I can't really relate to this dilemma because all my friends are straight, I don't have any gay friends. And coming out is no big deal. I just say "Hey, I've got something to tell you: I'm gay". They'll be like "Cool. Where should we eat?".
Maybe it's just my circle of friends but people don't really make a big deal of it where I live. I feel like it's mainstream these days so it's easy to come out. And I have friends from all walks of life; muslims, christians, atheists etc.
Posts made by dist
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RE: Coming out to your straight friend
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RE: How do you think your life would have been if you'd never come out?
I'd probably be dead. Coming out saved my life.
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RE: Best game of all time
The Legend of Zelda: Majora's Mask
One of my favorites. I also love Dark Cloud for the PS2. They both have great stories with loveable characters. I've beaten both many times.
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RE: Songs to workout
Just listen to songs you really like. Sometimes I listen to more upbeat songs and sometimes I listen to more mellow songs.
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RE: Christina Aguilera or Britney Spears?
Christina's Stripped album is excellent. I haven't listened to much else from either.
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RE: Do you like spanish songs?
I like the early Shakira Spanish songs like Inevitable and Ojos Asi. Also, Nelly Furtado's Fantasmas from her Mi Plan album is very good.
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RE: When did you lose your virginity?
19 with a guy.
22 with a girl.
I knew I was 100% gay but I did it for the experience. I told her in advance though and she wanted to anyway. -
RE: How many men you have had sex with so far?
Less than 100…
I came out at 19 and had a lot of pent-up sexual energy so I just went all out the first few years. I am looking for something more meaningful now, but it's hard changing one's ways... -
RE: Fat people going to the Gym
When I first started working out I was super skinny and did sometimes feel inadequate working out next to big muscular guys. But as time went by I got into my routine and just didnt mind what other people were doing or how they look. And heres a secret: they dont either. Everyone is there to better themselves, no matter their current state of mind. Now when I see new beginners I root for them and I respect them for pushing themselves, because everyone started out that way, so everyone understands.
And I would advice you, especially as a gay man or whatever you are, to not let your insecurities and fears dictate the way you live your life. Dont hide away, get out there and face everything you fear, thats how I built my confidence and Im sure it will help you too. Go to the gym, do your best, dont mind other people because they dont mind you. And if you want to, ask them for advice. All guys Ive talked to at the gym, fit or not, are more than happy to share their tips. Have some faith in people. Especially gym rats. They may look fierce and determined during their workouts, but when you talk to them, theyre just like any other decent human beings
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RE: Is Rimming healthy?
I dont do it, just because the idea is grossing me out. But when guys wanna do it to me, I make sure Ive cleaned myself and I let them have a go at it. It does feel somewhat good. Not as good as getting your dick sucked but still..
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RE: What do you think about taking steroids ?
The biggest no-no for me is feeling like a fraud and a phony. I want to feel proud of what I've accomplished, and knowing that I did it without cheating. But then again, where does one draw the line? I drink protein powder. Even though it's more natural than steroid injections, it's still a highly refined product that you would not find anywhere in nature. So I don't condemn people for taking steroids. If they ae happy with their life choices, I'm not gonna tell them how to live their lives.
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RE: Muscle recovery question
Don't worry about it. When I first started working out, I literally could not bend my arms the next day, I had so much troubles taking notes at school that week
As soon as I recovered I went back to the gym, and I went hard and all out. I've never had that problem again because the body adjusts. -
RE: Is gay marriage legal in your country?
Sweden is one of the most gay-friendliest places in the world, so yes.
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RE: How do you think Obama will go down in history?
So, basically, you just created a thread to let everyone know you think he's a mass murderer and war criminal? Classy.
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RE: Eduardo Picasso
He reminds me of the enderman in minecraft… I prefer koldo and gianni maggio over him.
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RE: Working out: Night v. Day
Where did you even get the idea that it would be a factor?
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RE: The Biggest Cumshooter
How come most guys in straight porn always shoots a lot while it's rare to see mainstream gay porn with big shooters? Maked me believe they're mostly gay for pay so they don't shoot much because they're not really turned on.
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RE: Is smoking a turn off?
Ironically, I find it extremely hot when one of my boys do it. But I hate breathing in smoke by random strangers, I always frown and cover my face in disgust so clearly that they see it cuz I like smoke shaming.