I am not a US citizen.
since the 2016 US election I got interested in the election process quite a lot and I read about the electoral voting system, the states etc…
I still have some questions which I was not able to find a clear answer on the web:

1. The electoral vote: I generally understand how the electoral system works, however, I do not understand what is the scenario on which a one candidate can win the electoral election and the other candidate can win the "Popular Vote". In the 2016 election I heard several times that while Trump won the electoral votes, Clinton won the popular vote
2. What are the "Toss up states"? and what is their significant during the election?

Thanks

@nickys1177:

yes and most gays would answer yes

I believe most gays between the ages of 10-20 would answer yes
mature gay men are in my opinion more comfortable being gay and would rather be gay. As do I.

@JohnAllenson:

Fucking with a condom where the top doesn't pull out when he comes.  Let's see the condom filled with cum when he pulls it out of the ass.

True! Overall I don't watch Safe-Sex porn so I'm not bothered by it much 

There are a lot of various acts, positions, fetishes shown in porn throughout history, and yet there is that one thing that you
wish you saw in porn that has not yet been done (even though it might have been done before and you are not aware of it, or haven't found it yet).
So… what is it that you wish you saw in porn that you haven't seen until now?

for me, I wish i saw someone manages to put his whole foot inside someone's ass (including the ankle) - i'm saying that even though i'm not a foot fetish guy at all. i just like watching things inside a hole

@drfox:

You should encrypt your hard drive. That way the only thing people would be able to access is random bits of encrypted data. I would say this is a good security practice even for when you are alive ;D

Yes, i already have some of my HDD encrypted, also my porn drive  :D. but i also have a script running every time i log on that unlocks the bitlocker…so unless i decide to manually unlock the drive each and every time, i'm screwd  ;D

@DClarkston:

I'm not really a very social person, I like people, but from a distance. I have a lot of acquaintances, but few real friends. Often I feel kind of socially awkward never really knowing what to say or how to keep a conversation going. At the same time, I feel like I'm a really good listener. I've been on my own for so long though that I'm not really sure If I want to be in or could honestly handle a relationship with someone else. I really got to thinking about this the other day when some of the girls at work were talking about living vicariously through me. I just laughed and then started thinking about the fact that I've been on my own for so long that I wouldn't even know what to do with a relationship at this point. You kind of get use to being on your own and self sufficient after a while. I'm pretty hard on myself though, and I honestly don't really even try to find a relationship anymore. I really do wonder sometimes if I'm able to love the way that I should, or if I should just accept the fact that maybe I was meant to be alone. It's not that I don't want to love/be loved, I'm just really not sure that it's in the cards for me. I was just wondering if that's just me being me I guess. I can't be the only person that feels this way and has these questions right?

You could not describe me any better!
i feel the same!

What would happen if you suddenly die and all your porn is still accessible in your PC?
anyone can access it and you can do nothing about it.
this is truly terrifying thought.
unless there is a device that can link your HDDs to your heart beat, i see no way around this
the shame of my family and friends discover my gay porn as well as my bizarre fetishes…..MY GOD!

@Frederick:

A pun is a phrase which could be interpreted in a serious way or in a funny way, such as in:

Someone stole my toilet and the police have nothing to go on.

Having sex in an elevator is wrong on so many levels.

Last time I got caught stealing a calendar I got 12 months.

I saw an ad for burial plots, and thought to myself this is the last thing I need.

All four of those examples have both a serious meaning, and a funny meaning.
If you were being serious, you might add "no pun intended"  so that people don't think you were making a joke.
If you were making a joke, you might add "pun intended"  so that nobody would take your remark seriously.

Thank you for an excellent explaination and examples!
really made things clear to me

I'm not a native English speaker therefore i ask:
what is the simple meaning when someone says "Pun Intended" when referring to something he just said before? (or no pun intended)
i tried to google it but haven't been able to find a simple answer.
i understand that it's a play on words - but when and why?
"You can tune a guitar, but you can't tuna fish" - i understand the joke in this example but, ironically i hear it a lot on the U.S news which i doubt they try to make a joke while debating an important issue
can you please provide an example so that i can finally 'connect' the dots ?

thanks guys.

First of all I love being gay (the sex part only)
however, if you had asked me that question 10-15 years ago, I would probably have said "yes"  very reluctantly!
nowadays, I am more comfortable being gay (still in the closet), so I would say that I prefer being gay.

@burgercat:

I'm talking from experience.

I shave my pubic area regularly, once almost 2-3 days.

You should wet that area, then with shower foam, then shave. No pain.

The paint isn't from shaving. it's when the hair grows back that's painful!. like spikes

I will say this again and again.
1. There is no such thing as gay for pay - for those that decide to make it a "continued business". If you continue doing gay porn it is because on some level you enjoy it!.
2. There is no such thing as "I have gay sex from time to time but I am straight because I have a girlfriend". There are plenty of gay guys who have girlfriends because it is expected of them.
3. There is no such thing "I've never thought about having sex with a guy before because I'm mega macho straight guy". The thought did cross your mind and here you are doing porn. people don't just get up and suddenly realize "Well I never thought about gay sex before, but I should start today"
4. There is no such thing "I've tried everything else, it didn't work out, so gay porn is all I have left to do!" straight guys would rather "degrade" themselves to doing lots of other things rather than gay sex.
5. There is no such thing "I'm doing gay porn (on regular basis) because I'm desperate for quick cash" - Like most people, straight guys would rather "struggle" day to day and make a living with what they got. or again - "degrade" themselves to doing lots of other things rather than gay sex!!

• These guys are bi in denial at least. they lie to themselves and they believe it.
• I can understand in some rare cases where a truly straight guy would have a gay sex for money, however, truly straight guys would do    LOTS of other things to make money and not have gay sex!.
• It's amazing just how many guys are in the gay porn industry who claim to be straight - it's like there is absolutely no other way of making money but doing gay porn - how can it be?!?! truly disgraceful!! - to force someone to make gay porn like that!!!
  I know straight when I see it. they would punch you in the face if you ever suggest the idea.

@macwls:

I don't think it's offensive, but it's sort of a turn off right after I cum to see him leave for a minute to go and spit in the sink…

I really enjoy the taste, and quite enjoy playing with it for a few seconds before swallowing. It gets out of the way quicker and I can keep on sucking and playing with it.  :hug2:

it is a turn off for me as well!

If science does come up with a way to change peoples sexual orientation, I believe by that time being gay would not mean what it means today. I want to believe that by that time, the human race will evolve to a point where being gay is just another trivial thing. thus, sexual orientation will not be "desired" so much.

@vicorebeldia:

I think that a lot would do it and a understand them. Being a LGBT person in our society can be very scary. I live in Brazil and the violence and hate towards LGBT is so fucked up.

I always got the impression that Brazil is one of the (if not the most) LGBT friendly and open-minded countries in the world.
I always told myself that if I wanted to be "accepted" as a gay person, I should move to Brazil.
and what about Sao Paulo? isn't that an LGBT friendly place?

@alveer:

yes

Are you talking from experience? because since that one time that I shaved, I never did it again.
if the pain is indeed becoming less painful with each shaving then I might give it a try
thanks

If I were to look for a double penetration in straight porn where the guys penetrate the same hole rather than the pussy and the anus,
is there a special "Keyword" or "Phrase" for it? it's kind of arousing to see straight guys penetrate the same hole simultaneously…..

I'm 32 and I almost never have precum during sex or masturbation. however, I don't see it as a big deal so I ignore it
is it normal or should I consult with a doctor?

Simple and honest: being raped without mercy and when I least expect it.

@nolimitfag:

being a sex slave, locked away, completely apart from the world, stripped, sleeping inside a cage, getting raped, tortured, etc.

Hell yes!!!! 24/7