I've had this problem too.  It's worse with a bottom who is uncomfortable or not relaxed or inexperienced.  Much easier if the bottom is at ease and knows how to loosen up and be penetrated.  So choose your partner wisely.  Also if it keeps being an issue, try not masturbating for a day or two beforehand and make sure you're not too tired, drunk or high.  I find those things greatly increase my chance of successful penetration.

Isn't this like asking a beer drinker's forum how they feel about teetotaling? 

Best you can do is harm reduction - get vaccinated for Hep A & B, make sure you & your partner get tested regularly, clean beforehand, etc.  I've never had a problem from rimming, but there's always some risk.

Have you had success with any dietary supplements?  I'm starting to take curcumin and magnesium and vitamin D for various health concerns, not sure if it's having an effect or not.  I suspect a lot supplements are only placebos, but some must work.

It depends on how much he smokes and his level or oral hygiene.  If it's just the occasional cigarette and he has good oral hygiene, brushes regularly, etc., it's fine.  But if he smokes like a pack a day and doesn't have meticulous oral hygiene, the breath smell can be nauseating.

Oddly, I find watching a guy smoke to be a huge turn on.

Loke I love porn as much as the next guy or else I wouldn't be here.  But I don't get why like 90% of the fuck scenes in professional porn feature bottoms who are nonstop moaning in a very exaggerated, over-the-top, annoyingly effeminate way.  Don't get me wrong, I like verbal feedback, even a little dirty talk, but the moaning in porn is clearly fake, bad acting, unlike real life, and usually just a turn off.

WOndering what gay Catholics think of Pope Francis and his reign so far.  Has the Church became a more hospitable place for LGBT catholics or is it the same?  On one hand he has a reputation for being more liberal than his predecessors.  On the other hand, the Church as a whole still has some deeply prejudiced dogma.  I'm not Catholic, so I was wondering if gay Catholics have noticed a change?

Do you think Trump should be impeached?  I think he has done things deserving of being impeached -  the corruption, Russia collusion, emoluments clause violations, etc.  But I'm undecided on whether I think it's a good move strategically.

Pros: It would signal the importance of rule of law and that corruption has consequences.  Removing him from office would lower the risk of nuclear war.
Cons: Pence is almost as bad.  It wouldn't work anyway, since Republicans will block the 2/3rds vote in the Senate necessary for removal.

What do you think?

How cool!  A revival effort would be a fascinating project…

Jealous of the 13% who have it daily!