Posts made by ColinTNM

Sounds like it works for you ubbe45, and that's all that matters.

Whatever helps you sleep at night. I doubt any religion that denounces homosexuality would be ok with you watching homosexual activity "as long as you don't partake." Sounds like you're kidding yourself mate.

Erogenous zones on a man? Where are yours, that's a good starting point.  :blind:

As for better blowing technique, what do you like and don't like? That's a good starting point.  :blind:

And of course, practice, pracice, practice. If there was ever a subject that benefited from the practical rather than the academic it's this one!  >:D

It doesn't matter why, just enjoy what you enjoy and find people of like mind to enjoy it with.  :police: :love:

@Zeitgeist:

I wonder if there's a correlation between being gay and having father issues. I always wondered.

Plenty of homosexuals have had healthy relationships with their parents. If bad parenting was a factor in being gay, the percentage of gay people in the world would be WAY higher.

Thank you for the clarification, that is what I thought but I never like to report unless I'm 100% sure, I think the mods and staff have enough to do so only report when 100% sure. Thanks.  :police:

I noticed this more often than I used to. Someone makes a new torrent and all it is is a 12kb torrent file to another torrent.

Is this allowed on the site or should these torrents be reported so they can be removed? It seems redundant to me that they exist - the uploader could either share the real file itself or simply seed or reseed the original torrent.

Apologies if it is allowed, I just wanted clarification. Thanks.

He might be somewhere on another site right now asking how he can convince you to be monogamous.

Point being - you can't "convince" anyone of anything, either they're willing to try it or not - and you know if something is right for you or not. If it's not right for him and he doesn't want to give it a go, move on.

Sure, people did it for hundreds of years and still do in parts of the world with backwards social policies.  :police:

@Saphsaph:

But I've recently also had some dates or so where the guys were adamant about emulating straight relationships and being monogamous.

Being monogamous isn't about "emulating straight relationships" - it's just a personal preference. Some people want to build a unique relationship with one person exclusively, and others don't. There's no judgement to make in either case, just be upfront with people about what your preference is then everyone is on the same page.

Why not both.  :police:

@kenjysn1:

aggressiveness is a male nature, especially in gay relationship, there are two males, each of them wants the initiative and controls, the best way to avoid this situation is one become obedient. in straight relationship here, females are always passive.

Oh my God. Should the "obedient" man also wear a dress and be the bottom? It's 2018 your attitudes don't reflect at all what I see in my life, like at all.

You don't "obtain" people, they're not property.

Sounds like you want totally different things from a relationship. obviously casual sex is his main hobby and past time.

makes me wonder why you both wanted a relationship with each other in the first tbh. Talk to him about it. ask him what makes you special to him that he wants a relationship rather than just sex with you like all the other guys. If you don't get an answer that gels with what you want from the relationship, maybe it's time to reevaluate it.

Just from what you said, it sounds like your want an emotional connection and he just wants someone to hang out with. It's only a thought, but is it possible he likes the idea of being in relationship because it makes his hook-ups seem more "naughty" and dangerous? If he was single and hooking up with guys, he's just another single guy, but if he's in a relationship it could be mentally increasing his currency with these randos because he's already "got". just a thought.

Is crossing the street healthy?

Just make sure to look both ways.  :police:

Maybe the people who don't shower are showering when they get home or elsewhere because they're sick of people "taking a peek" and doing selfies. just a thought.

another vote for qBittorrent here. Switched over from uTorrent a few years back. Very similar in look and function, so if uTorrent is past its best for you take a look for a familiar experience

EVERYONE. Even in the 80s knew she was gay. this has always been an open secret.

Cheryl Baker has always been a goer.

I am not disabled so I can only hypothesize, but I would include it in my profile for no other reason than to weed out the asshats and jack-offs.
there are a lot of great people out there, but I don't have the time nor inclination to start chatting with someone and half an hour in mention it and them back off because their imagination runs wild. Or worse meet up with people who clearly came for one thing but arrive and see another and have them grimace awkwardly through a date, knowing their "I'll give you a call sometime" lines were as empty as their heads.  :police:

If you are upfront about it in your profile, without excuses or overly long explanations, I think anyone worth your time and who likes the cut of your gib in general would not see it as inhibitive to dating you. In fact they might view it as a positive that you were straight forward about it. I would think here's a guy that has his head and heart in a good place, I'm going to shoot them a message.  :cool2: