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Depends on the temperature.. the season for me!

@richym1971:

no need to be terrified about being singe at 35 i was back then and now 45 and a few months ago unexpectantely i met this great guy. He 27 was on trip to Manchester and he appeared and i have not looked back since. We chat every day either i travel  or he does every month so there is hope for anyone no matter what age  ;D

Well done!    :love:

@myrea:

Not judging, but… seeing someone in pain get's you off? I hope that is only a fantasy, because in reality sex is not supposed to go like that ahahah

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It is not clear to me on how I can reupload files..

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@poison824:

We live in a modern society where porn and sexuality is so in our face 24/7 that we can become bored quite easily. that is why some people have fetishes, they get bored cause porn and sex is so readily available.

That's a fact..

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@cupofass:

I cannot understand gay men's obsession with straight men!!!! Why do we pine for something that obviously is not attracted to us? Is it the allure of something we can never really have? Is it that weird obsession with only wanting to be used as a hole for straight dick? Don't tear apart these marriages unless you are absolutely sure that its over! and Don't lie to yourself either. I know this may be a little off topic and personal preference but have you seen gay porn with straight men??? It is the most uncomfortable concoction of boredom, one or both of the guys obviously not interested in who's fucking or who their fucking, I'd rather watch something that had flare and excitement when two gay men who are attracted to each other fuck. Not that Johnny Rapid Bullshit where he literally makes the same face every time he gets fucked, obviously faking it. Leave it alone guys there are enough hot gay men out there, leave the straights to their procreation.

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A conversion therapy is psychological treatment or spiritual counseling designed to change a person's sexual orientation from homosexual or bisexual to heterosexual..

Such treatments are controversial and have been criticized as a form of pseudoscience!

Medical, scientific, and government organizations in the United States and Britain have expressed concern over conversion therapy and consider it potentially harmful.

The American Psychiatric Association opposes psychiatric treatment "based upon the assumption that homosexuality per se is a mental disorder or based upon the a priori assumption that a patient should change his/her sexual homosexual orientation" and describes attempts to change sexual orientation by practitioners as unethical. It also states that debates over the integration of gay and lesbian people have obscured science "by calling into question the motives and even the character of individuals on both sides of the issue" and that the advancement of conversion therapy may cause social harm by disseminating unscientific views about sexual orientation.

United States Surgeon General David Satcher in 2001 issued a report stating that "there is no valid scientific evidence that sexual orientation can be changed".

The highest-profile advocates of conversion therapy today tend to be fundamentalist Christian groups and other organizations which use a religious justification for the therapy rather than speaking of homosexuality as "a disease". The main organization advocating secular forms of conversion therapy is the National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality (NARTH), which often partners with religious groups.

Techniques used in conversion therapy prior to 1981 in the United States and Western Europe included ice-pick lobotomies and chemical castration with hormonal treatment, aversive treatments, such as "the application of electric shock to the hands and/or genitals," and "nausea-inducing drugs.. administered simultaneously with the presentation of homoerotic stimuli," and masturbatory reconditioning.

More recent clinical techniques used in the United States have been limited to counseling, visualization, social skills training, psychoanalytic therapy, and spiritual interventions such as "prayer and group support and pressure," though there are some reports of aversive treatments through unlicensed practice as late as the 1990s.

The term reparative therapy has been used as a synonym for conversion therapy in general, but it has been argued that strictly speaking it refers to a specific kind of therapy associated with Elizabeth Moberly and Joseph Nicolosi.

What do you think about all that?

The Mormon Church has launched a new website, Mormon and Gay, that pushes for tolerance and acceptance of members of the LGBT community, though it doesn’t rescind last year’s decision to brand married same-sex couples as apostates.

@unpleased:

http://www.pornhub.com/insights/gay-searches-united-states

:police: :cheesy2: fucking insane  >:D

• straight first time is the most popular gay search in the us
• straight guys is the second most viewed gay category

more than 3% of p.hub visitors watch gay porn ….
so more of the percentage of gay people in the us
definitely yes

Interesting facts..  

@ChaunceyF:

Yes.

Don't worry about labels, I know a few straight guys who like gay porn sometimes.

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@Monastero85:

"Inferno"… totally overrated!
I rate it 6.5/10, it's definitely well made but they played way too safe, it gets boring easily.

The story sounds interesting though..

When Robert Langdon wakes up in an Italian hospital with amnesia, he teams up with Dr. Sienna Brooks, and together they must race across Europe against the clock to foil a deadly global plot.

@watcher2013:

Alison Limerick - Where Love Lives (Sauna Mix)  :cheesy2:

Youtube Video

;D

As far as I know he is not a user on this site..

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Interesting thoughts.. 

They would also perfectly fit in the related topic If you are not into anal, are you still gay?

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@ChicanoDag:

Interesting questions.  Not as simple as I first thought when I read the title.

Upon reflection, I think that I act as if there are different types of virginity.  When contacted on a hook-up app, I never ask if someone is a virgin.  I'll always ask, "Have you been butt fucked?" and "Have you been throat fucked?"  The answer varies.  Someone can give great blow jobs but have never been fucked in the ass.  Someone can love being butt fucked but never been throat fucked.

See, I can train a virgin, but it's not really something I want to do.  Helping a virgin with their first time being butt fucked or throat fucked takes a lot of time, patience and energy.  Not something I want to invest in when I'm looking for a quick fuck on a hook-up app.

As for your last question, it depends on the definition of "gay."  In my mind, at least, gay and homosexual and queer are not all the same things.  I see gay as relating to culture.  Homosexual as the simple physical desire and attraction towards someone of the same gender.  And queer as meaning anyone who is not straight (gay, lesbian, bi, trans, asexual, etc).

But then, maybe the question isn't important.  If you want to go to gay discos and hang rainbow flags all over your home, go for it.  I don't care who you're fucking.  If you want to fuck a man and then afterwards you want to fuck a woman, I don't see why anyone should have the right to judge you.  Pursue the relationships you want.  Have sex or don't have sex on YOUR timetable.  Resist the pressure to be something you're not.  Do what make YOU happy.

Interesting answers.. 

@z3n1th:

Wow… what a confusing question... needs to be digested...

I always just thought that you lose your virginity when penis enters asshole... hmmmmm

That's also what I used to think..

@Camlov:

The last two go together for me.   I would define a person is gay  if h/sh-e gets aroused mostly by individuals of the same sex, and a person is a virgin is one who has never had a satisfactory physical and emotional sexual encounter with another.  So if this is agreeable then yes, yes.

These were our first two answers!!

Have you ever met a hot guy on an app you wanted to get with?

Was there mutual interest, causing you both to get super excited?

Did things start to fizzle quickly when you realized that just like you – ruh roh – he’s also a top?

If this sounds familiar, you aren’t alone. For some strange reason, a lot of gay men who identify as tops (or mostly top) think there’s no point in meeting other “pitchers”.

That’s a crying shame because there’s lots of other hot things to do that don’t involve penetration. Silly as it may seem, not every sexual experience has to end up with someone riding the pony to stardom – if you know what I mean.

What do you believe?

Have you been in a such situation?

One of the perennial questions that seems to float around gaydom is this: Can you be gay and not into anal play.
Specifically, I’m talking about men who are attracted to other men but are grossed out by any type of butt play.

In other words, no:

• Bottoming
• Topping
• Tire changes that involve a rim job

Believe it or not, these types of guys do exist and there are more of them than you might think!

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What do you believe?

What does it mean to be gay?

And to extend the dialogue: is it a requirement that a guy be top, bottom or vers in order to be a card carrying homo?

Finally, does engaging in a specific sexual act make a person “gay”? If so, what is it?

All interesting questions on the psychological front – at least existentially.

Let us discuss them!