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This photo isn't the greatest, BUT it is interesting enough to get me to download the movie. The problem is, this is NOT in the movie! Those cocks have been enhanced, and in the movie, that guy is not sucking two cocks at once. Also in the movie, his hair is a mess. It's stringy and all over the place. This image was carefully staged and posed. ClickBait.
I'm sorry but to me "look for friends in the bath house" is such a fucking bullshit. Maybe I am oldschool but lol this why I'm getting irritated in gay society. I just don't think that you have to necessarily make friends with gays just because you're gay. I have like 700 or 800 friends on social media and maybe 1-3% is gay.
I see the problem, you don't know anyone here so you can't go out with someone and then meet your friends' friends and create chain or something. But well there are plenty of ways. Work on your confidence. Don't be scared of being rejected. Everyone is being rejected. I've been rejected my whole life, but I'm trying. Even my ex who people and I for myself mistook for a god was rejected by just another guy. Rejection is such a part of the life. Embrace it and learn from it. Remember always to ask for a reason, like "why?" and everything might be not as it seems.
As for meeting people. I came for a trip to another city. My ex didn't have time so I went for a walk. During the walk I met like 3 different people one of which was Erasmus student, she was heading in the same direction so we just walked together and started talking. Just be natural and the talk will come out automatically. Don't think about how to start just go with the flow. When we arrived like 10-15 minutes later she didn't want to leave 😄 invited me for a party and I guess she was sad we parted cause she just stood there and we hugged and went in our direction. Not few steps further I shared smoke with a guy who had his first day at job of inviting people to the restaurant. I gave him few tips and tried to encourage him and talk to people myself. Be brave 🙂 People will be impressed by you.
Next thing if you have an occasion like I don't know an evening in the pub with people from work or something like that just use it. You can really chat to people with no big reason just create the opportunity. You say Grindr is for fucking, right. What about other portals ? I don't mean interpals but there are sure some. Or maybe an UK gay dating site ? Is there one? Cause we have a few even in Poland. If it's about the app use Tinder. You can do a lot of stuff with it. People are not looking for sex there so it'll be ok. Sometimes I'm like "I'm going for a walk - if you're interested you have an hour if not I understand and we're cool" or I just text in my nickname "A walk?" or something like that. You would be surprised but there are people even on Grindr that will go with it. But yeah you even have a weird option in Tinder to come out in group but I don't know how it works it might be pretty stupid. Maybe also think about instagram ? Met my ex there.
If you're worried about your look - well do what you can do to make it better. If there's nothing yet more you can do and you tried anything that means you feel good with yourself and it might attract other people too 🙂 Just don't lose hope. I'm feeling like shit sometimes too. Fighting with depression for 10 years. But there will be better times you really have to believe it.
I can't post his photo because he's a friend of mine and I don't wanna take risks.
1,75m, 80kg of muscle (but not completely buffed), gentle personality, reaaaally cute with strong facial features (a friend of mine called him ugly) and he's really charming.
He and his boyfriend invited me for a threesome last week. My knees are still shaking from the banging I took.
He smells delicious, smooth skin, an excellent kisser and an amazing top (lol).
Off topic (coz I just saw it in you BC)
You know in our country, the "N" word is not derogatory, we just simply use it as an adjective to describe skin color of a foreigner or a Filipino whose father or mother is African American (mostly) or Nigerian and the likes. We rarely use the term "Mulato" (that is how we spell it in our language). We don't mean anything by it, just for an easier identification. Just like if a Filipino has a white foreigner mother or father, we describe them as "Mestizo/za or Tisoy/say"
There's good stuff.. hmm.. Like *Gino's Summer Adventure" or similar pretty recent.
What do people like Kinky Angels? 😄
KA is a bit like reality drama ~ I wonder if GD himself writes it.
Surely BA could rough up a bit and produce a little more 'streety' than they're most offering. Isn't it quite some time they did outdoors flick? [Enchanted Forest (brilliant!)]
Then again GD knows the trade he has worked both in the US and Europe. Czech/Hungarian porn industry is over 10bn euro industry.
So they know what they're doing?
In addition to GD Marty Stevens is a great in directing/camerawork. Recently also Vlado Iresch has shoot material for BA ~ not sure what to think of that.
Most homophobic people usually display a sort of sexual inclination to homosexuality. I think culturally they find themselves embarrassed of something they can't control and their culture or hometown viewpoint has been slanted that homosexuality is a horrible thing and full of damnation. They become so self loathing they do anything to put themselves as far away from something they are so drawn to. How often have you seen republican representatives who have stood against everything for gay rights, only to find them exposed with a gay lover on a holiday somewhere "remote'?
The other percentage that probably just do anything to attack someone of minority are either assholes or so self destructive or have such low self image they need anything they can to make themselves feel better. Or both. They could be both.
I agree it's very perverted and sick and very much illegal. If caught here in America, that's felony invasion of privacy at least. You're registered as a sex offender and will go to jail for quite some time along with that.
Reminds of me this guy who got caught putting a camera in the restroom.
But playing devils advocate, we all have fetishes and what gets us off.
I think many guys have guilty pleasures. Whether they want to admit to them or not.
Again speaking only for myself and myself only, I believe many guys are just sick and perverted and feel, "That guy is so hot, I want to take a picture of him naked all of myself" etc.
It's very complicated and strange yes.
Me personally if it's already on the internet then I don't feel guilty watching it. I mean, what you can do?
But yes it's very sick and nasty and there are tons of videos of guys consenting to showing their naked ass online.
That guy could be a school teacher or something, or a father and basically his character is defamed because of this shit.
My relationship with my dad is complicated to say the least. He tried to be there for me as a kid, and I do have a lot of fond memories with him. I remember when I was a kid, he jumped out into the rode once when I was riding my bike down a really steep hill and the brakes gave out. He literally stopped me from crashing and getting hurt by using his body to stop me. I'll never forget that. But, then again, there were a lot of times where I didn't feel like he was there for me. Especially once he and my mother got divorced. He got remarried to a bit of a controlling bitch who is now my step-mother.
I came out to him as gay my first year in college over the phone and he just seemed to be in shock. Some of his exacts words were, "It's just wrong", and, "You might as well just go fuck a goat". He's also conservatively religious now (in part due to the influence of my step mother) and I largely consider myself an atheist/agnostic (it fluctuates). He's also preoccupied with his "new" life with my step mother and their young two kids (my half sisters).
I'm now a junior in college and we don't talk too much about my sexuality. He just kind of ignores it. We did have a talk about it a year after I came out, and it was a lot more civil. He still tries to care for me I think (I mean he always gets me Christmas gifts and a present on my birthday; he also pays for my car insurance), but he's trying to find a new sort of happiness in a life with my step mother. I don't blame him for pursuing happiness in that respect, but I do blame him for choosing to be with someone who ultimately forced him to become disconnected from his "old life" in exchange for a "new" one. I suppose I could summarize our relationship as one of some sort of caring, but also of some detachment and resentment. It's become a lot easier to care less about it because I'm becoming more independent, but I've always felt independent from my parents ever since my parents' divorce.
However, I'm quite convinced that the situation would NOT have been any different regardless of my sexuality. I just find it harder to relate with him perhaps and feel very estranged from religion. A side note: this story isn't all sad, I have a really great relationship with my mother and most of the rest of my family!
