Posts made by rickydrexel

@ipertatos:

It happens often, when a straight guy finds out that his pal is gay, that he feels that the gay guy needs "protection" against racism, bullies etc. He feels that he is kind of his bodyguard and just "overtries" for him not to feel that he is losing him as a friend.

Ok, I see what you're saying. Kind of over compensating and such. This might be a possibility now that I think of it, but then again maybe not. I have always been like the token gay in my groups, and a mascot in others. No one really has a problem with it, so why over compensate. Smh!! Too much.

Thanks you guys. Think i'm gonna go with a dog. But I want a puppy.

@ipertatos:

Perhaps he just needs to protect you from any hazard out there…

Hazard?? What do you mean??

@bear1515:

It's because many people attribute it as being a thing that women do. That's why there is that stupid thing: The woman of the relationship.

Its just a extremely stupid concept that many people still use.

I really hate that, but I don't feel like the gay community has made it any better by accepting this. I hate when guys refer to their assholes as "pussy"!! But you hear it in porn, and all over the gay community. There's nothing attractive about that.

@bear1515:

There is no such thing as soul mate, the love of your life, etc…

Any guy that you find attractive and is a nice guy, can make you feel in love for them. So yes, you can love more than one guy.

It's just that one moment, you will find a very nice guy, who you really care about, and love, and will settle. You do this because it's a human need, because you don't need to look for somebody else, not because its the love of your life and you will never find somebody like him.

So I take it that you don't believe in true love, or love at first sight??

Ambi

Met a guy with his taint pierced. Does that do anything for you sexually??

It's time to get a pet, but I am torn between a cat or a dog. Never had a dog before, and wanted to hear some pro's and con's for them. Any particular breed better than others??

At what age should you come out to your child, or is it better to leave it unsaid. My oldest is going on 13 and I feel like it's time to have that conversation with him. At this point I think he is old enough to understand.

Why is it that so many attribute bottoming to being effeminate?? If anyone out there thinks that bottoming makes you less masculine, please explain because I just don't get it. I don't like strict anythings when it comes to sex, and don't think anyone should limit themselves, but I think that people having that mindset is the reason that most guys won't open up to new things. It takes a real man to bottom, trust and believe that!!

I say go for it!! I can't wait to get married!!

Are there any guys on here who are married and serving in the military. The idea of marriage is something that has been heavy on my mind lately, and I wanted some insight to how it is being open and married in the military. Was married to a female, but the love wasn't there, and now considering marrying my BF who is currently serving.

I have met some pretty amazing guys in the past few years, some straight and some gay, but great guys nonetheless. Over time after forming these connections with certain ones, I have started to fall for a few of them. Is it possible to be in love with more than one person, or am I just lusting. I think it's love because although sex would be great, I find myself more interested in the possibility of long term relationships with these guys. Maybe even marriage. Of course one in particular more than the others, but what do you guys think??

@thekingdom:

1. I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about sex
2. This is my general rule: if the date went well and I want to see the guy again, I avoid sex on the first date. I guess it's just my way of seeing whether he's serious or just in it for the sex. If, on the other hand, the date was just meh and I don't see the relationship going anywhere, I might have sex on the first date. Because if I'm not going to see him again I might as well have some fun.

Good points. Very good points.

@jokoracetho:

My asshole hurt for one week and I couldnt poop without pain :(. No more bottoming

LOL!! It gets easier the more you do it.

@laci78:

my first sex with a man…

i was 23, he 34, experienced, at least 30 centimetres lower than me.. And gave one of the best blowjob ever.. It was the first time that somebody swallowed my load. I wanted to fuck him but he got a call he had to answer, so there was no "real sex".. i felt myself strange. it was awesome, wanted to have more, but. I couldn't love (with real love) a man. So it's still "just" sex. But i relly like it.

You don't think you could fall in love with another man??

@SPT:

this is actually a tricky thing
1 Talking about sex is never inappropriate.. expecially for guys, it's better to know if you actually have the same tastes in Bed
2 think of it this way.. you find a really hot guy that you like and he likes you back and you end up dating 1 month before sex and in Bed it turns out that he bores you to death… now with some people you can work this through you teach them new things you talk and try to make it fun for both... but some will always be boring no matter what so what do you do then... break it off or have a sexless/boring sex relationship...

hope it helps gl

Thanks for your input. This is very true, but I also don't want anyone to think that i'm just all about sex either, or that i'm just looking for a quick thing despite what I have told them.

I do believe that it necessary for people with hygiene issues, and guys with really big dicks. I was dating a guy who couldn't pull the skin back because his dick had gotten too big and this caused him a lot of problems, and he had to get it circumcised. Other than that, I believe that it's just a matter of taste. Never heard of anyone getting a disease from being uncircumcised.

I've been going on a lot of dates lately, trying to find Mr. Right, and a lot of the guys have been seriously fucking HOT!!! To me, first impressions are everything, and although I love sex, and am a huge freak, I don't want to come off as a total whore. So I pose 2 questions today.

1. Is talking about sex on the first date inappropriate
2. How long do you wait before having sex when you're looking for a steady mate/ dating?

Thanks in advance for your input.

HELL NO!!!! And thank goodness, or else I would never get fucked!!!