Best posts made by yababylol

@lizejing1994 You've probably already aware of this, but just to make sure (you never know) -- have you looked at how much data you've downloaded to compare it to your upload total manually? The ratio is a true ratio, so it's determined mainly by dividing your uploaded amount by your downloaded amount

For example, say you've downloaded EXACTLY 300 GB worth of non-freeleech torrents already before uploading the 300 GB. That would get you at a 1:1 ratio and pretty much in neutral (but good standing) zone in terms of ratio. However, if you've downloaded significantly more than 300 GB (this is cumulatively, across the history of your account), it would require more than 300 GB to rebalance things again. It's possible to dig yourself into some pretty big holes if you binge on downloads too quickly.

I apologize again if you didn't need to read all of that and it's old news to you! I just like to never make assumptions, and that really would be the very first place to check. There's no shame in finding yourself in one of these holes, as long as you're willing to dig yourself out by trying to stick to FREELEECH and leaving your torrent client open as much as you can to build it back up. I'm in a similar situation myself, but recovery is slow ... not absent.

Out of curiosity, what is your download vs. upload all time total? You can see that on your personal stats page by clicking your user name in the upper right on the main gaytor.rent website, and then going to "Detaills" and Stats"

I'll just end by throwing in a third apology if it turns out none of this information was needed, and you were already aware to check for all of that. If you are sure that your download all-time total is now at least equal to or higher than your all-time upload total, I have no clue what it could be. It has always seemed accurate to me me when I've done the math myself.

As much as I feel like it, and never with guilt. I've hit over 7-10 times in a day many times, and I'm 33 years old at the moment.

There are days where I'm depressed or going through things (like a hangover, haha) where I just don't feel like it, so I don't at all. There are others where I'm just jerking it until I'm raw all day long. If I feel like I haven't done it in a couple of days, I'll often just go ahead and do it in the same way that a person might decide they should probably eat something just because the timing says you should, even if they're not hungry …. I want my body to continue producing the hormones that make me want to ejaculate.

The people who only go once a week boggle my mind, but I think it's possible for anyone to get there if they let their sex chemical production die down (they're letting their lives distract them from the majesty of cumming, so they stop seeking it out, which leads to the body producing less testosterone which makes you want to cum less ... self-feedback loop kind of thing). Frankly, I love sex and want to FEEL horny, so I don't want to evolve to that state. I don't actually sit down with a spreadsheet and crunch numbers or anything, but if I'm not averaging twice a day at a minimum, I'll probably start getting morose and will eventually devote half of a weekend day to drowning myself in my own cum and precum. My foreskin gets so tender after those 8-hour marathons, but it's the good kind of burn ... like after a workout or really good spicy food.  :cheers:

Of course, it's much more fun with a partner (a good bottom, preferably) to milk that cum out of me with his orifices, but that's not always possible.

If someone knows for sure that their status is positive in this day and age, then more likely than not, their viral load is low-to-undetectable because they'll have been getting it treated. I would clarify the story that the positive guy is actually telling you – hopefully, it's an undetectable viral load.

Every bit (EVERY LAST BIT) of science we have on the subject now indicates that it's a whole lot safer (even bareback) to fuck the positive-but-medicated guy than it is to fuck the "negative as of my last HIV test 6 weeks ago" guy ... which, let's face it, is the boat most of us are in when we tell others that we're disease free in the hookup apps.

I never have, but I absolutely would if he was getting his condition treated, and feel a lot better about it than being with negative-as-far-as-i-know man.

I'm also looking to get on PrEP to add another layer of protection, the moment I can find a doctor I'm comfortable bringing it up with. It makes me sad that the vast majority of the sexually active community isn't doing the same thing. If every one of us in the butt-fucking wild out there had a Truvada prescription, we may very well completely halt new HIV infection among gay men in the U.S. in its tracks for good!

We have a long way to go to really educate everyone that the landscape isn't the same as it was even five years ago, but yeah ... you can have your cake and eat it too, and you can have your sex and keep your blood clean without next-morning panic.

Medical advancement is a grand thing.