For years when I shared a bedroom with my older brother, who used to kick his covers off every night while asleep and the old fella used to pop in and out of his pj's all night long, it's a wonder I ever got any sleep.
Then I have had 2 bf's who did the same thing but I got to play with those while they slept or to wake them up.
If you loose his friendship then it isn't worth as much as you think it is. A true friend will accept you for who and what you are (within reason) and would support you fully for being honest and truthful to him as well as yourself. The sooner you tell him, the sooner you can get on with your life with or without him.
Is it moral or acceptable that a gay man should be put under so much social pressure that he feels he has no option than to marry a woman. Shouldn't that be the question and shouldn't we address this issue rather than blaming the gay man for his actions?
Same, and most annoying when there is a period of freeleech including some of those huge files you want but can't justify downloading.
I have reported loads of duplicates over my time on this site and have always gotten the reward within 5 days of the report, with the exception of those deemed none duplicates, we are talking in the region of 200 reports and a maximum of 10 rejected. For each successful report the points are automatically added and a message confirming the duplicate is rec'd, I've had these from several different MOD's. It sound's like the Dups you have reported were not deemed dups by the MOD's. If they are still there you could try reporting them again, but I suggest you double check the file size on each file which is given very accurately part way down the page.
Firstly and if you can post a picture on here and see what people think, you've got the entire world on here to say yes or no to being attractive.
I knew I was gay from around 13, had a bad experience at home when my dad found a gay mag under my bed so didn't actually come out till I was 28 and he had passed away. I came out simply because I hit a fork in the road of change my life or take my life, the next few months were the worst in my life and to this day it's the reason I hate the gay scene and a lot of gay guys. So yes I'm average but like you had loads of people telling me how attractive I was, great personality, talented, etc. I met a few people, not hundreds, I wasn't a slut, and all I found was people wanting to add me to the rest of the notches on the bedpost but that wasn't going to happen and I ended up with a nickname. So there I was the "ICE QUEEN", and no I'm often mistaken for straight, nothing queeny about me, but because I wouldn't put out the scene turned on me. Anyway to cut a long story short, I met a guy through an unusual situation and we are still together many years on. We have our ups and downs, we have good times and bad, it's not all like some porn movie in the bedroom, BUT I can't see my life without him or him without me, oh and he's just average too. We now have a good group of couple friends and not one of them met through a dating site or on the scene, they all just happened. Some like to be out on the scene every weekend others prefer the home life, but we all agree that love found us, we didn't go looking. Don't give up on love, but don't go looking too hard for it and especially not in all the wrong places. It will happen when you least expect it and you'll know it's true love.
I have used anti-fungal cream before, thou not in the groin area and it has discoloured the skin and also made a mess of the clothing it got on. Sadly the clothes were ruined, but the affected areas returned to normal after a few weeks, so don't worry too much.
Yes, It's not uncommon to have several nightmares in a row, it may be the same one over and over or completely different but with a common theme or totally unrelated.
The big difference here is that my guy is straight, jacking off just to get off and make a little cash, not looking for any hook ups not even with female watcher, but said he didn't mind if someone said Hi when he was alone. So he made it clear nothing could or would happen, but he was ok if someone saw him in real life.
Your guys are both on Grindr, which is basically a gay hook up site. Instead of speaking to them face to face, can't you Grindr message them next time you see them first to see how they react. It will show them that you are very close and may help to break the ice for you to go say hi in person, then see if and what happens.
Personally for me, I would say (if I did use) that I was using grindr as a filter and even thou I may have a face pic on there, that it was only so someone could see what I looked like, and not so if they saw me out and about that they could just walk upto me and expect anything.
I've only seen 3 solo vids all from webcam sites, and another labeled "a gay dwarf, straight guy and tranny". There are a couple who perform on webcam sites, and I know their shows have been recorded and are on various sites.
I found them under Dwarf or Little Person porn, the 2 terms which are acceptable, "Midget" however is extremely offensive both in porn and in real life.
I don't wear underwear these days, but back when I did "trunk style" it was always straight up for me, now it's do as you please. My brother who is a lot bigger than me when soft was always straight down "in briefs", kinda like the underwear models as it makes a nice bulge for the ladies he said.
I finally get to tell my story.
I use chaturbate, and a couple of months back I was watching a local'ish' straight guy go through his none wanking routine, for want of a better description, where he basically just sat and chatted with his fans. The topic got around to how he would react if one of his male fans walked up to him in public, he replied 1) If I was with family I wouldn't want anyone to walk up to me and even say hi, 2) If I was with certain friends it would be ok, so long as it didn't get freaky, 3) If I was on my own it would be fine, just don't expect us to be going for a drink or for anything to happen, remember I'm straight and only do this to get off and earn a little cash.
I didn't know exactly where he was, but knew it was pretty close and that he most likely shopped in the same towns as me, so typed "Well I haven't seen you in Durham, but will keep an eye out and say Hi if I do." He laughed and said I don't go there often but feel free to say hello if I'm on my own. Loads of people were also chatting and his chat show went on for a few hours covering various subjects, to me he was hot, sexy, but also really nice guy, etc etc etc, he also has a great cock and puts on a good jack off show.
So about 2 weeks later I decided I needed a new hard drive and offered to take my Mum shopping at the same time. We went for groceries first, then to a couple of other shops she wanted to visit before finally arriving at the computer store. We had a quick look around at stuff before I headed over to the components isle closely followed by Mum. She went down one end, while I walked up the next isle to come back down the other side and meet her. As I turned the corner I could have died, my Mum was walking towards me, but knelt down looking at the drives was none other than my Chaturbate hunk. Although Mum knows I'm gay, I could hardly strike up a conversation and have to introduce him to Mum as the guy I wanked over on the internet. I can't describe how gutted I was, nor how I felt, It was like "first Love" my head was ponding, my heart racing, I must have gone as red as a stop sign. I couldn't bring myself to look him in the face, but managed a couple of sneaky crotch glances to see his nice bulge when he stood and I knelt to check out the drives. I know Mum would have noticed I was acting odd, but she didn't say anything so, My hunk got what he wanted and went to pay, I delayed slightly then pickup mine and went to pay, thank god he had already left.
That night I told my partner, and we both had the biggest laugh in ages. The funny/sad side is, had I not taken Mum shopping I wouldn't have bumped into him as I'd have been to the store and gone long before him, but having Mum there prevented me from being able to even say Hi.
Anyway couple of days later he was online again, so before his room filled up and he started wanking, I asked him how the new drive was going. He went offline straight away, I was like OMG should I have said anything. After about 5 minutes he came back and sent me a PM, he had left because of me but more from the shock that I knew about the drive than anything else. I explained I couldn't say Hi because of Mum and asked if he had seen me, he said yes and the lady with the walking stick. We then pm'd for over an hour while he wanked off for the rest of the room, chatting about life and stuff. I knew nothing would come of it as did he, but it finished with him shooting his load and a final PM saying next time say Hi! I'm still living in hope of that next time, but will I say Hi, who knows.
Hire 2, decide which of you want's which top, then go your separate ways, as your question makes you both sound so selfish with the modern day "Me, Me, Me attitude, that when it come to something more important in your relationship your both fucked. If your "Relationship" revolves so much around sex it's the only option, if however you have something deeper and more meaningful there are hundreds of options out there, the easiest of which Aleedinver gives which is to use the cocks you have to satisfy each other. There are thousands of toys out there, fuck machines, and kinks you can also try to satisfy each other but it does mean you have to think about the other before yourself.
If you then feel that your only option is to introduce a 3rd or even 4th, make sure your relationship is strong enough to withstand it and go find them. You don't need to hire anyone, there are again thousands of guys out there who want nothing more than to fuck a random guy or 2 who would be willing to help without question. If and it's a big "IF" you are lucky, you may be able to find someone willing to be a permanent 3rd but that will bring it's own problems and issues. It really all depends on what sort of "Relationship" you both feel you want, for me that come from what got you together in the first place before the sex issue came into question.
Ask you dentist as a lot depends on your teeth.
Forget what your parents did to you, unless there is a medical reason for it the answer is NO. Nobody can justify child abuse even for religious reasons, it's about time parents stood up to the "powers that be and society norms" and told them to Fuck Off and leave my child alone. When your child is old enough let him or her decide, there is no harm in waiting in fact you can do more harm than good as the bit's being cut off aren't fully developed till a few years after puberty. You would soon be up in arms if after your first child society said you had to have your balls cut off or vagina sewn up, or if when you could no longer have children you were force to have a double mastectomy.
Your first job as a parent is to protect your child from harm until he is able to do it for himself, for most parents that day never arrives and they will protect their children till the day they die. You wouldn't get your child tattooed just because you have one and like them. You wouldn't get his appendix or tonsils removed, neither of which are needed and could cause issue later in life unless there was a medical reason. So why put a baby through something that could go wrong and ruin his life later just because it was done to you or because it's a "norm" in society.
Your second job is to love your child unconditionally, While the saying goes "you always hurt the ones you love" that doesn't include child abuse. It's illegal in some countries to punish a child by smacking them when they do something wrong (something which tho painful is gone within minutes), so how can anyone parent or not justify taking a knife to a perfect innocent baby to mutilate and scare them for life.
At the moment there seems to be a big issue going on about female circumcision making it illegal, prosecuting those who do it, why because it's seen as unnecessary, cruel, painful, etc. If it's such a big issue shouldn't we be fighting to prevent all none medical or personal choice (ie the person is over 18 and decides they want it done) circumcisions for both male and female children.
Oh, please what they really want to know is who's the fucker (man) and who gets fucked (woman)
Does this men that in a straight relationship, if the female uses a strap-on that she becomes the man and her partner becomes the Woman?
If you are versatile, does that mean your a Woman some of the time and a Man the rest?
In our relationship I am the top, but when it comes to everything else we both have our strong points with both the typical male and female duties and each do what we are best at.
17 years and counting, no sign of it ending. Our relationship isn't and never has been all about sex or how many men we can shag or be shagged by. We have some things in common but also have our own interests, we have friends who aren't monogamous but that's fine and up too them. Is it becoming the norm? Not from what I've seen, there may be more people posting on youtube about there relationship especially with same sex marriage being legal and the in thing for those who would otherwise have just lived together long term without it. But there are still plenty of men out there looking for nothing more than a one off, in fact if anything I would say it's less common as more and more "straight" men in relationships are trying out their "hetroflexible" side. The saddest thing I've seen recently is about gay divorce, why get married 3 month after meeting only to be divorced 3 months after that.
Firstly I never said "HATE", I said I dislike, just as thousands of other gay men dislike, bears, fats, twinks, tattooed, shaved, cut or uncut, women, lesbians, etc, etc, etc. I gave an example to further my dislike to a particular type, (Camp Queens) that being the character played by Anthony Cotton in Queer as Folk UK or Jack from Will & Grace. I'm not saying there aren't people who are naturally like this, but I am saying there are plenty who think this is how they should be and therefore put on the act and make a whole over the top performance of being this way. I fully agree with the comment "Be Yourself" but just as I don't expect everyone to like me for who I am, don't expect everyone to like you for who you are, that is just totally unrealistic. I just don't get turned on sexually by this "type" just as scat, watersports, spit, fisting does nothing for me, socially I have never had many "effeminate" friends, and whilst I wouldn't say I purposely avoid them, I also don't actively seek them.
I'm only one person and the original comment was that this effeminate guy felt he was not belonging in the gay community, something that I guarantee is not affected by me in any way. I was simply saying my feelings to one effeminate type and my experience of that types acceptance among straight men I know or have known.
The comment about this being the biggest reason straight men hate gays DOES in fact come from my experience of many years of being gay and having straight and gay people telling me they (when they find out I'm gay) that they are so glad I'm not like those camp queens that turn their stomachs.
I never mentioned "Drag artists" of any sort, why because one of my best friends is not only gay, but also a Drag Queen, yet out of his frock he probably straighter than me except when in the sheets. I wouldn't want anyone else next to me when it comes to a fight as he can kick the shit out of the biggest thug or hater you could throw at him.
In my early 20s I had a lot of casual sex, but like you I wanted more. The way I saw it was to have fun until I met the right guy who to wanted to settle down. This didnt happen until I was 26 and 12 years later we are still together.
Eventually you will find the guy you like who you want to settle with who feels the same. Just hang in there and keep looking!
I was a late bloomer and had nothing before I came out, and very little after. My first time with a guy was nothing more than a blowjob, but I fell head over heals only to be dropped like a stone and discover how the "gay sex/dating/romance world" worked. That made me build such a huge wall of defence that very few got even close enough for a kiss. Then I met this guy, he had a lot more experience than me and had been around the block so to speak, but we really hit it off and 17 years later we are still together.
We weren't looking for sex or a boyfriend when we met, just mates and it grew from there with very little effort and none of the bullshit a lot of people seem to have, it just came so natural. Yes people tried to split us up, tried to hit on one or the other but nothing got in the way. Do either of us have an amazing body "NO" are either of us drop dead gorgeous "NO" we are just average guys who didn't go looking for love, it found us.