@Yorai1212 I don't think there are rules regarding how long you should seed for. But the more you seed the more your ratio goes up.
As for me, I think is good to keep seeding as long as you can. I only remove mine if I need space, or utorrent decides to not find them anymore. I also don't see why the rush to stop seeding files that you like. Remember, the more people seeding the better, that's the whole P2P system.
@padmasana I believe you can consider it addiction if it has a negative impact in your life. Most researches related to porn are circunstancial, so they don't really provide any real evidence to support if porn is good or bad, so as it stands it ins't a physical or mental health issue.
So, it's all up to the individual to decide. If you don't do stuff you need to do because you need to watch porn, if watching porn hurts your relationships, or anything like that, I'd say it's time for you to find something else. But if porn is just something you like to do in your free time, and you just think you do it a lot, it's not a big deal.
Again, in short, if watching porn affects your life negatively, then it's a serious problem that you should take care of, if it's just an activity you do on your spare time because you enjoy it, there's no real need to stop doing it.
Now how to deal with it, depends on how porn affects you. If it's an actual addiction, then I'd say try getting some professional help. If it's something you do on your free time but you want to do less, finding other hobbies and filling up your time with other things usually helps.
I don't think you understand how Copyrights work. In short when someone creates something and puts it on the internet they can legally decide what other people can do with it. In the case of porn, I'd say for most of it people are forbidden from sharing, you just need to read the copyright in the porn website. So basically the only people that can share porn are the ones that have the copyright. So, since you don't own the copyright, you are not legally allowed to share it.
But why only some get flagged? Because for something to be taken down there must be someone flagging it. Gaytorrent is a popular torrent website, so most likely it has more people keeping an eye on what's here. So it isn't that the other websites are allowed, it's that it's hard to keep track of stuff, so some things get flagged while others don't, some websites are more targeted while some aren't, some companies are better at flagging stuff while others aren't.
@R0cky114514 Hi, their names are Marc and Korey, they used to go by Alpha Duo, so you'll find some of their videos by that name:
https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=8768931a5ec1162976cb43db098b607688de66c904bc6e17
Now they go by their names, that's their Twitter with links to their onlyfans and other stuff:
https://twitter.com/marckoreyxxx
@gaztunk The reply is a little bit late, but still, hehe. If you have a lot of porn I highly recommend getting a NAS. NAS is a device where you put one or more hard drives in it and it allows you to access your files through the internet.
So basically you have your own personal Cloud Storage. You are the only one who can access it (you can share it if you want), and you can stream your files from anywhere in any device. Plus it's quite easy to copy all your files, and keep them organized, it also allows you to save space on your computer since you can just keep the files in your NAS (I'd still recommend having a back up hard drive just in case).
I've been really happy with mine, it was really worth it, I have more than 1tb there. And because it's yours nobody will ever take it down. Depending where you live it's not expensive (you can get one for $150 + $70 for a 4tb hard drive).
@jamesherds Never noticed that, but unfortunately there's not much they can do about it 
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What annoys me though is the onlyfans content that always have really large sizes for super short videos, like 1-2gb for 5min. I understand that it would be annoying for the uploaders to fix this, but I wish the content creators would start editing their videos, not just uploading raw from the cellphone.
@lololulu19 Agreed, although there are still some good porn coming out, I also definitely tend to watch more the older videos.
But it's the times that changed it, in the past they were sold on VHS or DVD, so they were long, with multiple scenes and they had story going on, nowadays because of the amount of content, and the way porn is sold and distributed, everything is shorter and mostly just the sex.
Plus nowadays onlyfans and other sites just made it worse, there is so much bad amateur content, and they do take away from the big studios I think.
But one thing that I do enjoy nowadays is the quality of the videos, it's always hard watching older stuff because of how low quality they are . But yeah, I do wish they would go back to filming some porn like in the past.
His name is Timothy Richardson, and he usually goes by BigLittleTim.
As it seems he deleted his tumbrl, and there are no videos on xtube even though he has an account. The only thing I could find were a few pictures and gifs, but nothing more, maybe with his name you have more luck than me :p.
Yeah unfortunately most people are like that, they want your friendship only while it's useful to them. I've had many of those "friends" who were friends only while they needed it, but after that they disappear.
I hate that about people, specially because I tend to care a lot about others, so I get your struggle.
Ori and The Blind Forest was soooooooooooo good :D, I finished it all in one day, hehehe.
Nowadays there aren't many games like that, but one that I can really recommend is Rayman Legends, it's just awesome. Rayman is more comedy and great plataformer, but is really good, for me one of the best games I played in recent years (and best part, can also be played Co-Op).
As for the emotional part, I really recommend Valiant Hearts (the ending of this game is one of the most emotional I have ever seen) and Child of Light (this one is kinda of a RPG). I also would recommend Bastion and Transistor, those are indie games, but they are really good.
From the games I recommended Rayman is the closest one to the style of Ori, but I really do recommend the others for the aspect of Fun/Emotional style of games. Hope you like them because I really did :p.
It´s kinda becoming more common right now you can see it with Spartacus, Game of Thrones, and the series of the kind.
But still, it´s something to be controlled, you can´t just put nudity everywhere. But I do agree that they shouldn´t hide it on things that make sense. Specially movies that most of the times are toned down to get a lower rating.
I think that is happening because a lot of actors that usually did hunk/twink porn, as they go old their bodies change enough to kinda fit in the bear category, and probably because they lost their appeal in the other category they change to a category they can cater more to.
Asides from that, I don't think the only problem is muscle guys overtaking the bear community, is more the lack of quality of the studios lately. I used to really like Bearfilms, Hairy and Raw, and other studios. But if you look at their newest videos, they only use the same couple actors (even between studios, the actors are the same), or they go for guys that aren't even considered bears, or simply unattractive guys (at least for porn stands, or my stands).
Idk if there aren't many people wanting to do porn nowadays, or whatever other reason, but it's clear the diminishing quality of most studios those days.
Well first of the most extreme fetishes (sounding, scat, fisting, etc…), and the types of men that i don't feel attracted to in general (twinks for example), what I usually avoid is:
That's all I can remember by now, hehe.
They just released a new video with him and Aiden Storm, he's cute, but for me there are hotter guys over there, hehe. And Monster Cub has his own videos now, that's why he's way more famous nowadays.
I usually like bears like Hunter Scott and Michael Mcquaig, and Muscle Bears like Bo Dixon and Rocky Labarre. There are a few exceptions, but in general those are my preference :cheesy2:.
Well, depends what kind of game do you want, if you want a funny type of game I really like Munchkin, and for card games there are cards against humanity and Exploding Kittens. If you want something that is more competitive I would go for Catan, or the classics like Monopoly. And if you want something Cooperative, which I tend to prefer, there are many like Lords of the Rings, Zombicide, Pandemic, Dungeons and Dragons. And one of my recommendations is Pathfinder (the card/board game, not the actual RPG), it's cooperative, but what I like about it is that the game keeps progressing, each game you play you gain level ups and new stuff that progresses to the next game, but this one requires playing many times.
So, it's more up to what type of game you are looking for.
I guess you're saying sex scenes where somebody smokes?
There's a website called Smoking Hunks:
https://www.smokinghunks.com/
Take a look to see if there's anything that pleases you. And yes, there are a couple of their videos here, you just have to search :p.
Hi, I'll talk about my experiences, maybe it will give you some help ;).
I'm an average guy, I was never fat, my body have the tendency of being slim, I know a lot of people would love to have a body that can get slim easilly, but there's the catch I like bears, so my concept of beauty is different from the common and specially from what I look, so I always had insecurities about myself and my body. For some time I though I had to put on some weight and try to reach my "beauty pattern", but you know my body doesn't allow that. But with time I realized that's a stupid way of thinking, I found out that there are people that found me attractive, and that made me feel better about myself, better about my body, and made me accept more who I am.
I was 23 when I kissed/had sex for the first time, I believe for gay men is common to have their first experiences after their 20's I think mostly because of insecurities about your own sexuality, being afraid to come out. One day I was coming back home on the train, and I saw a guy looking at me (I don't really know if he was actually looking at me, but still, hehe), and that was the day I realized that I couldn't stand it anymore, I couldn't stand being afraid of my sexuality, of meeting someone, of coming out, everything. I was really sad, I don't know how many times I cried on the shower because I was alone, because I though nobody would ever like me. I know what you are going through, because it also happened to me, and happens to most people.
So that day I decided, I created an account on a dating app, and from there on things changed. I started receiving messages from other people, other people who found me attractive, and that made me feel good. From there on I had my first sex experience, my second one and many more, and ended up finding a boyfriend at the end of all that :cheers:.
My point is, those insecurities are common, but because of them we are afraid to go after what we want, and instead of trying we let the insecurities take over and create things that aren't true, and make us unhappy. You have to overcome them and go for it, go for what you really want.
And in my experience, yes people care about appearance, it's important, but it's not as bad as you think it is, people think you have to have a model body to be liked to be accepted, and in my experience it's not like that, really, people have different tastes, different opinions, so you'll always find someone who finds you attractive. Now about cock size, although we hear a lot, but really size doesn't matter that much, unless it's really really small, you'll have no problems with it, and at least in my opinion I prefer a medium sized that a huge one. It depends on the person there are people who are size queens, but again, it's your insecurities talking again.
I don't know if I could express myself the bet way possible, hehe. But my message is, we create a lot of conceptions in our head because of our insecurities, we hear a lot of stuff that scares us, but in the end they aren't true. Don't be afraid of being yourself, of loving your body even if it isn't your concept of beauty, of looking for someone. I wish you all the best and I hope I could help you somehow :D.
Well, having preferences is completely different from being racist. I cannot control my personal tastes, or who I find attractive.
Now, answering your question, I am into bears, and most bears are white guys, so most of my preference is for white guys. But of course there are some exceptions, there are some black, asian, and other types of guys that I find really attractive, and wound't have any problem dating them if they are nice.