Even though it was about 12 years ago, I came out to my long-term – high-school + 3 years military + 2 years after military -- friend.
after I confessed to him, his answer was short and to the point:
"I already have a gay friend. I can't have too many gay friends, people would think I'm gay"
it was hurtful that he couldn't make a room for another gay friend, but to this day though it pains me thinking about it, for some reason I couldn't resent him for this. after all, just 8 years of good friendship ended with a simple sentence.
Don't mean to be melodramatic 