What Does Virginity Mean to You?
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What Does Virginity Mean to You?
When does a gay guy lose his virginity?The answers are surprisingly personal and I would like to hear your thoughts..
The definition of sex can be as messy as the act itself.
Hard and dry, sex means coitus: 1 penis + 1 vagina = 1 ejaculation.
The dictionary does not mention clitoral stimulation, pegging, scissoring or even dry humping.
Sex is not sex unless it is between heterosexuals and there is a passage of genetic material.
Queer men have a lot of sex.
If sex is about passing on genetic material then there are gay genes all over the place.
These acts have helped redefine the concept of sex from a biological necessity to a sharing of intimacy.
If sex isn’t sex, then when does a gay guy lose his virginity?
Can a person be gay if he’s never been with a guy or only slept with girls?
What is second base for a gay man—a kiss on the cheek or a gangbang?
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The last two go together for me. I would define a person is gay if h/sh-e gets aroused mostly by individuals of the same sex, and a person is a virgin is one who has never had a satisfactory physical and emotional sexual encounter with another. So if this is agreeable then yes, yes.
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Wow… what a confusing question... needs to be digested...
I always just thought that you lose your virginity when penis enters asshole... hmmmmm
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Interesting questions. Not as simple as I first thought when I read the title.
Upon reflection, I think that I act as if there are different types of virginity. When contacted on a hook-up app, I never ask if someone is a virgin. I'll always ask, "Have you been butt fucked?" and "Have you been throat fucked?" The answer varies. Someone can give great blow jobs but have never been fucked in the ass. Someone can love being butt fucked but never been throat fucked.
See, I can train a virgin, but it's not really something I want to do. Helping a virgin with their first time being butt fucked or throat fucked takes a lot of time, patience and energy. Not something I want to invest in when I'm looking for a quick fuck on a hook-up app.
As for your last question, it depends on the definition of "gay." In my mind, at least, gay and homosexual and queer are not all the same things. I see gay as relating to culture. Homosexual as the simple physical desire and attraction towards someone of the same gender. And queer as meaning anyone who is not straight (gay, lesbian, bi, trans, asexual, etc).
But then, maybe the question isn't important. If you want to go to gay discos and hang rainbow flags all over your home, go for it. I don't care who you're fucking. If you want to fuck a man and then afterwards you want to fuck a woman, I don't see why anyone should have the right to judge you. Pursue the relationships you want. Have sex or don't have sex on YOUR timetable. Resist the pressure to be something you're not. Do what make YOU happy.
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The last two go together for me. I would define a person is gay if h/sh-e gets aroused mostly by individuals of the same sex, and a person is a virgin is one who has never had a satisfactory physical and emotional sexual encounter with another. So if this is agreeable then yes, yes.
These were our first two answers!!
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Wow… what a confusing question... needs to be digested...
I always just thought that you lose your virginity when penis enters asshole... hmmmmm
That's also what I used to think..
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Interesting questions. Not as simple as I first thought when I read the title.
Upon reflection, I think that I act as if there are different types of virginity. When contacted on a hook-up app, I never ask if someone is a virgin. I'll always ask, "Have you been butt fucked?" and "Have you been throat fucked?" The answer varies. Someone can give great blow jobs but have never been fucked in the ass. Someone can love being butt fucked but never been throat fucked.
See, I can train a virgin, but it's not really something I want to do. Helping a virgin with their first time being butt fucked or throat fucked takes a lot of time, patience and energy. Not something I want to invest in when I'm looking for a quick fuck on a hook-up app.
As for your last question, it depends on the definition of "gay." In my mind, at least, gay and homosexual and queer are not all the same things. I see gay as relating to culture. Homosexual as the simple physical desire and attraction towards someone of the same gender. And queer as meaning anyone who is not straight (gay, lesbian, bi, trans, asexual, etc).
But then, maybe the question isn't important. If you want to go to gay discos and hang rainbow flags all over your home, go for it. I don't care who you're fucking. If you want to fuck a man and then afterwards you want to fuck a woman, I don't see why anyone should have the right to judge you. Pursue the relationships you want. Have sex or don't have sex on YOUR timetable. Resist the pressure to be something you're not. Do what make YOU happy.
Interesting answers..
