Welcome to the real side-effect of "a community that is ALL about cumming" - the pleasure is removed the moment it becomes ALL about his dick shooting. If he quits trying to FORCE himself to cum as quickly & quietly as possible, this might change.
@kukashiffr:
Everything was ok but since a month or two my bf has stopped having hard rock erections at first we thought it was stress related but now we are past that phase since there is no such stress we love each other a lot … lately he is also complaining that he is not getting proper erections even when he watches porn he does not ED since his morning wood is rock solid almost every other day. Now he also tells me that whenever he cums the semen does come out but his orgasms are gone and he does not feel the pleasure the one gets out of orgasms no such feeling what so ever.