Posts made by spam17
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RE: Feet in sex
When a guy turns me on enough I can do anything–-even the things I don't particularly like---and enjoy the hell out of it.
Got many memories of unexpected surprises.That's a good point!
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RE: Whats the hottest ethnicity ?
Any…but I tend to get super turned on by latin men
I like all races but it think Latino/a are hot
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RE: What size is your dildo?
Mine's about 8" insertable and 2.5" diameter. I wanted something about the size of my dick, so I could see what I felt like to other guys. Turns out, I'm a bit too big for myself. It hurts quite a bit if I haven't bottomed in a while, but it's great if I use it regularly.
If you're new to toys and big dicks, start with something average. You'll appreciate having something more manageable and fun to use regularly. Prepping for a big dildo is work!
I'd definitely recommend getting one with a suction cup. That way you can ride it like a real cock, instead of having to push it in with your hands (my wrists get sore doing that). Also, go for a non-porous one like silicone, pyrex glass, etc. You can't disinfect porous ones. Just make sure NOT to use silicone-based lube with a silicone toy! The toy will melt to the lube, and it'll be ruined!
Good advice.. ;D
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RE: Worst thing that has happened to you during sex?
Me and an ex boyfriend of mine started making out on a terrace,it was a pretty warm summer night and I had just worked out,so I was all sweaty,and well,he got turned on and we started fucking.
To avoid being seen by neighbors,I layed on the ground and he sat on on my dick cowgirl style,and it was going pretty great,if not for the fact that the wanted me to push my pelvis up his ass,instead of him squatting over me.
I obliged,but my back,which because of training is quite developed,and because of the sweat from the earlier workout and well,the sex,started making this weird suction-cup noises,kinda like little farts.
I tried - I really tried - to keep going on,but it was too much and I bursted out laughing and kinda ruined the moment.
In all honesty,I was glad to call it quits - both that night,and for that relationship.That was a bad outcome.. :-[
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RE: Seducing straight guys…
If they have sex with men they are not hetero/straight at all. They're either bisexual o gay but are in denial/repressed, or closeted about it.
And if gay men marry and only have sex with their wives for the rest of their lives, are they therefore heterosexual? Sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things.
I would totally agree that sexual orientation and sexual activity are separate things!
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RE: Its Poppers just for bottoms gay?
Top here, And I fuckin love poppers in moderation. Excessive huffing and it kills not just boners, but lust too.
Note that excessive huffing has been known to produce undesirable side effects, including addiction, damaged sinuses, corrupted brains, which may lead to someone thinking they're something they aren't, and, in some cases, death!
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RE: How often do you get tested? For STDs?
every 3 months, if you are sexually active.
I just came here to say the same , Though i'm not sexually active .
I don't see the point of getting tested when you aren't active any longer..
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RE: Breaking up
I don´t know if i am a cold blood person. But, i entered on a relationship and i got very, very bored with It… And, he was a nice person. So...
I just said ´i am not happier anymore´. Well, he got anger and upsad and etc... But, what could he do? It wouldn´t get any longer if one of us unhappy.I chatted with him by phone. It´s better. You don´t really have the guts to tell it face to face.
Breaking up over the phone?
That sounds easier than when you are in person, isn't it?
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RE: Your first time story?
That was quick (the way it happened and the way you wrote it). Hahahaha.
Well, when I was 14 years old I started to use Badoo. I did it mainly bc I wanted to chat with gay guys from my country and not elsewhere. One day, I was surprised bc I recognized one of those who talked to me through that social network. He noticed me too but we both were in the streets for doing other things, so we only stared at each other that afternoon. When I came home later I was hoping to find some new messages from that guy and I was right. He asked for a day, an hour and a place. He was 18, btw.
So, to make the long story short, I was the bottom. And we made three or four positions. I know that it is a lot for the first time, but he was tender and savage at the same time. Nowadays I'm versatile and enjoy more being the top.
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RE: About viagra
Coming from a pharmacist, always check with a doctor first before you take any pills. They will assess if you are suitable, if you are fit, don't have any health conditions that might pre-dispose you to certain side effects.
After that, make sure you get it from a reputable source.
If you are scared of priapism, a common remedy is pseudoephedrine which acts as a counter-balance to the viagra. If that doesn't work people will get the penis drained.
Priapism is not a common side effect so I would not worry too much - just be aware.
Do not take any of this medical information seriously without consulting your doctor though!
I totally agree with the doctor's question..
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RE: Bisexuality
Bisexual activist Robyn Ochs defines bisexuality as "the potential to be attracted—romantically and/or sexually—to people of more than one sex and/or gender, not necessarily at the same time, not necessarily in the same way, and not necessarily to the same degree."
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RE: Its Poppers just for bottoms gay?
Beware that Poppers are drugs, and they interact with other drugs: for example, combined with vasodilators, such as Viagra, poppers can cause strokes and heart attacks!
Use of poppers has caused eye damage and has killed people who have taken them..
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RE: 6 Weirdest Things Men Do to Their Penises
"To each his own," but extreme piercing is one that I don't understand the appeal of (like in the graphic image below)…
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RE: IS IT SO WRONG TO CAM AFTER YOU ARE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP?
You don't need to be in a relationship. I had a partner once that was on several phone sex hook up apps. One day he was in the shower and his cell phone was on the coffee table, his mom was calling so I decided to pick up the phone and talk to her. After the call and as I was putting down the phone…it made a growing sound, I went "what the hell is this?" So I picked up the phone and noticed that it was a sexual message from one of the phone apps. I had no clue he was on them and when I approached him about it he became upset and said he was just looking for friends. I told him if you want friends find another outlet other than sex hook up sites. He respected the relationship and me and decided that what he had at home was good and offered for me to look at his phone at any given time. It was a trust issue for sure for me but it got worked out. If you respect your partner and the relationship don't cam anymore without him there. Shutting it down when he walked in seems "guilty" to me. I don't blame him for being upset. Why don't you jizz with him together, if you are taking time to cam and jerk off with someone else online...to me that is just another form of cheating because you are doing it with someone else and not your partner. :afr:
Hook up apps are quite popular nowadays..
Porn stuff everywhere..
If somebody cheats or doesn't, has to do with the person!
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RE: How can I be sure I'm gay if I haven't had sex?
One can have a physical reaction to others without having to have sex with them, nor even masturbate to their image. A slight tingling 'bout the groin region and so on.
And I mean if you want to be pedantic, can anyone be certain of their sexuality even have they've had sex?
You might have had 80 girlfriends in your life and been happily married to a woman for the last 30 years, never had the slightest reaction to a male in all that time, and then you see Brad Pitt for the first time and get an erection. It's entirely possible that sexual preference is wholly fluid for the majority of us (at the moment of birth), but that there's a lot of pressure and practical benefit to dating the opposite sex so we might never even develop our ability to have interest in our own sex.
Ultimately, it's best to not worry about it. If you like someone, like em. If you don't, don't.
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Homophobic backlash after couple's kiss
Couple face homophobic backlash after kiss goes viral
“Is this another publicity stunt by the gay community?”A homophobic opinion piece, which described two men kissing on a metro train as “Simply disgusting”, went viral over the weekend resulting in a torrent of abuse being directed towards the young men.
Writing for local news website All Singapore Stuff – whose acronym pleasingly is ASS – the author of the take down piece asks the question: “What if my children saw this and asked ‘Mummy, why are the two men kissing?’
“Would I have to answer ‘It’s the same as normal love and marriage…'” It would be lovely is this is where they finished writing, but alas that’s not the case. The ‘writer’ continues: “The only difference is that one man opens his buttocks for the other man to put his private part inside but in the end, no babies come out. They only get AIDS?!”
Adding: “Is this another publicity stunt by the gay community?
“Most people in SG already know they exist but would prefer that they just go back inside the closet and stop seeking attention,” they add.
One of the men who features in the photo is Australian Peter Eggenhuizen; he explained to the starobserver.com that he “felt mortified and violated,” by the takedown piece.
“To rub salt into the wound, the author went on to attack my act of love and affection. But I feel the need to rise above it and raise awareness that this is unacceptable, he added.”
“In many countries homosexuality is still illegal and this could have real and dangerous consequences,” he said.
“By being openly gay in Australia the risk of homophobic attacks increases, whether that be verbal, physical, or in our case online.
“I will continue to spread my love and do it my way. Spread love, not hate.”
The – and we use this term in its loosest sense – ‘author’ of the homophobic piece, concludes their sentiments by quoting a member of the country’s governing People’s Action Party, Chan Chun Sing. The politician and Minister in the Prime Minister’s office was addressing around 300 students in September when he said: “I’m not going to discriminate … (You’re free to do) whatever you do behind your bedroom doors … It’s not my problem. I’m not a sex policeman … But if you tell everyone to champion pro-LGBT or anti-LGBT (causes), it (might) cause social divisions, so (I have to step in) to be the policeman in the middle.”
“It seems that we really need sex policemen like Mr Chan,” argues the article’s author, “And stricter laws to keep the urges of the gay community in check.
“The gay minority can do whatever they want in their bedroom but they should not be going around promoting the gay lifestyle and demanding for gay marriage. They can be gay but we have our right not to accept their behaviour in public.”
Homosexuality is still illegal in Singapore and same-sex activity between men can be punished with up to two years in prison, although the law is generally not enforced. The past few years have proven a difficult time for LGBT rights in the country with its Pink Dot festival – the closest thing they have to an LGBT Pride celebration – coming under fire from the government for their external sponsors.
This year’s gathering, which took place on Saturday 4 June, was supported this year by a total of 18 companies – double the sponsors from 2015 – including Google, Microsoft, Twitter, Facebook and Apple.
The Ministry of Home Affairs (MHA) released a statement in response to the increasing popularity of the event at the time, asking sponsors not to “fund, support or influence” Singaporean issues.
They said: “The Government’s general position has always been that foreign entities should not interfere in our domestic issues, especially political issues or controversial social issues with political overtones.
“These are political, social or moral choices for Singaporeans to decide for ourselves. LGBT issues are one such example.”
The country’s Prime Minister also warned LGBT groups to not “push the agenda too hard” last year, as he believes the country isn’t ready for movements such as same-sex marriage.
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Other LGBT issues that have emerged in the past include a petition to ban Adam Lambert from performing due to his sexual orientation and the boycott Madonna’s Rebel Heart concert.
What do you think about this whole issue?
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I’m 35, Gay and Terrified I’ll Be Single Forever
@Sam:
I’m 35, Gay and Terrified I’ll Be Single Forever
As a gay man, the older I get, the more afraid I am nobody will want me.Honestly, I can’t believe I’m sharing this with you – let alone typing it on my desktop. There’s no easy way to do this I guess but just blurt it out.
I’m a 35-year old gay man who is terrified of being single forever.
That may seem like a silly thing to say. But reading it on my desktop now makes it even more real. Honest to God, with each passing day, it feels like my worst fears are coming true.
I guess what sparked my anxiety is a recent comment a friend from yester-year made to me when we ran into each other at a bar.
“I can’t believe you’re still single!”
Has anyone ever told you that? Did it make you feel like crap? I’m sure there was no malice intended behind those words but they cut like a knife just the same. My mind translates it into: Why haven’t you got your s*hit together yet?
The older I get, the more alone I feel. Whenever I look around, another one of my friends is getting married. And if they aren’t getting hitched, they are at least involved with someone.
Some are gay and some are straight but all of them have somebody.
All of them – except for me.
Can I be honest with you? What really scares the crap out of me is that I’m not getting any younger. When I was in my 20’s, I could attract guys like a magnet. Now-a-days, when a guy looks my way, it’s a rarity.
Back then, I used to believe it when people would say, “Don’t rush into anything – one day the right guy will come along.”
I keep wondering when “someday” will arrive.
Please don’t think I’m whining. I love my life. I have a strong set of friends, a great dog and a wonderful family. And it’s not like I don’t put myself out there. I totally do!
I’m on OK Cupid, Match, Hornet and even a few of the hook up apps for good measure. I go to gay related charity events and am no stranger to the bars.
But it just seems like each time I start seeing a guy, it goes nowhere. Oh sure, we might go out on a few dates and have some laughs. But after a while, things fizzle out.
A lot of the guys I meet are just flakes – looking for “someone better” I guess. It sucks because I’m one of those gays who truly wants to be in a relationship and build something special, like a family, you know?
I don’t think I’m ugly either. I may not turn everyone’s head when I walk into a room but I’m not hideous. Just an average looking gay man who tries to take care of himself.
Is it just me or does it seem like once you get into your middle 30’s, the pressure to couple up starts mounting. Kind of like a ticking alarm clock that you know will eventually go off and scream: Times up!
I’ve had boyfriends in the past. Some relationships went on longer than others. Does 2-years count as “long term?” Because that’s my high point.
I guess my biggest fear now is that nobody is going to want to date an aging gay who has little history of “being” with someone.
You want honesty right. I’m giving it to you.
And it’s not like I’m horrible in bed or anything. The guys I’ve been with certainly haven’t complained. Without being graphic, I’m pretty versatile. I recognize that sex is an important part of most relationships.
But having sex and making love are two different things. I so badly want someone to top me like that give a s*hit, not like I’m some cheap piece of trade.
I’m tired of hooking up with men who are sexual robots; men who wouldn’t know real passion if it hit them on the head. I want a man who wants love. A man who can be vulnerable. Someone who wants to love back.
Maybe it’s me. Perhaps my expectations are just messed up. All I require is authenticity and a desire to let someone in. That’s what I try to do when I’ve met other men.
But it’s not turning out that way.
All I keep finding are guys who are looking for “the one”. They have it in their mind that it’s got to be a “match” on the first date – period.
Doesn’t it take more than just one cup of coffee or one meal to get to know somebody?
In a few weeks it will be my 36th birthday. In gaydom, that doesn’t make me “ancient” but I am creeping towards “older”. What’s sick about it is that in the straight world, 36 is considered young.
WTF am I going to do if I’m still single at 40? Will other gay men think I’m toxic because I’m still “available”? Deep inside, I kind bet that’s exactly what they’ll think.
I’m not giving up. Hopefully, I’ll meet someone soon. But the clock is ticking.
Have you ever felt like that?
What did you do?