.  You can buy solutions to add to the water used to disinfect or add fragrance but I fine just a dash of lemon juice does the same.

If you do have a wet accident bicarbonate of soda poured on and left to suck up the wet works wonders this can then be vacuumed off, you can also do this to freshen the mattress, leave it on for a few hours then vac of gently, do not try to rub it in.  These are old fashioned methods used before steam cleaners were common place.

It really depends on the state and quality of the sheets.

For normal use ie no extra body fluids, weekly is more than enough and if you have really good quality (high thread count) sheets you can push it to 14 days but no more.

If you tend to sweat more than average or sleep commando then weekly even for quality sheets.

For any extra body fluids the day after soiling.

Always use a mattress protector which should be washer twice a year and saves ruining your mattress.

How Often Do I Need to Shampoo?

Maybe you’ve heard shampooing less often is better for your hair. Or perhaps you’re thinking of ditching shampoo and joining the “no ‘poo” movement in search of healthier, better looking hair.

Experts say there's no single answer to how often people should shampoo. You may not need to do it as often as you think. It usually comes down to personal preference. For guidance, take a look at your hair type and styling choices.

“I have always said, ‘It’s fine to go a few days without shampooing,’” says Alli Webb, professional hair stylist and founder of Drybar. “For hair that’s normal in terms of oiliness and medium weight, I sometimes tell my clients to go as long as they can without shampooing.”

The idea behind this? Shampooing too often may lead to hair that’s less than lush.

It's not uncommon to get hard during or after a workout, and if you ask both gay and straight guys get boners.  Don't worry, so long as your not staring at anyone I particular nobody can really take offence as you're not doing anything wrong, unless you start playing with it or flashing it about, as the saying goes shit happens.  You could try having a wank before you go to help prevent it, apparently it does work.

I did a test run on my old laptop Win 7 to Win 10 and still testing things out.

If you aren't happy why not just roll back, you have 30 days after the upgrade to reset back to your original 7 or 8.1, then hang fire till you hear better reports and try again as the upgrade option is there for a full year from release.

Catholic leaders, churches and schools should learn to read their book of rules ie The Bible.

Then children were brought to him that he might lay his hands on them and pray. The disciples rebuked the people, but Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.” And he laid his hands on them and went away (Matthew 19:13-15).

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“Yet you say, ‘Why should not the son suffer for the iniquity of the father?’ When the son has done what is just and right, and has been careful to observe all my statutes, he shall surely live. The soul who sins shall die. The son shall not suffer for the iniquity of the father, nor the father suffer for the iniquity of the son. The righteousness of the righteous shall be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon himself. (Ezekiel 18:19-20).

What's Underwear? lol

Lighter fuel and a match or the safer option is the durex lube that self heats up and if that fails try downloading some hot porn from here.

It hides that fact that they can't get or keep it up when being fucked, but still gives full access to the hole.  Also like fashion thing come and go in cycles, jocks are back in for now.

Trim, Trim and Trim!

The hair on your head should be kept looking tidy, not looking like some old mop but none of these crazy cuts and styles.  BUT it makes me look like an individual I hear you cry, erm NO, it makes you look like an attention seeking pratt.

Facial hair is fine but again keep it trimmed and looking neat and tidy, even the wildest bear keeps his beard looking good so there is no excuse.

Body hair should be left as is, it's natural and there for a reason, it also looks damn sexy.  I'd rather see a set of furry pecs than shaved ones any day.

Pubic hair should be trimmed, but not too short an never shaved.  I want a man to look like a MAN, not a new born baby.  Again it's there for a reason, it's natural and it's sexy if kept under control.  Yes I know shaving it all away makes your cock look bigger, so do these fancy briefs that lift and push out, but it's all false advertising simply to get a shag.  I never judge someone on the size of the bulge, there is more to a man than that.

It's exactly the same in the straight communities, so why should being gay mean you should like everyone else who is gay?  Just because people have something in common doesn't automatically make them likeable or acceptable, blacks don't always like other blacks, whites don't always like other whites, women don't always like other women etc.

I personally don't like effeminate men, being gay doesn't mean you suddenly have to act like those dreadful camp queens from TV shows. that to my mind is one of the biggest reasons straight men hate gays.  It all just seems so put on, like some great performance.

I kind of know where your client is coming from as I too have and still do suffer, but because I'm too straight (no act involved) and I found back when I came out the gay community far from welcoming and inclusive unless you were hot, hung,horny and a slut.  The average guy still got and still gets overlooked , it's why I and most of my friends stopped going out on the town and basically said fuck you to the gay community.  I have a partner of 17 years and a great group of mixed friends, all of who agree the gay community is nothing more than a meat market for your weekend fuck.  They don't want to help the "new gay" come out and join the community, they just wanna get into his knickers till he becomes old news and the next fresh meat comes along.

I totally disagree with the racial prejudice masked as sexual preference, there are plenty of mixed relationships and mixed one night stands to prove this to be total bullshit.  Sexual preference is sexual preference be they black, white, ginger, cut, uncut, top, bottom, fem, dom, etc we all like what we like and that is the same for gay or straight.  So yeh maybe in an ideal world it would be a case of it's a hole so just fuck it, but that's not what humans do we all like different things but that doesn't make us racist or prejudice.

I wish your client all the look in the world, but don't hold out much hope if he thinks the gay community is going to make him happy.

My Maternal Grandma

As you are saying a Relationship, I'm guessing those obstacles would have already been discussed and crossed before you classed it as a relationship.  So for the 2 people in the relationship there shouldn't be any issues anymore unless one person decided to change their religion or go real hardcore.  However it's the outsiders, be they friends, family or just other people that can cause issues and destroy what you have.  There seems to be this thing with some gay men that makes them want to destroy a relationship just for fun and they will use anything, race, religion, looks, even down to hobbies or what you watch on TV to ruin what you have and split you up.

So it's down to being a strong couple and having the balls to tell the rest of the world to just Fuck Off and leave you alone.

The first cock I sucked was my brothers in my mid teens several times, he is straight but I guess back then a mouth was a mouth to him.

Then nothing till I was 28 and came out when I had between 15 and 20 in a year mostly one-offs

The I met my partner so his, 1 in a threesome, 2 one-offs with a hall pass

That's it and I haven't had any sex except wanking for the last 8 years. I can't be arsed topping, bottoming is just too painful and I've never had the opportunity to suck anyone off.

However if it were possible I'd be sucking cock morning, noon and night.  I loved doing it, loved to see the pleasure I gave the other party and it was so easy whether just a 5 minute quickie or an all night session to just loose yourself in the pure pleasure of worshipping a nice piece of meat.

I've used Norton for years and never had an issue, If it's infected Norton sorts it, if it's fine it plays/installs/etc.

Are the files from here, maybe someone else who has them could say if they had issues or someone would be willing to download them and try for you.

What are you using to watch them VLC Player?

Depends on your size and how easy both are, swimming cuts out the pressures and jolts running puts on your joints especially if you are more overweight and workout more muscles, but you can't just do it anywhere.  If it's just a few pounds running would be better as you can do it almost anywhere, even you own garden or up and down your stairs.

As stated above diet is just as important, little, often and healthy.

In my late Teens early 20's I was at it between 5 and 10 times a day, 7 days a week and I could get a boner just like that.

by my late 20's I was once in the morning shower, the odd lunchtime and a couple through the evening/night

Now I mostly once a night, but these can be no cumming, just a nice long edging session with 2 or 3 even 4 days between shooting.

I've gone from just that need to bust-a-nut or having to get a boner to go down, to enjoying that pure ride or pleasure edging for a few hours.