Well if he is a real close friend, it kinda would eat you up not to say something… and be lying by omitting from him something that is kind of important, again how stable is him, what is he battling inside and is he ready, is it the time? If any is off and he is someone agressive it might get ugly... if you are sure, and I stress SURE that he is not the type to get angry and offended go ahead but plan it out, make it in your ground not his, at a place where you know some other persons that care about you might check if things are ok... if he rejects you it's life, and he was not a true friend, that is a fence he himself has to bring down ... not your problem.
Posts made by myrea
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RE: Dealing with homophobic friends
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RE: Dealing with women (closeted)
I do not know the details of why you do not want to come out… perhaps it's bad in your country, perhaps some other things... you will have to just say to them sorry you are charming and all that but there's no click here in my side, not your issue but mine...
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RE: Should Dolce And Gabbana Apologize For IVF Remarks?
Ask Anyone, what would they DO? if anyone dared to say that their kids are inferior, fake or less than 1st class human beings…
SEE what they actually said? That is why it's so horrifying.
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RE: Why am I not losing weight?
Slice the carbs off, if you really cut the cereals and potatoes starch off and watch the sugars like a hawk you will lose weight, due to allergies I watch my sugars and even a natural yoghurt has around 5 gr in it… there are protein bars with stevia and poliols as sweetners those might help since most others are loaded with sugar... you will get craves after a month so eat something like bread once a month it's ok, just not everyday as you try to lose some weight... also your taste will change, bitter things will turn way more rounded in flavour and two months on this and after you try something with "average" sugar content will make you nausiated and wanting to puke. That is how much extrasugar people are used to eat without actual need.
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RE: Germany forced to bail out bankrupt countries like Spain and Greece
Do you think this will weaken the Euro currency or may bring economic problems in Germany?
The Euro was weakened by the oil price fall, for what the markets say, the greece decision actually made the euro stronger, now it's all about time as someone said… And Germany caused all it's problems really their stability is created artificially, no salary raises, no fixing ruined infrastructures, no spend Merkel, no buy anything from the outside, export export export, guess what if there is noone to buy german things because they don't buy anything back, then their products won't get bought and they won't get revenue... they finance themselves at 0% interest tax when they do not need that but force countries that need that to pay debts to pay them with a huge interest, it's all about keeping banking and whatever afloat... some countries were porrly managed for ages, but this is happening now because of the banking collapse.
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RE: Germany forced to bail out bankrupt countries like Spain and Greece
If the people of Greece (and others) paid their taxes and didn't abuse the system, I wouldn't have to pay higher taxes to bail them out. I agree with a previous poster. We should just let all the failing countries go under, since they resent our help anyway.
The resentment is not towards the people, it's towards the fact that instead of charging and agreeing on a low interest tax, THERE IS A HUGE EXPLOITATION on it, on the interest tax of a national debt that might keep a country subservient… the resentment is with the governments.
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RE: Merkel she wants Greece to stay in euro zone, but bailout terms must be honoured
allow greece to pay their debts with 0% interest taxes… They pay that way because they can, and all this circus of exploitation ends... Simple, this is just a case of Germany and others trying to steal and put countries in a servant position.
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RE: Germany forced to bail out bankrupt countries like Spain and Greece
I never said 62 was high for retirement, it's just not exceedigly low as you putted it (specially for people that started working at 14 tops)
I started working at 7yo doing a paper route and haven't stopped working since. What age should the government give me my state pension?
Lot's of Americans get jobs while in school, but their retirement age is 5 years later than yours.
I'm 47 now and I'll be retiring at 71. 0
Are you really comparing delivering newspapers to working in a factory or doing servants work? That and yes Matie is right the amount of economical idiocy in this posts is astronomical and based on exploitation of debt, and giving statistics that are about the outcomes to paint a bad image of countries argh… well I did not even wanted to look at this thread again but i'll pin point one thing, as bad as he might paint them in terms of murders and so on, those countries had not lunatics going on murdering children as his so civilized countries have. 0 :cry2:
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RE: Stephen Fry's Marriage To Elliot Spencer Draws Homophobic Backlash Over Age Gap
Great for him, why is this important again?
Really so many thing more relevant going on and they are age shaming now… typical of inferior complexed minds.
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RE: Do other guys also have stretch marks?
yup you have to really moisturize your skin because you are stretching it fast, coconut butter, cocoa butter, emu oil… just keep it well moisturized
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RE: Attraction to feminine men – why all the hate?
… well this is like sitting in a cactus dildo... why? Because it's subconscious brain farting and social psychology, all about accepting who you are, there are several cases...
1- the "masculinity concept" rough voice, hard edges, hairy, smelly, muscled and short haired... understand that, that is a mere social ideal, that does not define the average male at all, so the majority of male does not respect the idealized form... some will love that social construct because it's a social ideal and they need validation from peers even at subconscious level, even more if you are from an oppressed minority or your own masculinity is always put in evaluation, it's over compensating in several cases.
2- the elusive straight affinity, oh I can pass as hetero means I'm less gay... again someone still struggling to find that noone is superior to anyone, it's sad that this case still happens so often.
3- the "i can not ever bottom for someone less manly than me" manly is not a measure exactly, a man is a man (the masculine ideal just that an abstract concept), this falls into 1 a lot, your whole fantasy is influenced by this subconscious layer of doubts and so forward...
I do not preach everyone to like, be atracted and love everyone, but please find out exactly why it's that, sometimes you are blocking and selecting for reasons that will start looking shallow and more shallow as the years pass by.
The op well you said why you are atracted to them, however did you ever find that several times they got your back? That many times you do not notice but this "girly" guys actually protect and nurture you just as much?
We have a guy to guy relation a homo one, why do we allways need to be judging the level of girlyness, when it's not part of our equation to start with? This female fear also comes from the fact that female are seen as inferior in society, discard that, or look in female open societies and see exactly how this entire comparison falls apart.
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RE: How Can I Get A Dildo Past My Parents?
Why would your parents open a package addressed to you?
Why would your parents be going through the items in your room?That is what they do specially if they know you are gay, the control over the deviated son takes place above reason or respect most of the times. I wish more folk would be accepting and respectful but several are not.
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RE: How Can I Get A Dildo Past My Parents?
… Dear no matter where you hide it, your mother will find it... and if she knows you are gay, and most likely she knows, either she'll have a talk or ignore, so you can do it behind her back or talk to her... if she is completely against gays, well... I'd think that in top of a wardrobe or behind furniture it will be hard to get unless she goes spring cleaning.
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RE: Religion broke my relationship with my ex, it almost destroyed me
That is sad, I won't go into the whole why does he have the faith or belief… I'll go into why are you still there, and just be sure he does not turn dangerous, because such individuals eventually grow into a depressive state and might show egodystonism.
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Scientists cut hiv out of cells using modified enzymes
http://www.the-scientist.com/?articles.view/articleNo/40531/title/Genome-Editing-Cuts-Out-HIV/
Interesting reading, some teams are now working towards this area.
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RE: Hello from Portugal
Welcome, bem vindo, não te esqueças de visitar o nosso forum
now go have fun
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RE: Vintage Category is the best here
I'd say it's a question of patine, most of the settings stories and camera angles were more romantic in a way, with the "gonzo" revolution, and hd cams for mateurs in a way most of good camera work and subtlety in how you film and choose film colours was lost, there are some good studios that still work well with light and so on, but porn as lost several of the flavour of it.
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RE: Is coming out necessary at all? what is coming out actually?
Also and this must be said, it's individual but also group and community related, if you come out you increase visibility to all and you might help someone else.
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RE: Boas Vindas à todos os Brasileiros.
Olá pessoal do Brasil! ;D
Vcs tem links de filmes do Hot Boys?Basta fazer search ou busca com hb, hot boys ou hotboys, há dezenas de filmes deles nos torrents. Maioria na secção latino.
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RE: Fisting as an act of love?
If you are having sex in other form than not a romantic one, just based in degradation or sexual edging… you are feeding an issue that will consume you IMHO... so fisting SHOULD be as romantic as anything else really, now the reason why you do not equate it, or label it and classify it as extreme is... done wrong it can give you serious medical issues, one thing is if you both want it, go slow and well lubed, and do not think of making it a every night thing... treasure it and make it special, because your body will need some rest time to close and preserve the elasticity and stregth of your sphincter muscles.