Posts made by rickydrexel

Is it just me or is the ratio not being effected by seeding anymore. It used to be that it increased the longer you seeded right??

@groovedware:

Like, I didn't realize spitting was an option!  I always prefer the cum inside me, easier clean up.  Also, I learned from Publizity if a fellow blasts on your stomach and looks you in the eye while he's doing it you could end up catching pregnant.

Swallow and stop flushing bum babies!

Ummmmmmmmmmmm!!! Don't quote me on this but i'm not sure thats how it works. LMAO!!!

@nordicblue:

I still say that pointing to the fact the definition is mutable, doesn't change the action.  If one kills someone by negligence and they are acquitted and someone else kills someone in a crime of passion and they are convicted.  They have both committed the act of murder, even if the courts and people say you were not to blame.  Fuzzy definition or not, I do not believe in getting married and then having flings, consensual or not.  Also, no one is being argumentative, the purpose of the forums is to debate things.  At least that is how I feel.

You are absolutely right, and honestly there is no right or wrong answer here, I just wanted to get others opinions on the matter. In actuality what I decide to do won't be based off anything that I have read or seen on here. At this point I haven't done it, but if I chose to, it will be because that's what I want to do, and don't feel that my character will be questionable, because truthfully nobody knows my situation but me. But thank you all for your responses and I will keep you posted.

@Popper:

If you make your first own torrent upload and seed it completely here on GayTorrent.ru, you could get the First Time Upload Program reward of 600 bonus points.

How do you do that??

@nordicblue:

How did he know you were gay?  Did you tell him or do you behave more flamboyantly?  How did you know he was gay?

No, nothing like that. I'm not flamboyant, not that that would be a problem, but I am openly gay with all of my friends, so he knew since I met him, and I don't know if he's gay, he just wants to experiment with someone he feels comfortable with.

@nordicblue:

He actually made advances toward you?

Yes, I didn't initiate any of this, but I have to admit I have always found him attractive, but he called one day and actually told me he wanted to try it out, and that he wanted me to be his first. At first I thought it was a test, but then as time moved on, our phone conversations got more intense, like blow your load intense over the phone. WTF!! I know, I know, but hey, what can I say.

I will honestly say I didnt think i'd get so many positive responses but thanks you guys. My problem is that I am very close to the wife, and even walked her down the isle for their wedding, but in the same instance, I know he cheats on her and so does she. I don't want anything more from him than to just hook up like he asked then on my way to continue on with the friendship. Now what am I gonna do if he gets hooked? But I guess i'll see when that comes around.

@raphjd:

Everyone has their "type" and there is nothing wrong with it.

I totally agree with you on that!! If you don't fit into a persons type, then move around and find someone else. There is far too many gay men out there to get upset about a persons preference. I do however feel that people should be more open to try new things. But I can't be upset if someone isn't attracted to me. If you say no blacks, then you just miss out on all this chocolate goodness. LBVS!!

@nordicblue:

Yes, closeted married men seem to be the most attractive, especially since they don't act like flaming queens.

This is true, but what if you were friends with his wife as well? Would that change your mind in any way?

Would you have sex with a married man, if you knew his wife. My life is sooooo extra sometimes. LOL!! Okay lets talk.

@cumpigboy:

Rickydrexel, do you have any updates? 
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Hey everyone, sorry it's been so long since my last update but soooooo much has gone on since the last time i posted. I took the advice and finally had the talk with him about how I was feeling, and his initial reply was " I always knew you liked me, you just always act tough when you get around people." Then he said "I tried talking to you about it so many times but we were both drunk and this is something i'd rather talk to you face to face about." So not really sure whats going to happen there but I will see him in person again in the beginning of the year. Now, onto the new craziness in my life. Shortly after that conversation I was contacted by his mentor who told me that he had heard I had a crush on him (the mentor) and wanted to have sex with me to see if it was something that he was into. Obviously if you want to have sex with a man it's something that you're into right? But anyways this guy is HOT, and someone I always wanted to hook up with but the problem is that we're all friends, and on top of that he's married. Mind you I was supposed to go and do this in November, but funds were low, and the more I thought about it the more awkward I felt about it. Not sure if i'm going to do it, but i'm starting to feel like I have a sign on my head that says confused straight men only. And he's not the only one. What do you guys think?

So, don't ask me how I get myself into these situations, because I don't know, but they are always crazy. So recently I was approached by a very close friend, and asked if I wanted to sleep with him. Truthfully, I have always wanted to sleep with him, but never got the chance due to the fact that he is straight and always has a girlfriend. Now, I have already made up in my mind that I am going to do it, but wanted to see what you guys think. And yes, he does currently have a girlfriend.

I love to perform oral! From licking toes to ears, it all just turns me on, especially if the toes are nice!! Something about it just makes my dick hard!!

Imma go with nice body!! I can get past looks, and a penis size as long as the body is right!! Pretty feet puts you at the top of all my list.

HMMMMMMM!!!!

@Minerboh80:

I can understand perfectly what you mean because i have the same problem.
I was in many date sites and i had many opportunities to meet and have sex but in the last minute, there was something that was changing my mind.
There are many dangers with online dating. Heck, there is danger wtih the classic way of dating.
We are hearing so many things on the news regarding online dating and we subconcioually are affected.

This might possibly be it. There are many dangers, but no more than it used to be. But maybe you're right and it is a subconscious thing.

@hhsq:

I have a similar issue. I usually can't stand the idea of meeting someone before building up some trust with him… I guess It's just fear... but sometimes it really looks like teasing, and it makes me feel bad.

Exactly, immediately after I stand them up, I feel horrible, because I wouldn't want it done to me. This is crazy.

@raphjd:

DL (downlow) and closeted is the same thing.   It's different terms people use for the same thing.

Most often, blacks use the term DL or downlow.

I believe that it is just a little deeper than that. I used to think it was the same thing as well, but now, i'm sure it's not.

What is the difference between dating or messing around with a guy on the DL as apposed to a guy who isn't out yet? I have been with both, and it feels the same to me. Anyone wanna shed some light?

You are perfectly normal in every way. Masturbation is all about self pleasure, so what ever way makes it feel best for you is how you should do it. When I was your age I masturbated 5 to 10 times a day when I wasn't busy. Your sex drive is in overdrive right now, and you're always horny, so I don't feel that is uncommon either, especially since you aren't releasing any other way ie sexual intercourse or oral sex. The size of your penis, is not anything serious either, 7 inches is actually a very nice size, and 5 isn't horrible either. At this point you don't even know if you like using it yet so why should it even matter. Now when it comes to the sperm thing, just be extremely careful. Your sperm is fine to experiment with but drinking others either frozen or stale can be an issue. I wouldn't suggest it.