Posts made by slimsf888

I've had this problem too.  It's worse with a bottom who is uncomfortable or not relaxed or inexperienced.  Much easier if the bottom is at ease and knows how to loosen up and be penetrated.  So choose your partner wisely.  Also if it keeps being an issue, try not masturbating for a day or two beforehand and make sure you're not too tired, drunk or high.  I find those things greatly increase my chance of successful penetration.

Isn't this like asking a beer drinker's forum how they feel about teetotaling? 

Best you can do is harm reduction - get vaccinated for Hep A & B, make sure you & your partner get tested regularly, clean beforehand, etc.  I've never had a problem from rimming, but there's always some risk.

Have you had success with any dietary supplements?  I'm starting to take curcumin and magnesium and vitamin D for various health concerns, not sure if it's having an effect or not.  I suspect a lot supplements are only placebos, but some must work.

It depends on how much he smokes and his level or oral hygiene.  If it's just the occasional cigarette and he has good oral hygiene, brushes regularly, etc., it's fine.  But if he smokes like a pack a day and doesn't have meticulous oral hygiene, the breath smell can be nauseating.

Oddly, I find watching a guy smoke to be a huge turn on.

Loke I love porn as much as the next guy or else I wouldn't be here.  But I don't get why like 90% of the fuck scenes in professional porn feature bottoms who are nonstop moaning in a very exaggerated, over-the-top, annoyingly effeminate way.  Don't get me wrong, I like verbal feedback, even a little dirty talk, but the moaning in porn is clearly fake, bad acting, unlike real life, and usually just a turn off.

WOndering what gay Catholics think of Pope Francis and his reign so far.  Has the Church became a more hospitable place for LGBT catholics or is it the same?  On one hand he has a reputation for being more liberal than his predecessors.  On the other hand, the Church as a whole still has some deeply prejudiced dogma.  I'm not Catholic, so I was wondering if gay Catholics have noticed a change?

Do you think Trump should be impeached?  I think he has done things deserving of being impeached -  the corruption, Russia collusion, emoluments clause violations, etc.  But I'm undecided on whether I think it's a good move strategically.

Pros: It would signal the importance of rule of law and that corruption has consequences.  Removing him from office would lower the risk of nuclear war.
Cons: Pence is almost as bad.  It wouldn't work anyway, since Republicans will block the 2/3rds vote in the Senate necessary for removal.

What do you think?

How cool!  A revival effort would be a fascinating project…

Jealous of the 13% who have it daily!

I'll only rim if he's showered recently.  Then, it tastes pretty clean.  A little ass taste is actually pretty hot, but I won't go down there if it's funky. ;D

As a top, doggy style.  Love watching my dick slide in and out of his ass!  As a bottom, missionary, so I can see the look of pleasure on his face when he fucks my ass.

For just sex, 18 minimum, no hard maximum but depends on his looks.  For a relationship, I probably wouldn't go below mid-twenties.

Assuming disease transmission is not an issue, then… no condom for sure!  Feels warmer, slicker, and it's altogether hotter.  I feel like such a bad boy sticking my bare dick in his butt.  And as a bottom, definitely love the warm feeling when he jizzes inside!

If married people didn't masturbate, they'd seldom orgasm after the first couple years of marriage.

Don't assume anal sex is gonna hurt!  I mean, it can, a bit, depending on your tension level, anatomy, etc., but it can also be completely pain free and pleasurable.  Take it slow, only go as far as you're comfortable.  99% chance you'll get the hang of it soon enough.  It's a dick, not a dagger, so don't worry too much.  ;D

Might be better to say something like "I'm especially attracted to pale skin/blond hair/blue eyes/whatever" … voice the preference in a less brash & racist way.  That way you're voicing a physical preference but keeping your options open.

Oral… 9.  Anal... 23.  Vaginal... never.  ;D

Depends on your motives. >:D

very sad