Posts made by yababylol

Yes, though I think smartphone apps have mostly replaced the need for Craigslist … which in turn was starting to replace the old cruising scene that existed way before my time. Tearooms and adult arcades and that stuff were the Grindr of their day, I think. I remember reading about busts in a local park when I was 15 and being so intrigued with the concept of it, haha.

There's also not much different (in my opinion) about going to a club with the full intent of getting laid within the same night, save for the fact that you have a better chance to make sure you wind up with someone you're really into and there's less judgmental, social stigma attached to getting your one-night-stand jollies that way. 

@Blastfurnace:

So why didn't you start a relationship with that guy?

All my fault. I had other things going on in my life, and striding in the direction of a new connection with someone felt like a burden I didn't want to face. I didn't even try to have sex for almost a year; I just went back to the age-old solution of jerking off (well … jerking off MORE  ;D ).

It was only a few months ago that we last spoke, though. I might still have a chance if I pull my head out; I've got his number.

Any cum that doesn't disappear into one or the other orifice of my partner is just fancy masturbation to me, to be honest. Even a blowjob with a swallow doesn't really compete.

Deep inside is my ultimate, and that rarely changes except for an occasional strange mood that takes me. The moment of feeling it spurt out from me and burying it deep into the tight wetness of the submissive partner I'm inside of … that's what triggers that mental "I just had sex" moment of triumph for me, lol.

I always want to feel like it's spreading through the inside of the person I just fucked. Nothing is hotter to me.

It's been about a year since I got it out of my system (for now), but I had a good run of no-strings fun between 2014 and 2015. I've had success with Growlr, Scruff, and Grindr … in that order. Growlr because I'm in pretty high demand on that app (grr!), and have met my most permanent fuck buddies from. Scruff was hit and miss for me, mostly miss.

Grindr ... well, it was said that it was the "fastest" way to hook up, and I think that was true. It's just that worrying so much about speed seems about desperation to me (and I don't judge, I've been there), and you might find yourself just accepting a blatant anonymous fuck offer just for the convenience of it with a guy you normally wouldn't consider remotely attractive. Then again ... I had the most amazing sex with the most amazingly perfect-my-type guy with someone I met on Grindr. We've texted back and forth a few times over the last year, talking about meeting up again ... but it always falls through when it comes to me committing to it, for some reason. :-S

I also think it's regional, to be honest. Some areas might be very heavy into Scruff and not use Grindr much, some vice versa, etc. Just download them all (I know it sounds slutty, but let's be real ... you want to get laid within a short timespan by someone you find attractive ... so you are being kind of slutty.  You can get a better and faster hookup by casting a wide net), and switch back and forth once you've decided to cruise. You'll probably see a lot of the same guys on all the apps, too, so you'll know you're not alone. One of those guys might even be the one you end up pounding.

Good luck.

I don't find Asians, South Asians, blacks, hispanics, Arabs, North Africans, etc. to be sexually attractive on a personal level….

I knew before I even clicked on the post button that someone would try to read that meaning into my comments, to the point that I was typing up an in-advance clarification to stop it from happening … but deleted it because my post was already so long. Bleh.

Of course it's okay to have sexual preferences, but the original poster's question has nothing to do with that. It's a given if he wants to jerk off to it in porn, or finds a person attractive enough that the question of dating even comes up, that it has nothing to do with what makes his dick get hard.

Specifically, he was asking if your "disapproval" (a much more judgemental word) of someone's race, ethnicity, or even country of birth was a reason to reconsider. He went so far as to say it was about politics, which seems a strange word to use if it's about simple sexual preference.

It depends on what "sex" is to you I guess, haha. Are you bottoming, or topping?

I'd feel cheated if I was in a relationship and wasn't getting it every day, to be honest.  ;D

@Aerion182:

Hi there after digging a lot i found the clips i could from that images you posted. They are from a guy called Kaleb Sutra he has a twitter @Kalebsutra, but he isnt the twink in the images he is like the boyfriend of the twink. That twinks name is Caleb they dont have any porn site or anything but the clips from the pool with Caleb are in this torrent https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=4aff37dd70ad3b039f39f33082f04266b23e7da40c458c59
Along some other clips i found interesting ones i could find of them.

Cheers 

Well, thanks for my own post from a few weeks ago played back in a single paragraph, haha. 

would you not have sex with a person whom you find attractive but belongs to a race / nation / culture you disapprove of…

Um … that's not politics, my friend. That's basically bigotry, racism, and prejudice. I don't think "political" is the most accurate word to use if you're limiting it to those three words. Politics is about ... well, policy. Government policy. It's about tax codes, civil rights, legal systems, government programs, foreign policy, etc.

"Not approving" of a person's race is bigotry. Making a decision about them because of what country they were born in is a different kind of bigotry, but bigotry all the same. Now, not agreeing with a person's thoughts and ideas about the world and how it should work? THAT is what politics is.

You might have a few politicians who run on racist platforms, but even they have the good sense to cloak their racism behind 'reasons' that can be boiled down to governmental policies.

Do I not watch porn because I don't "approve" of the RACE of the performers? No! What a question!

In the interest of genuinely advising you on what you asked for (an alternative) … I'd have to ask what's the most important thing about poppers to you? When you say you're worried you won't want to get fucked without them, which part is it you need from the poppers? The light-headed rush, or the relaxation of your waiting orifice?  

There are topical things (you have to dab them directly on your anus, and slip it in a bit) that you can use to relax or somewhat desensitize the area. That could help with the penetration-without-pain side of it.

If it's the rush you're going to miss, I have no idea. Sex while very stoned (pot, and I mean VERY stoned) might get you somewhere in the neighborhood. I know of nothing that comes close to poppers, though. I decided to stop using them because of side effects, too.

What I miss most about them is that right after a hit, if you're already horny as hell, it can transport you back in time to the kind of pure sexual mania I don't remember experiencing since I was in the middle of puberty, haha. Everything becomes maddeningly hot for a couple of blissful minutes. Fucking and cumming is fantastic on them.

A conservative homophobe desperate to not want to give sympathy to the LGBTQ community, who convinces himself that the guy didn't really do it because of a specific attack against gays as much as Americans in general … well, there's no way he could know that. He clings to the idea because it's what he WANTS to think. It's right wing, good vs. evil, black and white thinking at its most evident.

Unfortunately, the guy didn't exactly leave a note. To declare anyone knows what was on his mind when he decided to go into this place and do something disgusting and hellish ... you'd have to be a spirit channeler, or something. All we know for sure is that he pledged allegiance to the Islamic State, he was known to be mentally unstable by the people who knew him best, and there's some anecdotal evidence from eyewitnesses (which is actually the weakest kind of evidence there is, so homophobe commentors clinging to it like a lifeboat need to stop) that he was gay himself, and was somewhat visible on the gay scene (including patronizing that and other gay bars as a paying customer for several years).

As much as I'd love to ride the sympathy-train and claim this as a clear hate crime against the LGBTQ community, I can't say in an intellectually honest way that I know it to be a certainty.

There's been a couple of other cases regarding homegrown, American resident extremists slowly deciding to do something like this and succumbing to Islamic State propaganda, but in those cases, they generally seem to pick a target they know well, that had been a big part of their "American" life. A good example is what happened a few months ago in San Bernadino ... that guy definitely picked a group of people he knew well when he did what he did.

It's at least plausible to me that in the attacker's mind, this wasn't about gays in particular, so much as a holy war on infidels and him going to a spot that he knew very well to begin that war. Myself, I think it's likely that homophobia was a big part of the motivation equation, but I don't think it was all of it ... and not necessarily in the same way that most people are thinking.

I've personally wondered if it wasn't really about this guy being trapped in self-loathing (literally believing there was evil inside of himself that he had to purge out somehow). That's a pit of despair that a lot of gay people often experience, when raised under strict Abrahamic religious beliefs. I live in a deeply religious area in the U.S., and I've known multiple guys who have committed suicide because of that very conflict. Maybe this poor, tortured, son-of-a-bitch that decided to be a monster thought he was doing something to 'cleanse' himself somehow. I have no idea, but listening to some of the friends I've lost in my own life to the doctrinal programming of their upbringing ... I can believe it.  :cry2:

How is sucking dick not equally as gross? It's not just cum that comes out of there … urine does, too ... and pretty much everything in that whole region tends to get sweaty, swampy, and funky after being covered up by two layers of clothing for a few hours. Have you ever really thought about how icky vanilla oral sex really "should be"? 

It's fine if you're not into it and you don't have to make apologies for it, but the only answer to your question I can give is that if you can understand why "because it's hot and it turns you on" is a good enough explanation to explain while you like to drink directly from the same pipe that delivers pee .... well, then it shouldn't be too hard to understand the same sort of psychology is going on in the heads of people that like to lick a clean, luscious ass.  ;D

For the record, I've never liked the whole sucking a dick immediately after fucking thing I see in porn, too (I've had one bottom try it with me before and I immediately stopped him -- I couldn't kiss him after he did that, haha). It doesn't make you "weird," it just means that's you. I can also understand that there must be tons of guys that are totally into that, otherwise those kinds of scenes wouldn't be so common.

@gaypraha2:

guys guys.. his account is download disabled and last time he signed on the forum was on the 23 of march…

Just because people continue to post in the thread doesn't mean they're directly addressing the original poster with their comments. That's making an assumption that each and every thread created on the forums is a self-serving orgy of information for an original poster – not so. They're group discussions.

People continue to talk in the thread because they're similarly interested and more or less sharing opinions and knowledge with each other. The thread has value, still, it's an interesting topic. I couldn't care less if the creator is long gone.

I've been doing some deep Internet image searching because I want to know about this, too. I believe that the top we're looking at is a guy that goes by Kaleb Cove. Sometimes he goes by Kaleb Sutra, or at least that's the name of the product he's peddling (it could also be just the person who produced these videos, as older videos of him feature a different hair color, but honestly I think the blonde is a product of bleach). He barebacks with his partner, who I think is the other bleached twink in these videos. He may have changed boyfriends (it happens) at some point as the hair color changed a bit between videos. I don't know that they want to associate themselves with any big studio. They're on tumblr, twitter, a few blogs, and xvideos in various forms (also amazon, believe it or not) selling a gay version of the kama sutra.

I'm having a hell of a time tracking down a full-length video, or this one in particular, though. I'm not sure he even intended for it to be one (he seems more interested in the Sutra product). The videos and images linked to so far are all about that product. I'm still looking, but if anyone can beat me to it from these tips … go nuts.

Here's their tumblr, it's a great jumping off point for searching for more:

http://kalebsutra.tumblr.com/

And another one (actually, there's a few clips on Banana Blog):

http://thebananablog.com/blog1/2013/01/17/the-table-fuck/#gsc.tab=0

And here's one on xvideos:

http://www.xvideos.com/video9988305/kaleb_sutra-_bb_fucking_the_partner

I could try gathering them into a collection and uploading them for the masses, if there's interest.

I'm glad to see there's yet to be a post shaming everyone for having this particular fantasy, and trying to reinforce culturally programmed taboos into people. Our kinks are our kinks – this is a VERY common one, but people get hysterical over it when they don't share it (or maybe they're ashamed because they DO share it and don't want anyone to know).

What you jerk off to isn't what you're about to act out in real life.  Live and let live. ;D

But, yeah, someone mentioned good role-playing videos ... what I've found is the best out there are things where I can kind of just mentally plug in the "idea" of that scenario going on and realistically believe it. The important thing for me is a clearly more dominant, masculine partner taking charge of things and a more petite, twinkish, smooth partner on the bottom side of things. Rocco Steele is an excellent performer with several torrents up on the site right now that you could easily believe is macho, butch, tough daddy breaking in a son in several scenes he's been in. In particular, look for the ones with Armand Rizzo and another one (very hot once you get to the actual fucking) with Dmitry Osten. You know, I just decided I won't be lazy and will give the links for anyone interested.  

https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=28b0e73c7149fbe46057094b228e603ea2e0f60db19b26a4
https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=34263862ebe6359f6057094b228e603e0bdbeb2530da08f0&hit=1

So, I started this thread over two years ago, and it's a deliberate necro-bump. I also tend to make very long posts, so I apologize for both of those things.  But, stick with me and read through it if you don't know about Frank, and I'm willing to bet you'll find it worth your time. ;D

I'll start by saying I have looked Frank/Francis up a few more times, and there's a bit of gossip about his life floating around out there. A lot of it's on Youtube. This channel is good to look at if you're curious just to see images of him – believe me, if you're into twinks and Youngblood, you'll want to see more pictures of him; he died at only 20, and it's a shame. He was a genuine model, and kind of just did the sexy-time webcam stuff on the side for some cash:

Cute Safe-For-Work Youtube Video

So, yeah, necro-ing this post … I just wanted to put some more eyes on this gorgeous guy again and see if anyone can find any more information about him. I did find at least one hot video not included in our current torrent pack that's fairly high quality, on a tube-streaming site. I'm planning to download it and upload it here as an independent torrent when I have time (about 16 minutes long, him in a bathtub playing around and just being cute as all hell). My ratio could use the help at the moment anyway.  

Also ... I'd love to just get more biographical info on the guy if anyone knows more about him. I've looked him up a couple of times out of curiosity and found a few forums where a bunch of mean-spirited older sugar daddy types were completely bashing on the boy, deceased or not, for being an attention whore (and honestly, isn't that the inevitable thing for someone gay, young, hung, and full of cum to become?), and it's more-or-less confirmed he did commit suicide, but the details are vague about why. It sounds like a few of the nastier bullies that drove him to that point came from chan-type forums. Again, there's a bit about the drama on Youtube, as well, but .... all speculation and a most of it is in poor quality videos, and some of it even still carries that chan vibe and nasty sentiment.

I wish he was still around. To this DAY I find it difficult to find any model or performer who's this cute and pristine ... and, well, not obviously trying to enhance their build with muscle and bulk (not my type, I like the more feminine look quite a bit   ). He reminds me of a lover in University I once had a couple of years ago, who I miss, so that might be part of it, haha. So, again, if anyone can recommend similar kinds of performers or models to the late Frank Wolf, I'd be grateful enough to offer up a firstborn or something.

Sorry for the loss of property, but … can you show us what you look like wearing a pair of the "good" ones? 

I really wish some studio would make some porn with models as attractive as the ones in Bel Ami, but with the intensity that you see in MachoFucker, TIM, etc.

The closest I've seen is Staxus, and they do the boring twink-on-twink thing way too much. Also, MachoFucker and TIM likes to do the masc-on-masc thing a lot. Please, no more same-on-same. It friggin' sends me to sleep.

I NEED to see a big, strong masculine partner with a petite, twinky, smooth partner. It needs to be butch-on-twink, that's the natural order, yes?    ;D

Nope. I'd go so far as to say as please take notes, write an erotic memoir afterwards, and if you're willing … pics and videos.  ;D

... I'm a perv, though.

Top-vers. I admit that bottoming has so much pure sensation about it, but so much of sex is mental, and I just can't beat the turn-on I get by hearing a smaller, petiter guy moan when I pin him down and sink in. THAT makes my cum flow.

I bottom sometimes, though, and like it when I'm in the mood for it.  ;D

I think that most sexual sensations (including smells and tastes), outside of the nature-programmed unmitigated pleasure of having your penis directly stimulated, are "acquired tastes." So much of sex is psychological, all in your head. It's the IDEA of the cum that's hot to you.

I've explained this before to women I've known that have trouble cumming with a partner, and can only do it while masturbating and fantasizing … an orgasm is a mental thing, you have to be TURNED ON before it can happen. I was shocked by the taste of an actual cock the first time I tasted one, too, and likewise, shocked by the wetness of a pussy the first time my face got in front of one. I was turned on enough by the concept of doing those things, though, that I went back for more, became acclimated to both, and now that I'm well acquainted with the experiences, even just the memory of the scents and tastes, textures and sensations, are enough to get me going if I'm horny (which I usually am  ;D ).

It's the same for the first time I bottomed. It hurt more than I expected, and not over width (I was expecting the "stretch" of the initial penetration to be the thing I found most painful), but because of depth. I wasn't expecting that deep-in-your-gut sensation, and it was surprising. Still, the idea of submitting turned me on, I went back for more after whimpering that first time .... and now the feeling is genuinely erotic for me. Of course, like with many bottoms (I'm top-vers, but I do love a dick up my ass sometimes), once I cum, it loses its appeal, haha. I've been told before by other cum-lovers that cum suddenly becomes "nasty again" once they ejaculate and their horny mental haze is over as well.

Just the way we're wired. Sexual experience is a lot like food ... takes some getting used to once you're exposed to a new thing, but if you're open-minded, a lot can be really awesome when you're 'hungry' and in the mood to play, if you only give it a chance and don't flee in terror and disgust the moment something takes you by surprise.

Once the urge and impulse of your hormones is fulfilled ... that's another story. Just like the buffet in front of your face looked amazing when you hadn't eaten all day, but now it looks disgusting when you're full ... a mouthful of cum can seem gross if you've already had your own orgasm and the horniness has worn off. This is doubly true if you're not very experienced, and direct contact with another man's semen is something that's fairly new to you.