Posts made by furfiend

I agree with the comments above about confidence.  On the other hand, I don't really like avoiding the truth to spare people's feelings.

You asked a direct question.  100% honest answer?  I don't find those photos attractive at all, but cut the hair, and we'll talk.
Of course, I'm like ffuck; I hate long hair.  To the point that even tall, muscle-bound, hairy-chested, porn star-bodied, movie star-faced guys with long hair just make me want to grab the clippers and cut it all off.

So, between the long hair and the glasses that hide your face, I really can't tell how you look underneath that.  I'm not saying cut your hair because a random stranger on the Internet doesn't like it.  I'm just saying, theoretically, cut your hair and take your glasses off for a second, and I could give you a better assessment.

I would gladly jump on the bandwagon and post a photo to broadcast my flaws, as well, but I'm too lazy.

Just to clarify, are you talking about your Seed Bonus (No. 1 in the image), or your Upload amount (No. 2)?

Your seed bonus increases when you are online and ready to seed (whether anyone is downloading from you or not).  So, if you are online 24/7, you will get 12 points a day.  No benefit to extra uploads.  You also get bonus points for posting in the forums, voting on categories for torrents you have downloaded, and a couple other things.

If you're talking about your upload amount, that depends on who is leeching from you.  That depends not only on how many torrents you have, but also how popular they are, and when you downloaded them – you often get a lot of upload if you are one of the first ones to download it, but very little if there are already 100 people seeding it.  That's just how torrents work.  And I think that's why the Seed Bonus system exists in the first place.

I was going to say it sounds like Jeff is checked out of the relationship for whatever reason, until you added:
@jazzmale29:

Forgot to add this information: Jeff doesn't think anything is wrong with the relationship and is wanting Mutt to ask Jeff to marry him.

This makes it sound like Jeff is oblivious to how he's making Mutt feel.  And it sounds like he may have an egoistic personality, or incompatible ideas about what kind of relationship he wants versus what Mutt wants.  Either way, I'd say it's definitely time for the two of them to have a serious talk, and at least a 90% chance that it's time to see a counselor (either as a couple or each individually).  Are they in the UK?  I can't remember if the NHS covers counseling, though it would probably be a long wait if they do.

Bottom line, though, it sounds like it's time for drastic action.  Start seriously working on a relationship that fulfills both their needs, or start thinking about calling it quits.

I used to have the exact same problem.  Had a regular fuckbuddy, nice body, we got along well, the sex was great.  But as good as it all was, I never got hard long enough to penetrate him.  The doctors couldn't find anything wrong.  I had taken antidepressants for years in my late teens and 20s which lowered my libido, so I thought they had just fucked me up permanently and I would never be a top.

Then seven years ago I moved to a new city.  I went on a date with a boy who wasn't exactly my type, nor I his, so I didn't expect much to happen, then we talked and walked around the city, and I ended up falling head over heels in love.  On our second date, I met his friends and we hit it off, then the two of us went for a walk by the Rhône and making out on a bench for about an hour in the cold.  After he drove me home, I so much didn't want to let him go that I convinced him to come up and spend the night.  Well, much to my surprise, from the make-out session by the river until we had both spent our loads that night, I remained hard almost the entire time without difficulty.  I fucked him, he fucked me, and I had the time of my life.

That's when I realized the problem wasn't physical, but that I just wasn't satisfied enough with a quickie or even a regular but otherwise unavailable fuckbuddy.  It took being in love with someone to unblock my cock, so to speak.  Even a deep kiss from him was enough to get me to full mast.

Now, we did eventually break up.  The good news is that after that, I was able to get it up with other guys.  I did learn, however, that I really don't enjoy random hookups 99% of the time.  If I do it too much, or with a guy who really doesn't please me, I have a hard time getting hard enough to top, or even to cum sometimes.  That's why I prefer talking to someone first, getting to know them, making an emotional connection, and then if the mood strikes us, hopefully by that time I'm relaxed and in the mood and there's no problem.

So, that's my story.  I'm not saying you necessarily have to fall in true love to fix your problem, but maybe it's time to start asking yourself if you're getting everything you need from this relationship.  At the end of the day, though, the guys above me are right.  It's almost certainly in your head.  If you're nervous about something (and that includes being nervous about performing), it will be harder to get it up.  Talk to your partner; it will probably help.  And be sure to come back here and let us know how things go, and if you need more advice.

I've never tried foam rolling, but I will keep it in mind.

Concerning my arm, it took two full days before I could open it 180°, and another for the pain to go away when I did so, but it is back to normal now.  I've even done arm day again since then.  (Less ambitious, though. :P)

I hit the gym for the first time in a long time yesterday.  I must have pushed it too hard, or not stretched enough, because after sleeping on it, I can't fully extend my left arm.

I'm wondering how to help it recover more quickly.  Should I be trying to stretch it at all, or should I just let it rest for now?  How do I know when to start using it again?

Yes, this is a type of cockring.  It makes it harder for blood to leave your penis, so you can keep an erection longer.

We probably see them in porn so much because a professional porn shoot will take so long to film, with many pauses, commands from the director, and so on.  A lot of men like to wear them while having sex, too, to keep their erections.  Just be careful if you wear one – having one too tight or leaving one on more than an hour is usually not recommended, as it can cause serious damage.

Video games?  Board games?  Couples games?  Games to play while having sex?  What are you looking for?

@jonas32:

I practised alot with a dildo in my youth.

I tried the same thing, except the dildo I ordered was so thick, I could barely fit the tip in my mouth.   (My ex still has it.  We call it Mr. Big.)

Regarding the gag reflex, I think, just like taking a dick in the ass, it's more in the mind than physical.  You gag because you don't want to accidentally swallow and choke on something that isn't food.  You have to remind yourself that you can't actually choke on it.  And the more you want to swallow it, the easier it is to relax and take it.  It still takes a lot of practice.  At least, it did for me.  I still gag if someone with a big cock tries to face fuck me fast, too.  But it's a lot better than it used to be.

If you can catch videos soon after they become Freeleech, this will probably maximise the amount of upload you can get from them.  Look for videos with just a few seeders, and/or a high ratio of leechers to seeders.  A long time left in Freeleech helps, too.  Of course, larger videos are better for getting more traffic.

I don't download new videos that often anymore, so I frequently wait for my bonus points to accumulate from seeding what I have.  Then, when I see a video I want, I'll spend my points to make it Freeleech.  I get it for free, other people get to benefit from it as well, and if it's popular, I get a lot of upload credit for it.  (Not that I need to worry about my ratio at this point.)

Definitely Djoko.  My ex liked Rafa, but I can't see it.  Looks bloody disgusting to me.

No, Freeleech just means the downloads don't add to your measured download amount on this site.  It shouldn't affect the torrents like that.
I have about 200 torrents right now, and at least 90% aren't connecting to the tracker, which means no upload, no download.  It looks like the other 10% are still trying to connect, but not having much luck.  I think it is the site's tracker which is not working right now.

I have the same thing.  Most of my torrents seem not to be able to connect to the tracker (connections timed out).
A problem with one of the servers, maybe?

I say keep it.  I think it's hot as hell. 

But yes, if you feel you must get rid of it, you need a really close friend, a helpful or kinky lover, or to go to a waxing salon.

@gfootx:

Im kinda scared because I don't know what the case is with condoms

I've only been to a couple, in France and London, but I think it's pretty much standard that they have plenty of condoms and lube available around the sauna.  Maybe it's different in other regions, though.
Of course, just because condoms are there doesn't mean everyone will use them.  Please be careful.

I also agree with what boxingclever said.  You can experience it in different ways.  I learned that I don't really enjoy cruising, but I have gone to the sauna just to relax after a long week and enjoy seeing the hot guys without having sex, or gone with a friend or partner for the same reasons, and for not having to clean the sheets afterwards.    Those can be a lot of fun, too.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Piledriver_(sex_position)

I wasn't sure where to put this, as it's not a specific request.

I know there are a million porn movies and cam shows of guys showering.  However, for some reason I find it particularly hot to see guys showering on stage, like the following clip.  Anyone know of any more clips or movies like this?  Bonus points for muscular/hairy/cub/daddy bear types, and of course for full nudity.

http://love-bears.tumblr.com/post/133225232196/is-this-a-dream-come-true-0

It also seems like I remember a movie from years ago that was set in the Wet strip bar in Washington, D.C. that may have had something like this.  I can't remember the title, though, and I can't find it anywhere.

Any suggestions are welcome, and I will gladly donate what site bonus I have for relevant uploads.  Thanks.

Wherever he wants it.

Although I will say I like seeing cum all over a furry chest.

If you're into daddies, there's also Pantheon's "Brief Encounters"

https://www.gaytorrent.ru/browse.php?search=brief+encounters&incldead=0&inname=1&indesc=1&infn=1&orderby=added&sort=desc

Face is important, but so is chemistry.  I'll say B, but C if he'll blindfold me.