@ianfontinell Yes, more interesting thoughts from two threads that are running concurrently on public sex.
Just one point before retiring -- agreed, enough trips to a store restroom will cause you to come across something nasty. Today, gay men have the choices and resources to defer and relocate these activities -- which are no doubt very, very nasty to those who simply want to access a lavatory for its original purpose.
@tnar said in gay porn videos atmosphere.....:
@eobox91103 Since COVID lockdowns, a lot of porn production has moved to Montreal as well. And Florida is definitely worth mentioning, especially for many of the lower cost site.
Yes, noble tnar, the Fort Lauderdale-Miami area produces a scandalous amount of studio (and high-quality OF) porn.
Neighbors to FLL/MIA, the Wilton Manors-Oakland Park nexus is essentially two smaller cities with an enormous influx of gay residents, some of whom make -- you guessed it -- visual erotica.
I was born there, I had my fill (quite literally!), and always recognize the condos or homes -- often, the mid-century style and landscaping -- when I see it.
@eobox91103 Thanks. you've offered a helpful way to discern between public and private in a useful context here.
While the example of whacking on a street corner is low-hanging fruit (tee hee!), my concept of unacceptable-in-public extends, as noted, to department store restrooms, rustling behind a park hedge -- and most any venue that has an expectation of broad public use.
Foam party, gay beach resort in their dunes? Get your freak on in these private spaces as allowed. These examples may be in opposition to, say, a municipal law, but I'm persuaded that these are gay safe spaces and I'm not out to be a complete thrill-kill.
(This message crossed during yours as well, lol.)
@Watever2000 A "gay foam party" is held in a private venue, and you engaged in sex where every attendee understood the likelihood of such behavior.
It is worlds away from the examples of public spaces I gave above your reply, as well as from the other posters. Glad you had a lovely time.
@raphjd That's some exciting medical news. During two years of Covid protocols, I lowered my activity level and ate a lot of sugary snacks.
My doc warned me I was approaching pre-diabetic, and that was enough for me to make the right lifestyle choices and get fit.
But for those where insulin is a necessity, this would represent a great step forward.
I'm far from a prude, but from my perspective, public sex -- in venues like store bathrooms, gyms, highway rest stops, and urban parks to name a few -- is inappropriate.
Often enough, the participants are caught by surprise, while others find a thrill in the occasional exposure.
In either scenario, when public sex acts subject other people to an unexpected and unwanted experience, it's sexual harassment. These third parties who stumble in on such antics can be parents with small children, for example.
Watch public sex fantasies as porn, if it suits you. But in today's real world -- with the Internet, clubs and other ways to hook up -- it's time to move on.
Sorry, it's 2022 and anyone can access the Internet -- or, in larger cities, clubs -- to hook up.
In many venues -- store bathrooms, gyms, highway rest stops, and urban parks to name a few -- public sex that subjects other people to an unexpected and unwanted experience is sexual harassment.
@AngelK said in What song are you currently listening to?:
Paula Abdul featuring Ofra Haza
My Love Is For Real
Radio EditPaula Abdul - My Love Is For Real
I always enjoy finding unexpected cuts featuring Ofra, so thanks for this blast from the past, Angel..!
@eobox91103 I think you may have part of a hard-to-find mainstream movie called TÚ SOLO, from 1984.
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0088311/?ref_=tt_urv
https://mubi.com/films/tu-solo
https://aabatis.com/movies-for-sale/26-tu-solo.html
Europeans have always had a more relaxed take on nudity in film, and if your clip didn't feature anything overtly erotic, I think you just witnessed some horseplay sin ropa.
The third link -- an unknown online retailer to me -- has the film for sale, apparently. They have a mix of mainstream titles, retro curiosities, and some other youth films.
Hope this helps!
I understand the perception that the site is "understaffed," but as background, I believe the Moderators and Helpdesk staff are unpaid volunteers.
I once considered taking on such a role, but felt that my overall (stunning lack of) computer skills would require too much remedial education before I became an asset, rather than a liability.
Along those lines, some members volunteer -- but quit in short order -- during the training. Others may not possess the "team" attitude or service orientation to deal with a never-ending stream of newbie questions (answered easily in the Rules section, but who reads these days?).
When all's said and done, I applaud any computer-savvy members who have the time and interest to volunteer. It would really help our site!
And to return to the thread's origin, I really appreciate Brad's citations -- I award him the rarely used bikini..! 
@studge27 said in Anyone tried using Nair on the butthole?:
nair or veet would be a safe bet over a razor at times, maybe do a sample patch before commiting to the whole thing
How can it be a "safe bet," when the poster directly above you provides a personal account of using these products, and regrets it due to chemical burns?
@pecslover said in Anyone tried using Nair on the butthole?:
I've been considering shaving my butthole but not be eager to get a razor near it. Would a chemical work? Is there a way to test to make sure i"m not allergic?
It has much less to do with if you're allergic to the hair-removal product, and much more to do with the sensitivity of the skin surrounding and comprising the external anal sphincter.
In short, applying a cream -- strong enough to dissolve robust hair! -- around your anus can easily result in holy hellfire if left on too long, or if it gets on the mucosal tissues.
@ianfontinell More than a few years ago, I brought some party favors to Mykonos ... internally ... in a latex condom.
The second day on the island, I had a lot of red skin bumps, which I attribute to the latex mingling with certain membranes during a 10-hour flight.
The bumps went away with some medicated cream after two days, after which I slept with the pharmacist's assistant. (Bagging an island native is the highest degree of difficulty, lol.)
I've always been mystified by those who attribute latex irritation to an active-role, 20-minute sexcapade, as it's external skin, but, oh well.
@john32123666 I forgot about C in July.
That last pic will haunt me in my sleep -- ho ho homo!
Sweet, sweet K -- we just started July (early summer).
Please don't put up the Christmas tree yet! 
@john32123666 Wow, that's a great example, John. I can't see how an uploader could overlook this, even if he only performed a five-second review of the list / path.
I always check a torrent's file list before going forward, because on occasion an uploader might miss one or two dupes. That's entirely understandable.
YOUR example is very naughty, indeed -- hope they receive a points penalty, a time-out, or a good old-fashioned spanking (uploaded as a clip, of course). 
@AngelK Oh, girl...! Now this tune is stuck in my head, lol.
@evermind89 As a post that will fade once the results are known, I am enjoying the mid-season rivalry between The Vivienne and Jinkx Monsoon -- they are truly well-rounded performers in all disciplines.
This whole "legendary star" thing is coming off to me as a gimmick, but after so many seasons, I understand the pursuit for something new.
@bourboncream Hey there. I don't have it, but I did notice it at site 1337x .to listed as
Various Artists - Eurovision Song Contest Turin 2022
Has 40 tracks, all the national entries, concluding with Ukraine's winner, Stefania.
Even with a VPN, that site opens three bogus windows for each of your clicks, so be prepared.
@F46660T said in Uploading new vs. reseeding old:
can we talk about this since nobody on this site wants to give me a reponse when i bring it up to them?????
Here is some input.
As a third-party observer, the amount of time and effort you've expended on this seems obsessive and unhealthy.
