Posts made by bebekid

I agree. While this wouldn't be my first (or second) choice, I do think this could work.

I thought so. For me, it seemed like real relationships and challenges. The acting and storylines were superb.

So let me understand this logic according to Mr.Carson. Every man or woman who goes to jail is straight, and then most (or some) come out gay?  Well wouldn't being gay be positive then? It seems like the straight people who are arrested and released once they "turn" gay.  :surprise:

He has no chance of becoming president.

I loved "Looking." I'm really sad they didn't get a 3rd Season.

I saw the movie when I was a teenager and loved it. I saw it again in recent years and still enjoyed it. I liked the story and thought the guys were hot!!!

Murder House was my favorite thus far.

It's amazing to read your stories and see little bits of myself in many of them.

To me, more attention and acceptance brings more support for other LGBT challenges. Scientist are working non-stop to find a cure for HIV/AIDS with new developments almost every few months. Greater acceptance can do away with the ignorance behind families throwing kids out because of them being LGBT.

While "gay marriage" may not be the most important part of our battle for equality, it's been the biggest catalyst. I never imagined in my lifetime I would see such strides and acceptance. We're not there yet, but we're getting there. The best part is seeing kids and teenagers come out with more support and acceptance than even 5-10 years ago.

My first attraction to a guy was when I was 3, really sure about it when I was 11. I did like some girls in between, but by the time I was 11, that had faded and knew my real and strongest attractions were to guys.

In both cases, only if one or both parties make it an issue. Truthfully, who empties the garbage can ruin a relationship if one allows it .

and just to add, I found both of my partners when I wasn't looking. Before I was trying very hard and nothing "quality" was happening.

No. I would have been too afraid it would get back to my family (at the time). Now it's a non-issue.

In my 20s I wanted to be "in a relationship." I got depressed because I wasn't in one. Now in my 30s and after being in 2 long term relationships, I realized I wanted to be "in a relationship" because I wanted validation. Me being in that mindset created problems in both relationships. Now I'm single and enjoying it. Before I venture in a new relationship, I want to be in a good mental and spiritual place. I encourage you to do the same. To me, starting there will draw the right guys to you when it's time.

Also, I wouldn't obsess over your looks and body. Taking care of yourself, being fit, comfortable with yourself and confident will surely draw some good guys to you.

It never did anything for me.

When I was younger I used to have fun with them in adult bookstores. For me it got old after awhile. Also, getting a few stds there made me skeptical to go to them.

I would try not too… I have a close friend who has fallen for so many straight guys and everyone of them has ended in heartbreak.

Yep, a few times. I'm grateful for them. I don't believe there's only "one true love" a lifetime.

I've been to all 3. Some were fun, most weren't (but that's just me). To the person who asked about worrying about being infected with HIV, from my experiences most guys used condoms for anal penetration. Truthfully (and this is from my former MD) HIV is not an easy virus to get. The virus doesn't survive in air, so really the biggest risk is from unprotected anal sex with someone who is positive and detectable.

Take away.. Always use condoms for anal.. have fun!!

Doesn't matter to me at all.