Posts made by rickydrexel

Don't get too hung up on labels. I agree with what was previously said. I am a gay man with 2 natural children, meaning I actually had sex with a woman to make them. Even so, I still consider myself gay. Whatever you like is what you like. I love straight porn, and even sometimes venture into lesbian porn. It turns me on. Period. Have you ever thought about trying something with a guy? If so, thats perfectly natural as well. If I had a dollar for every straight guy that has told me that they wanted to sleep with me, i'd be rich. But does that make them gay? NO!! It is natural to be curious about these things, and if more people were open minded and not so stuck on stereotypes, I feel that more straight men would venture into what we call the gay world. Do what you like and try what you like, as long as it's not hurting anyone, or imparting on the rights of others ie rape.

So i'm about to be without a computer for 2 weeks, and need to know; whats the fastest way to raise your ratio before having to make a donation? Anyone know?? I've tried to upload, but for some reason, I can't. Somebody help!!! :afr:

I have enough bonus points for an invite. What exactly is that referring to??

LOL!! Thanks.

Is it normal for your ass to open up while masturbating?? Today I was enjoying myself, and decided to try one of the fingering methods from a previous post, and when I went to stick my finger in I was wet, and my finger slipped right in without much effort. Anybody have any insight?? All I could say was wow!!!

This has been extremely helpful because I am experiencing the exact same issue. That and getting all the emails about illegal downloads. What the hell man!!

I actually love doggy, both when I top and bottom. I love the sound the ass makes, and then I also like the way it feels.

For a while I was really into having sex at work, well it was the easiest place to get guys to come to. I'm a dental technician, so I guess I will say the wierdest places I have had sex were on the floor in the darkroom where we used to develop x-rays, and then in a dental chair when I was in Iraq. Both times were really hot because at climax, someone was trying to get into the room so it was really exciting. Never busted though. Thank goodness!! LOL!! And of course I cleaned everything up and sterilized things afterward.

Has anyone actually been on or is a member of the site that has videos of black boyfriends showing off in front of camera. Can't remember the name of the site, but I have seen a few clips on here, and they're pretty good. Is it worth investing into??

@ajax0980:

@rickydrexel:

I am a fairly new gay father of a beautiful one year old son. His mother and I get along very well, and support each other 100 percent. However, being new to this, it is nice to get other gay dads perceptions on things. Like I am currently in the process of potty training, and I keep being told that I need to take my son to the bathroom when I go so he can watch me. That makes me feel a little uncomfortable. Just seems kinda strange. Any opinions out there??

I have 3 sons, 18y/o, 16y/o and 18mo. They all learned differently and the most important thing is to pay attention to your son's reactions to certain things.

Does your son seem interested in the potty chair or toilet, or in wearing underwear?
    Can your son understand and follow basic directions?
    Does your son tell you through words, facial expressions or posture when he needs to go?
    Does he stay dry for periods of two hours or longer during the day?
    Does he complain about wet or dirty diapers?
    Can your child pull down his or her pants and pull them up again?
    Can your child sit on and rise from a potty chair?

When your son displays any of these behaviors, he's ready to learn and  showing him how is only weird if you make it so. (the BOLD lines are the ones that my sons exhibited but not every kid is the same obviously)

All my boys started with a couple questions about why 'daddy's diaper was different' and that started a conversation about the difference between 'big boy' underpants. When put into the right context, their natural curiosity and desire to emulate you will kind of take over and almost help guide you to guide him. Kwim?

hope this helps.

Thank you very much for your insight. I need to pay more attention to my son is basically what I got from your post. LOL!! He is only one, so right now, no questions, but as far as taking his diaper off, he does it all the time. He's never seen me in my underwear so that might be something that I need to actually let him see so he can see the difference. Right now he pays no attention to his potty chair but I also don't make any effort to work with him on it as far as putting him on it or things like talking to him about it. I will be trying this and watching him to see if he gets interested. Thanks again man.

@zeropolis79:

I had that problem myself..

I 'borrowed' a dildo my aunt owned.. It was a big one and I couldn't get it in my ass either. It could be a mind thing. But this is what I did… I put a condom on it and put a bit of lube on it, imagining it was a real cock.. with that in mind, I was able to use it.

Thanks, I will give it a try. Thank goodness for a great imagination!!  :anal2:

I was just wondering if anyone else has an issue with using dildo's. I have tried multiple times and sizes, but for some reason I can't get them in my ass without there being a lot of pain. A real penis, I have no issue, but for some reason a dildo just won't do. Do you guys think it's a mind thing??? :diddle:

Do you mean sore as in raw, or sore as in it hurt on the inside?? I have masturbated so many times in one day that at one point nothing would come out. An orgasm without any semen. And only if I don't use any lubrication have I ever had an issue of soreness around the head. Maybe TMI, but oh well.

I am a fairly new gay father of a beautiful one year old son. His mother and I get along very well, and support each other 100 percent. However, being new to this, it is nice to get other gay dads perceptions on things. Like I am currently in the process of potty training, and I keep being told that I need to take my son to the bathroom when I go so he can watch me. That makes me feel a little uncomfortable. Just seems kinda strange. Any opinions out there??

I have found that the best support groups are your peers. I am a gay father raising my son with my lesbian best friend, and our biggest support comes from our families, and friends. Also, if you can't find one, lets start one. I would love to get tips, and share my experiences with other gay dads and potential gay dads.

My first time left me with a bad attitude and a wet ass!!! LBVS!! Luckily i'm not a quitter, so I tried it again and found out that gay sex is great sex!! Also discovered that I wasn't a total bottom, not that there's anything wrong with that.

NEVER!!! LOL!!! :dick: :fake: :cum:

@36605domtop:

If a guy willingly let's me fuck him, then no, I do not think or consider him to be straight.  He may think that he is, but not me.  In my view, any "straight" guy who enjoys being penetrated by another human male penis is NOT straight.  Bi - maybe, but definitely not straight.  For a so called "straight" guy to go through with actual gay penetration sex with another live male, they have to want it on some level…unless alcohol or other substances are involved, but even then, there is likely some level of want /desire involved that allows them to go through with it.  Most straight guys I know freak out over a simple prostate exam, even some of the jock types. Letting an actual cock enter them...as my friend just said to me - "That's just gay."

I thought the same thing. But then I told myself maybe he just can't find a female to fuck him. But this guy is HOT!!! So I find it very hard to believe that he couldn't find a girl to do whatever he wants. He's definitely bi, and i'm cool with that, as long as he keeps giving up the ass. My only issue is that I wanna bottom sometimes. LBVS!!

@2222:

@rickydrexel:

Yes, we both enjoy it, but I still don't think he's gay. We talked about it after I posted this, and he is definitely bi, he just doesn't realize it.

If he said "bi", then it answer all the question.  ;D

Now, the next step is to make him as completely gay  >:D, LOL, kidding 

I'm wondering… Is he the top? or who's the top?

I am the top. He never fucks me. He comes over late at night and as soon as we get started he has his ass in the air wanting it rimmed, then fucked. I understand that it feels good but damn!! LOL!! But he's definitely bi. He watches gay porn.

@2222:

Is he enjoy it?

If yes, no other word except, he's gay  :cheers: :banana2:

Yes, we both enjoy it, but I still don't think he's gay. We talked about it after I posted this, and he is definitely bi, he just doesn't realize it.