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  This is an interesting development for anybody who's familiar with the Drag Race franchise and follows famous drag queens.

  LINK: https://www.queerty.com/drag-race-star-laganja-estranja-comes-trans-20210616/

  Drag star and cannabis connoisseur Laganja Estranja has opened up about her gender identity.

  The 32-year-old entertainer, who competed on season 6 of RuPaul’s Drag Race in 2014, came out as transgender in a new Entertainment Weekly interview, explaining the 10-year process it’s taken to get to this point.

  “There are so many other women around me who’ve inspired me to come forward today, and it’s because of their fight and their struggle that I’m able to really do this and say that I’m nervous, but I’m not scared,” she said. “I’m not going to live my life in fear anymore.”

  “I do want to be able to express this at all times,” Laganja continued. “I just got my haircut — a very feminine cut — and in one week already, my life has changed. I’m able to come off stage and take my makeup off and still see a beautiful woman in the mirror. It’s powerful.”

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  After the article was published, Laganja posted on Instagram:

  “I have so many emotions running through me at this current moment, so I promise I will make a more detailed post later. But FIRST, I want to thank all of you for the overwhelming amount of love and support I am receiving right now.”

  “I feel so empowered that I don’t have to hide in the shadows as I make this journey… I want to thank all the trans brothers and sisters that came before me who fought so that my coming out could be joyous! I am so proud to identify as TRANS and to be living my truth. Happy PRIDE, you are beautiful as you are”.

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  Human sexuality is such a fluid thing...
  Assuming you are a man:

  you can look at one man and be incredibly turned on, and find virtually no other man sexually attractive in the least... that doesn't make you gay! you can look at one woman and be incredibly turned on, and find virtually no other woman sexually attractive in the least... that doesn't make you straight!

  As humans, we strive (both constantly, and futilely) to bring order to our own existence.

  But the Universe isn't about order, it's about chaos!

  The Kinseys found that there were VERY few men who never EVER found another man sexually attractive; and equally so, they found VERY few men who never EVER found a woman sexually attractive. And the same was found for women.

  Interestingly, they found that women were culturally - in the 1950's and 1960's - far more open/receptive to accepting/admitting that they were attracted to something "not standard" for them.

  The idea that "to be gay" you have to not (ever) find a woman sexually alluring, and "to be straight" you cannot (ever) find another man to be sexually attractive is purely a social construct.

  There ARE rare exceptions (and you may indeed be one of them) - but if you're someone who claims "it's all of one, and none of the other", then you are probably (not definitely, just probably) deceiving yourself!

  Statistically speaking, most of us are "fluid" - we have a preference, but we will find exceptions our own "rules"! 🙂

  As the father of 5 boys, I'll tell you what I've told my children as they have grown:

  If your dick gets hard, you're attracted to it!

  That doesn't give you license to ACT on that attraction, but it is what it is and you can't change it! The goal in life is to find someone who makes your dick hard, and for whom you cause the same reaction (clearly, not "their dick being hard" for a woman, but you get the point)....

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  Living together is very hard. Lots of fights

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  I am also addicted to GAY incest....Brothers especially...I love to Phone about it with like-minded guys too..if interested lmk...your call.

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  No side-effects, but I do think that you should get regular tests (every 3 months) for liver & kidney function in order to minimise any possible damage.

• Parenthood

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  @roryisms I think it's sweet that you would miss having children, but for those of us whose paternal instincts are not strong enough to adopt or surrogate, etc., there are usually some very satisfying alternatives.

  Many in this group have nieces or nephews with whom they can spend time regularly, or at least on holiday get-togethers. As an only child, I don't have that option, but I have friends and neighbors with kids, and that works fine for me.

• Personal Grooming

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  @bi4smooth said in Do you pee in the shower at your own home?:

  Urine is not sterile (that's a common fallacy)

  One could even argue that urine is fertile : It has a lot of nitrogen and phosporus, and can be a good garden fertiliser if diluted with water at a 15:1 ratio. Depending on one's diet, urine can also have a good deal of salt, so don't make it the only source of water for the garden.

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  @swegay
  My best orgasms? jerking of myself while someone is punching or squeezing the hell out of my balls... That makes me cum like crazy!