Posts made by SemenDemon

"Electronic music" is a very vague term, so it's hard to tackle the question. Even "ambient" is an incredibly nebulous, open-ended descriptor, considering it's existed as a "style" since at least the 70's… But that is one clue I can offer you: Check out anything labeled "ambient".

As someone who is also pretty clueless about the majority of "electronic music", and someone who can't differentiate between the majority of micro-genres and self-indulgent, post-internet pop-up/flavor-of-the-month electronic music fads (all the millennial Macbook electronica I hear these days just sounds like poor imitations of old Richard D. James/Boards of Canada stuff to my ears), I can't hold a conversation about much of this stuff, but experience has shown me that, for all of its variation, "ambient" music generally lends itself to relaxation, meditation and/or introspection (as opposed to rump-shaking). I'm not saying that all ambient music is "light" or "relaxing". It can be made to sound very sad/moody, or even malevolent, but at its most basic, it's (generally electronic) music that provides atmosphere and allows your mind drift. I tend to like music that seems to have some emotional depth. Stuff that evokes bittersweet nostalgia and a sense of dreamy surrealism in equal measure. The way I interpret it, what I enjoy best is not "light/happy", per se, but it's good "lie in bed in the dark and stare at the ceiling and wonder where it all went wrong" music, I think, and that's basically how I "relax".

Technically a DnB track, but it has a very trippy, icy, nocturnal vibe that I find very reminiscent of being under the influence of certain synthetic dissociative substances. Might be good for relaxation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KjrjbDOI5pI

A couple of other artists (also not "ambient" in the strictest sense of labeling) that immediately come to mind for me are Hex (this one) and Mono Junk:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aQGBQ2BMQ28
Youtube Video

If you're open to Hip-Hop (which is something I know even less about), some of it can also be very relaxing and otherworldly: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=alNEJmGoMvk

You might also find something you like in the world of shoegaze and dreampop (some of which is heavily electronic in nature, but not generally so): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYerbroPX34

Another (mostly synth-based) artist worth checking out is Tor Lundvall: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k4cfyI4fdHg

Not too much into clamps or the more extreme (or theatrical, for that matter) side of BDSM, but I do really enjoy some light CBT stuff. It's fun to experiment with different ways to bind my cock and balls, and I enjoy some minor pain play with my balls (light slapping, tugging, squeezing). I don't do much with my nipples except pinch and squeeze them occasionally. Also, I'm much more of a masochistic person, so I'm not really interested in this kind of thing beyond my own body.

I think it feels good, and if a guy wants to lick my asshole, I am happy to let him, but I could take it or leave it. I enjoy both giving and receiving if I am in the mood for it.

@everyman:

I think it is perfectly normal.  I have found a direct link from nips to cock with most guys

I wish I knew what that was about. I like to lick and suck and I like to have my nipples licked and sucked, but I have never felt any stimulation in my cock from it despite that. I feel like I'm missing out. :-[

@Ludderunge:

you guys that have so much and gets these wet spots etc, it would be AWESOME if you uploaded some pics!

Because I'm shy about posting pics of myself, here is a tastefully cropped and purely educational photo of a drop of precum rolling down my cock. Something sort of cool about this picture is the little bit of white in the center of the precum, which I've never noticed looking at it with my naked eye. Anyway, that's frequently what happens after a little while of looking at porn once I take my cock out of my underwear and pull my foreskin back.

Preferably thick, but I am happy with either. As long as there's a lot, as others have stated.

I think for masturbating, the only thing that's particularly bothersome about precum if you're uncircumcised is that it tends to make your hand really slick, which makes it hard to move your foreskin up and down the head effectively. That's true of any kind of lubrication, though.

I have seen videos of guys who literally dribble huge globs of precum. I think I produce a fair amount. It's enough to stain my underwear after a while, and enough that I find it all over the head of my cock when I pull my foreskin back to take a piss after even a little bit of visual or mental stimulation, but I wouldn't mind if I produced more, honestly. I think it's really hot, and I always enjoy tasting it.

I've always thought blonde was boring, but that's probably because I'm blonde myself. Even since childhood, I have always loved naturally dark/black hair. The darker the better. At any rate, natural color is always best, no matter what color it may be.

Foley/sound design… though my real fantasy would be to have shitloads of money so I could start an independent label and use it as an excuse to meet and release music by my favorite artists. ::)

fat, but shapely.

Battery-operated devices. Make of that what you will. Seriously though, when the power was out for a week here, I listened to a lot of tapes on a shoebox recorder and doodled. When I got really bored, I turned on a battery-powered radio to listen to local news and call-in shows.

I also went for walks and enjoyed the strangeness of my normally electrified surroundings, though it was pretty eerie to do so at night.

Hot and messy. It turns me on to feel it dribbling out and to have it soak through my underwear and pants. It's not so nice to take my underwear off and put them back on only to be left with a cold wet spot over my dick, but it doesn't bother me that much.

I typically drink beer (cheap stuff), but sometimes I really like a big bottle of cheap-o red Wal*Morgue wine. I honestly don't care about taste or quality over cost. I drink to get drunk.

Curry from a box is about the only thing I can cook, but it's a favorite food of mine, so I don't mind.

I used to use those bath salt tubes (one which was rather large) as makeshift dildos. I could not resist. They were begging to be put to use. It's kind of embarrassing in hindsight, though. I mean, those were my mom's and sisters', and I was sticking them up my ass. Early puberty was a strange time for me… I was putting a lot of weird shit up my butt in those days.

I like dogs, but I am a cat person at heart. Dogs are great as long as I don't have to be responsible for them. I am just too lazy for such responsibilities. That said, I also hate cleaning the liter boxes.

Oh, let me kiss it and make it all better! :cry2:

If "the gays" are losing anything, it's their edge. Gays are more and more accepted in mainstream western society. That's great, but the simple fact is, there's less and less "necessity" and room for gay-exclusivity, and less and less distinction between "gay" and "straight" culture, identity, etc., because gay style and culture are essentially being evaporated into the mainstream heterosexual macrocosm. Gay culture is becoming another indistinguishable element of the mainstream.

Personally, I don't like it. All these straight people acting and dressing up like queers and thinking they're really "hip" (as opposed to shockingly unoriginal) is just embarrassing. I don't want to throw around loaded words like "appropriation", because I can't abide puffed-up SJW buzzword salad or the people who use it to push their agenda, but that's basically what it is. Surely I'm not the only one to notice it, right? Like I said, it's good that gay people are being more and more accepted, but with that comes a lot of straight people stealing all our good ideas and neutering them. Comes with the territory.

It happens with anything that becomes "mainstream"… Look at punk!

EDIT: Also, all of this:
@oerouen:

I don't think Gay Anthems are truly part of our holistic identity so much as they are a generational trend that has faded out along with Circuit Parties, Tribal Tattoos, and the Queer As Folk aesthetic. Personally, I also think that mainstream has actually drifted more towards us, and so in reality, it just feels less unique/special/subversive than it did in prior decades.

Swallow. I've been swallowing my own loads every time I cum for a couple of weeks now. The idea always seems really hot until I actually cum, and then it's suddenly repulsive. But doing it quickly makes it easier (no time to think). The more I do it, the more I enjoy doing it. It's becoming a big part of the experience.

When sucking a guy off, it's easy to swallow when he shoots in my mouth because it happens really quickly. It's even easier if he cums before I do, because I'm still all horny and therefore receptive to the idea of guzzling a bucket of cum. Either way, I tend to just gulp it down immediately.

EDIT: Yes, I am living up to my name!

I always liked Baby Spice the best because I identify with her the most. She's dippy and kiddish like me.