Posts made by MrMazda

I can't really comment on this one. The last time I mixed business and pleasure, it landed me in jail :lolp:

Sadly, with some of the changes that were made to the site some time ago, most proxy servers will choke on the site and tracker due to technical limitations with the proxy not accepting JavaScript redirects. In a nut shell, you'll be hard pressed to find a proxy service that will work with this, since most of them do not forward such things. This will mean that a VPN is more or less your only option, unless you can find a proxy service that doesn't completely choke on the redirect to get to the servers.

What kind of chaser? There are 3 different kinds of chasers that come to mind. They are:

• Chubby Chaser (one who seeks chubby men)

• Daddy Chaser (one who seeks older men)

• Bug Chaser (one who seeks HIV infection)

I just want to make sure that there's no mistaking exactly what you're looking for

I have noticed that for some time now, whether I try viewing an NFO attached to a torrent, instead of getting the contents of the NFO displayed like it used to back in the olden days, I get a white screen with black text that just says "Puke", no matter which torrent I try to view the NFO file for…. Is this something that should be happening?

Bahahahahahahaha

You're not the only one with a hatred for Parez Hilton lol

Absolutely not… Honesty is one of the most essential elements of any relationship. It's better that you're honest about such things now, than to have her find out in other ways later. Besides... If she's cool with you being the way you are, then I fail to see why it should really matter. For that matter, I fail to see where what other people say or think should have any impact on the way you go about your life. Personally, I applaud you for having been honest with her about this kind of thing. It's sadly not something that you see very often these days anymore.

If being honest makes you a cunt, then I'd really like to get that person's definition of cunt.... A BITCH perhaps, but as the great Latrice Royale put it, there's nothing wrong with being a BITCH, which is defined as "Being In Total Control Of Herself"….

@Duvet:

Like herpes or other diseases as well.

Although not exactly desirable, Herpes doesn't have anywhere near the amount of complications and potential dangers that come with HIV. That being said though, I'd take HIV over Herpes any day of the week lol

@uzuzjh:

yes. i am tall and annoyed by that lol

Coming from a rather "short" person myself (5'5"), be glad that you're tall…. It comes in handy with a lot of things. I'd classify being short as a disability if I could lol

On the most part, I like me my hairy men…. There is a point though when it crosses the line from being hairy and I love it to being "OMG!! Let me get the wax kit!" lol

@ivanunss:

Vintage porn is not my kind of thing. A bit too soft for me.

While I would agree with you on the most part, there are some vintage flicks that get me going pretty well every time. Most anything Chad Douglas for example falls into this category.

Do you mean manage the collections on the tracker, or manage the collection once they download it?

Also, please note that you do not get the SBP credit for the picture upload until it has been approved by a mod.

I'm not sure that I can duplicate the issue that you're having there rmau61… Where exactly are these broken image links on the search page?

@groovedware:

I would like to find that out & it's not for lack of trying.  Every time I connect with a guy into the concept they seem to be the men with the hands of a lumberjack.  Sigh.

That just means that you have to keep working at it :zing:

Speaking as a well experienced fiser (both top and bottom) myself, I can assure you that if you lead into the act slowly and build up to being able to take the whole fist in small stages, it's much like increasing your flexibility. Keep at it regularly, and each time push yourself just a little bit farther, without inflicting too much pain, and eventually you will get there. Once you do manage to get past the knuckles for the first time, it's quite euphoric I must say.

@Duvet:

Boys are like, without a condom it is better, and whenever I hear it I am like, seriously?

Actually, I can understand that rational. This is often more so the case with the top instead of the bottom. It has to do with the slight change in the sensation of the friction when using a condom. Some people obviously are more sensitive to such things than others, but I do understand this one.

@Duvet:

And not only that, but they think only HIV is the most serious case, for they think the rest can be healed easy so no big deal.

This thought is partially correct, but not completely actually. Despite popular belief, Hepatitis C is actually almost impossible to get from sexual intercourse alone. Aside from that, the other options to choose from do indeed all have a form of treatment available. What they do not realize is that in reality, the treatments for say Syphilis for example are not always effective on the first attempt. Granted, the success rate is something like 98%, but it's still not a guarantee. If untreated or if treated too late, Syphilis can cause multiple organ failure, insanity, or death. Realistically speaking, as long as you keep on top of testing and tend to such things quickly enough, the other alternatives can actually be dealt with. With HIV on the other hand, there is no cure, so once you have it, you'd better be prepared for a life long commitment that can potentially kill you. This doesn't mean that it's a great approach to have, but the reality of the matter is if you're taking proper care of getting tested regularly and following up, other STI's are minor by comparison.

@Duvet:

And I heard guys be like, U cannot be infected just from licking an infected vagina, and I was freaking out!

Ummm… Sorry to burst your bubble, but the statistics from at least the last decade all show that there has been not one case of HIV transmission where the sole point of sexual contact has been oral sex. The only advisory to this would be if you involve a female partner during their menstruation cycle, thus causing the presence of large amounts of blood. This is partially because there is actually an enzyme found within saliva that has a natural ability to neutralize the HIV virus itself. The other basis is that while there is technically no scientific evidence that HIV is found within anal, vaginal, or ejaculative fluids, by the same token, there is no evidence that proves that it is not present either. There is however a great deal of scientific studies over the last 10 - 15 years now however that have all noticed a pattern of 0 cases of transmission from oral sex alone. Based on the scientific information and statistical data that does exist however, is it really all that crazy of a statement to make? Just sayin'...

Si vous avez besoin plus d'aide, je peux vous aider aussi.

Vous avez besoin de dire à votre client torrent ou les contenu du torrent sont sauvée sur votre ordinateur…. Autrement, il vais pensez que vous essayer de télécharger le torrent.

As someone with a fair bit of experience (both top and bottom) I will say that LEVI's little guide that he posted is pretty well correct. There are a few things that I would like to point out, as they may help you to be able to get going on your journey to fisting a little nicer.

FIRST: I would like to add that there is a little more to the art of getting introduced to fisting than taking the process slowly increasing by one finger at a time. As you're beginning to finger (especially as you begin to increase the number of fingers), it can become quite helpful to twist your hand a bit. For some people, twisting as you go in and/or out is a better fit for them, but for others twisting while it's in and not going in or out is a little more pleasurable. This will take a little getting used to and a little getting to know your partner. When doing this, it is actually better to use the latex free gloves, mainly because they do not deteriorate when they are introduced to Crisco.

NEXT: When working your way up in the number of fingers, it is very important to remember that most beginners will start to have a certain level of difficulty once the knuckles begin to to be introduced, mainly because that begins to reach the widest point of the hand. At this stage, twisting to a certain degree will become more critical, especially since it will help to keep your lube more evenly applied. Also, it is important to keep in mind that when you are at 4 fingers, introducing the thumb is going to become the next road block because now you're adding to the width of what is being entered. To help work with that, this is the most critical stage to begin going back down in the number of fingers, then exploring your bottom. Generally speaking, the prostate will bring much pleasure, but every bottom has their different spots that get them purring. As you work back up to 4 fingers, you should begin to get to know these spots. This will become key for the next stage.

LASTLY: Once you get to the point of getting 4 fingers in as far as the knuckle, make sure to start exploring your partner to see what spots make them loosen up, and which spots make them clench. It will also be good to get to know whether fingers curled up or fingers straight out are better for your partner as you continue to push. It is also very important to make sure that you leave your thumb sticking out so that you cannot push the knuckles too far in right away. At this stage, most bottoms will find it less uncomfortable to have the knuckles running in line with the ass crack, instead of going against it. Once you begin to get loose enough at this comfort level, then it is time to begin to introduce the thumb. It is not at all uncommon for the knuckles to not quite go as far in on the first couple of tries once the thumb is introduced. Do not worry if this happens. It will pass.

ABOVE ALL ELSE: When you're beginning to go deeper into your partner, as a beginner, you will notice spots where you will experience some pain at first. It is very important that when you reach this spot where the pain becomes a little much, not only must you stop pushing in more, but you should also ease off the pressure just a little bit to take the edge off the pain. When you experience this pain as the bottom, it is important to have some sort of signal to your partner to pull a bit of pressure off. When this happens, avoid your urge to pull out. Instead, focus on taking deep breaths and waiting it out. Once you have started to relax and this initial over-whelming feeling starts to pass, it is important for the top to begin to explore a little with their fingers to help encourage the muscles to relax. It may also be helpful at this point for the bottom to clench their abdomen and push like they were trying to push something out. This will help to open the muscles and let them loosen up to get ready for the next level. Once they have loosened up and relaxed a little with this, THEN it is time to start to push a little more. Always remember that when it comes to fisting as a newbie, slower is better. It will take some time at first.

@Nagamaki:

I prefer without, but usually use a condom, but sometimes I get trashed and let guys do what they want then worry for 3 months until I can have a HIV test.

Just a heads up on that. The "3 month" window is a suggested guideline because there are rare cases where seroconversion doesn't occur within 2 weeks. In a nut shell, the HIV virus must first overwhelm your immune system enough to make it start to produce the protein needed to formulate the anti-body[nb]P32 if memory serves me correctly, but don't quote me on that.[/nb] needed to defend itself against the virus. Most often, this actually happens within 2 weeks, however in the case of an elite controller[nb]One whose immune system possesses a natural ability to suppress the virus and maintain an undetectable viral load without the need for antiretroviral medication… Elite controllers are very rare, but do exist.[/nb] or a delayed progresser[nb]One whose immune system is naturally compatible with their HIV strain, thus making the progression of the virus itself take much more time than most people. Delayed progressers aren't rare, but they aren't exactly common either. They are however more common than an elite controller.[/nb] this process can be delayed by up to 3 months. In very rare instances, it is possible (though not likely) that an elite controller can avoid the seroconversion process for up to 6 months, however this is extremely rare.

In short, if you're really that worried about whether or not something happened, get a test 15 - 20 days after the time of exposure. Statistically speaking, if that test is negative, it's a 92% - 96% chance (depending on which study you go by) that the negative test result is actually negative. The reason that health professionals advise that this window is up to 90 days is because even when taking elite controllers and delayed progressors into account, statistics show that at 90 days, a negative test result is a 99.9% likelihood that it is actually negative, instead of the 92% - 96% statistical odds at 15 - 20 days.

These are but some of the more interesting things about the whole process that most health professionals generally do not tell people for various reasons. Hopefully this information should help to keep your mind a little more at ease during such 90 day windows.