@ianfontinell Agree (see my earlier comment) that this has nothing to do with gays broadly, maybe shouldn't be in this section.
As to why post it anywhere? Also explained earlier.
As to gay v. straight phrasing.... it's to do with demographic norms. 9 times out of 10, the parents are opposite-sex / unspecified would mean exactly that.
P.S. I don't agree "gay" phrasing here is "very deceptive" sinceit's literally true UK or maybe Canada has had some reports of the opposite bias, pro-gay bias, molest-y rape-y gay couples left untouched for too long, as here in Clown World 2023, gays are sometimes too sacred to touch, local police giving out bad-speech tickets to people who say the "wrong" things etc.