Posts made by bebekid

Very fascinating but sad these kids had to go through so much.

I really don't care about size or cut/uncut. My only concerns are (1) the person it's attached to (2) it being too big cause if he's a top, I could end up hurt (and that depends on the girth, length, curve etc)

I gave a guy a BJ on a city street at night. I met a guy at an adult bookstore and we left together. We were really horny and couldn't wait to get somewhere else so we did it on the street. While that was fun and exciting, today I'm glad we weren't arrested.

Guys, this is so cool we can discuss this honestly and respectfully. Most of my life I thought gay men felt about race the same way I did. I'm fascinated seeing the differences and similarities from guys all round the world.

@jbo1:

I have a preference for white men, I don't find a lot of people in other ethnicities attractive.

I would like to say it doesn't matter but in my area it does, I see tons of ads saying 'no Asians' or 'whites only' and Canadians can be very racist sometimes.

I have some Japanese and East Indian friends that always complain they get rejected solely based on their race.

Not to be confrontational, but just because it matters in your area, doesn't mean it have to matter to you.

I'm new to a lot of these terms and I'm moving closer to being what's classified as a "daddy" in gayland. I'm curious what are the expectations?

Simple, just say no. You don't owe anyone any explanation. If you feel compelled just say "At this stage of my life, I don't want to date anyone. I'm focusing on myself or my career."

Here's my opinion. I agree with you not to try anything because you value the friendship. He's straight, and trying to get him to be what he isn't will surely ruin the friendship. Also, if he's ever curious, he knows you're gay because you already came out to him. I wouldn't hold my breath on that one though.

What I imagine is there's qualities about him you are attracted to. Determine what they are, and look for them in someone who's gay. If biceps and openminded-ness are important, then participate in some activities where you will have gay men who are athletic and open-minded. I would also remind myself "this is my friend" and try to treat him as such.

Hope some of that helps.

on the real, I have heard so many incest stories from friends and  acquaintances, I think it's more common than not. I think most folks who have experienced it just don't admit it.

I've seen people who are deeply homophobic usually have issues with their own sexuality. Like Mattb said, if telling your friend would put your life in danger, then I wouldn't do it and just distance myself. If it doesn't, I would tell him.

New York City

Warm, funny, a person who takes care of himself, intelligent, and beautiful eyes.

My gaydar works from a distance. The less information I have, the more accurate I am. If the guy is in my face, I can totally fuck it up. Also, my gaydar is attuned to guys and not lesbians.

I like it if they have enough shots of the guy(s). Somehow my mind edits out the girl(s).

About 70 GBs altogether..

No. Simply because looking good for the camera for sex is a skill set I don't have. That's too much damn thinking.. and hot bright lights shinning on you with a camera under your balls and ass. No thank you!!!

It's a "No" for me…
I saw some images by accident and can spend 3 or more lifetimes without seeing them again.  :hehe:

However, if it turns someone on (and it's legal and no one or thing is being hurt) enjoy yourself. I can't judge.

Tiger Tyson (although I've heard he has in real life)

Sexy Teacher. Older can have swag and that's HOT for me.

Sneak peeks and if I see him peeking back, I may nod or say hi.