Posts made by bebekid

Wow. Thanks guys.. I'm really ignorant on the whole "daddy" subject.

gaygaye, I live in the US and have felt everything you've expressed. Everything changed for me when I started dealing with myself and my own issues. I started therapy and shortly after did I experience my first real relationship. I'm not saying therapy is the magical answer. What I am saying is when you heal yourself and love yourself more, you'll draw more quality men in your life.

See, it's not how other people see you, it's how you see yourself. Trust me. I personally don't try to be the most handsome guy in the world with the greatest body. That's no guarantee you'll get a quality man. What I do is try to be a beautiful person inside and out. I'm compassionate with people, i try to be compassionate to myself and I take care of myself physically. I focus on health moreso than trying to impress people. I meet many more guys now than ever before, but as GabrielK said "most men are idiots." LOL 

Hang in there buddy, it's possible for you. You're worthy of it.

lukemaxwell, you make some great points. I've had a bunch of dogs and one thing I learned early is male dogs can be extremely horny (probably why men are likened to them). I saw my own dog screwing all our female dogs and later the males.

In the animal porn images I accidentally saw (which I was trying to forget LOL), none of the animals looked distressed and seemed to be enjoying themselves. If someone is aroused by those images, it's not my place to judge.

The biggest concern I have is the diseases each species could be exposed to. It's believed we have the HIV virus because of a man having sex with a monkey. I don't know if this has been proven 100%, but I do know certain diseases are harmful to us and not to them and vice versa. If it's true, we've lost almost 40 million people because of it. This could be why it's illegal in most places.

I've been with older and younger, it just depends on the person. Never had a problem with it.

Strangely enough, I only got STDs from someone giving me a BJ. I never swallowed anyone there, nor did I get anything from giving a BJ.

@antstorm:

I swapped my gaydar in for a bullshit reflector , it works better than wonder womans bracelets

antstorm… I like this!!! Can these be marketed? I'll take one 

@pornofan:

Personally, I'm not a great believer in online petitions, but they do sometimes work, just like crowdfunding.

pornofan, thanks for posting the link to the petition. I have seen things happen with these online petitions so it could do something. Besides, they only do like 6 episodes a season.

Just to add, Luke I think you're adorable, but you look like you're about 15 or 16 so I don't want to be a creepy old man giving you a compliment LOL. Minerboh80, I think you're beautiful.

Hmmmm… thats actually a good question. I think most of us like the anonymity.

I waited until I was away from home and financially independent before I came out and I'm in the United States. Have you told anyone?

The first thing I would suggest is starting with how YOU perceive being gay. I believe there's nothing wrong with being gay, it's misguided people who have and cause problems with it. That was very important for me to understand in my journey. I'm a gay man and I'm fortunate to have a lot of love in my life with really good people. For me, my religious beliefs and environment altered to support my authentic self.

Before I even make any suggestions, I have a few questions. What would you like to happen with your friend? By making a move do you just want sex, or are you hoping for more?

I've never had much luck from bathhouse or any hookups becoming long lasting relationships. That's just my experience though.

Yes, it's nice kissing/smelling a fruity scent. I rarely use them though because I've read most Chapsticks dries your lips out. I've used a small dab of good old Vaseline or Shea Butter. 2222, great idea with the honey.

I may be strange but no.

Ok, I don't think "H" is fair. I think most men think about sex constantly. I don't know if any of these really qualify as an addiction, unless if they interfere with your everyday life (like most addictions). Not being able to go to work because of  porn is a problem. Needing porn on to have sex/make love with EVERY single partner is a problem.

Mostly bottom, but sometimes there're certain guys I wouldn't mind topping.

I guess it was so good, instead of moaning he honked.

This is connected to my other topic. Do you guys like your hookups to be via apps like Grindr or do you meet guys to hookup with in everyday life. I tried Grindr and got off of it after a week :D, but I'm curious how it is for you guys.

I'm kinda old-school with meeting people to date in my everyday life verses online. My experiences weren't the greatest, but it seems everyone is dating online. What's you guys experiences?