@ianfontinell-0

Ok I understand.

I guess my best strategy now is probably download a bunch of freeleech contents and just let it seed...

@frostycab

That's what I have been doing in the past, and if you're starting out it could be a good way to build up gigabytes but 10 gigs aren't that much.

Assuming you don't have issues with port forwarding (and you know this if you download say a torrent from the pirate bay or other open tracker and look for a I in the peer's flags), just that this tracker incentivizes seeding, and so it's not unusual to download gigabytes but upload kilobytes.

It's why I said you would be better off looking at freeleech torrents, and sort them by leechers.

Right now the 240G Sketchy Sex collection is freeleech and it seems to have lots of leechers. It's got some good models in it if you love creampies.

But downloading a bunch of active freeleech torrents and seeding them is the best way to get started. Doesn't matter if you have to end up downloading stuff you don't particularly care about (like solos and stuff) but the whole point is to get your ratios up and grabbing freelech with lots of leechers is the best way to go about this.

@frostycab

That's what I have been doing in the past, and if you're starting out it could be a good way to build up gigabytes but 10 gigs aren't that much.

Assuming you don't have issues with port forwarding (and you know this if you download say a torrent from the pirate bay or other open tracker and look for a I in the peer's flags), just that this tracker incentivizes seeding, and so it's not unusual to download gigabytes but upload kilobytes.

It's why I said you would be better off looking at freeleech torrents, and sort them by leechers.

Right now the 240G Sketchy Sex collection is freeleech and it seems to have lots of leechers. It's got some good models in it if you love creampies.

But downloading a bunch of active freeleech torrents and seeding them is the best way to get started. Doesn't matter if you have to end up downloading stuff you don't particularly care about (like solos and stuff) but the whole point is to get your ratios up and grabbing freelech with lots of leechers is the best way to go about this.

@frostycab

Want to add:

You can also use seed points to make a torrent freeleech. So see something you fancy and it's not freeleech? Use the points there (or on a torrent you already are seeding) because freeleech torrents tend to get leeched more.

@bodyworship8

It's hard because this site's trackers punish you harshly for having too low of a ratio so everyone's seeding and not many are leeching. I think a balance needs to be kept or else everyone just gets restricted for not having enough ratio and the whole system breaks down.

I don't know how much space you have but you should be running the torrent downloads from a HDD (any old ones will do), and even a 4 TB one isn't that expensive. You can basically just fill it up completely, no need to keep a reserve space like SSD does.

Then go download a bunch of freeleech torrent, as many as you can handle. Download them and seed them. The good thing about freeleech is that they don't count against your download (hence the name freeleech) and so even if they're large it won't count against you.

Periodically prune ones that just don't have much ratios and download ones with a lot of leechers.

I was able to get very high ratio at first because I used freeleech torrents but right now it just seems like hardly anyone's leeching. Besides by downloading freeleech torrents you are also helping those others who also wants to keep their ratios up.

@justatest90-0 PrEP is very expensive in Taiwan if you are not a high risk person (like say medical workers). I heard that you have to buy it in Thailand if you want it cheaper, like vastly cheaper.

Otherwise a course of prep is something like close to 1000 dollars.

But once you become positive, the government pays the costs, and first 2 years is paid for by the Taiwan's version of CDC, after that it's paid for by the national healthcare.

@parcelhuse

I would love to just suck it up.

But a lot of guys in Taiwan seems REALLY selective about who they will cum on or into for some reason.

@cp2000

I think I've seen someone say that sexual orientation is not a choice, and that someone's either gay, bi, or straight.

I also heard it was said that most people are on a spectrum that goes from straight, to bi, to gay. To a straight person having sex with the same sex is as disgusting as a gay guy having sex with a woman, but that most people are in between.

That being said just because a guy likes ass play doesn't mean he's gay. There are plenty of straight guys who would let a woman fuck him with a strap on but absolutely would not like a man to fuck him at all.

But I've also had sex (at least in prison) with a few hot "straight" guys... One straight guy showed me his dick saying this is what many woman loves. Then eventually he let me suck it.

But outside of incarceration or whatever? I never met any straight guys who are even remotely interested in doing gay stuff or anything sexual. I don't doubt gay saunas are full of married "straight" guys who just wants sex, because getting sex from a woman isn't as simple as going into a sauna or hitting up Grindr.

By the way I would love to have sex with straight boomers, not that this is ever a possibility.

@charlesperr

I have the same issue and I'm 44, I have not had sex with the same person more than a few times. In the states it was better because at least I had this Nigerian dude who would hook up with me every few months but in Taiwan even Grindr has been proven to be a huge waste of time. The only time I could hook up is gay saunas but even then absolutely no one wants to get to know me and I generally have to take the initiative. All I ever manage to get from Grindr is spams and such.

I don't like the whole gay subculture especially in Taiwan because it seems your appearance matters a LOT more than anything else.

Almost everyone I meet in person is either not gay or taken, and even if they weren't they have absolutely zero interest in me in a romantic way.

I think this is a bigger issue than most people want to admit (hence the whole toxic incel culture) because in the olden days people married because they had to. Now we just rather stick to our phones rather than connect in any way.

I'm not even sure undesirable issues is even the problem/red flag because I seen plenty of very messed up people get dates and marry. I don't honestly know what's involved in romance because I never had one, never been on dates with anyone (male or female).

I have been going to therapy but so far they haven't identified what exactly is driving people away.

I think one very possible explanation (not saying it might apply to you) is that I am autistic, and probably barely on the high functioning side of the spectrum. I find most people boring and hard to be around, especially their musical tastes. But this isn't something I can do anything about.

@ianfontinell-0

Ok I understand.

I guess my best strategy now is probably download a bunch of freeleech contents and just let it seed...

@ianfontinell-0

I did some checking and digging and one particular torrent about onlyfans seems to get a small trickle of upload.

But most the peers connected don't have the I flag, but weirdly those from the pirate bay or whatever often have the I flag.

I don't think it's my ISP and I can even get into my modem's config page (because their password is literally "password") and see that port forwarding is enabled.

I do not know how this site's tracker works differently than others but I'm not even sure why DHT and others aren't enabled, and seems odd that I am unable to get any incoming connections from this site's peers.

Do I require a static IP or something?

My ISP has ipv6, how do I make this work?

@ianfontinell-0

Yea, I'm used to one night stands and nsa with strangers mainly because it's all that's available to me. I don't have any friends of the right orientation that I can go discuss sexual details with (and he has porn addiction issues so I don't even think this will help him either).

The gay sauna in Taiwan is just very purely nsa, no one really wants to get to know you. The one I been to in Berlin wasn't like this, a few wants to get to know me and buy me beer and such (not that I drink beer). I actually felt my chances with sex is higher in Germany than in Taiwan, but oddly the foreigners I ran into (that we did anything sexual with) in Taiwan's sauna are German.

And the weird thing is, sometimes, rarely, I could get really hard in saunas and such. I think drugs like viagra/cialis helps push you in that direction but it doesn't actually FORCE a boner. Cialis is better in my opinion because it's good for like 3 days so you don't even have to like wait until you're about to have sex to take it, you get a boner basically anytime during the 3 days it's active.

Is there something I can ask my non sexual therapist about, that might help with the anxiety?