Posts made by MrMazda

I don't mean to sound condescending in any way at all, but there is another side to a 3-way relationship that one must take into account. While what in2unow123 mentions is technically correct in that regard, this does not mean that it is the only possible outcome of a 3-way relationship. One thing you must be very careful about is that the feelings between all 3 parties are mutual on all accounts. The biggest reason I say this is because I was involved in such a thing a few years back, and it ended horribly….

The short version of the story is that I started to develop a closer bond with one of the two others, but not the other, and slowly as time went by, a distance began to form between the two. Inevitably, this created an interesting situation where the other 2 in the 3-way relationship started to grow separate of each other, resulting in a nasty mess to clean up.

I'm not saying that this is how it will be in all cases, as I do believe that it is in fact possible to have a successful 3-way relationship. I am only putting this out there for informational purposes so that it is known that such things have potential to go really well, and also very sour at the same time. Think of it more as a note of caution and something to be very careful to watch for in such a situation. Getting burned (metaphorically) is never an easy thing to deal with, especially not when it comes followed up with a whole series of complicated frustrating events. Just keep that in mind and go into things with an open mind and see where the possibilities may lead.... After all, what is right for one person (or in this case 3), may not necessarily be right for someone else.

Always leave your doors open for exploring new possibilities, and if you feel that a 3-way is truly an avenue that you want to explore, my best advice is to do so in a slow and progressive manner, as to avoid the potential for things to go horribly wrong and blow up in your face. Naturally, if things go well and continue to go well, by all means don't let one person's (my) sour experience stop you from engaging yourself in something that makes you happy in the end.

Perhaps the better place to start would be with the torrent URL of the torrent in question. Perhaps I could shed some more light on the matter with respect to the file size for the quality. I certainly would not be apposed to at least taking a look at an example of what you are talking about to see if you may have a valid point about something. If the file is an overly large size, but for example is an up-converted bit-rate version of an originally inferior quality film, I would be more than willing to say that the size of the file compared to its length isn't exactly fair to other users.

What it all boils down to here in this example is the actual root quality and format of the file as to whether or not it should be such a hideous size by comparison to its length. As always, I am more than happy to address any concerns that any user may have.

Speaking of age gaps, just remember that in most countries, 15 will get you 20!

@kinkyboots:

Owned the VHS to it, but now no longer can view since I no longer have a VHR. 

If you still have the VHS, I can arrange to digitize it into either a down loadable video format for you or into a DVD. I see that you are in the USA, so the shipping involved shouldn't be all that horrid, especially if you use a USPS flat rate box.

@mikeemountie:

Condoms unless you KNOW his status. Getting tested together and sharing the results is a good idea. But even there trust is involved. After you have been in a relationship for a while and do have that trust built up you might be OK with bb. Better to be safe than go through the consequences. I can say that in the one relationship I did bb it was only done after a few years in the relationship when I could be nearly certain he was Hiv negative and vive versa.

A very wise choice. The complications from HIV really aren't worth one night of fun… They really aren't.

When experiencing this problem, there is a common fix for it. To fix this problem, do the following:

1) Click "Profile" in the navigation bar at the top of the page.
2) Enter a new password into the password box.
3) Click "Submit Changes" to change your password.
4) Click "Logout" to sign out of the site.
5) Log back into the site using your new password.

Once these steps have been taken, you shouldn't experience that problem any longer.

@tom: I've always admired your sense of humour…

As for the rest of the users, please bear in mind that despite the fact that the existence of this site being "illegal" due to the nature of what it is used for, understand one thing. Just because you "like" something does not necessarily mean that you use that site or service. That being said, since the security of our site has been improved due to a recent scare with a certain production company, there is no way in which to link your Facebook "like" status to your user account. By the same token, there is also no way to directly link your usage (if any) on this site to your Facebook account, or otherwise directly to your identity.

The only way that any such information could be obtained is by monitoring torrent activity through a torrent client and obtaining a direct connection to someone who is actively seeding or leeching a torrent that is looking for such information. Even then, the only thing that anyone would have any way of obtaining is your IP address if it is not masked through a proxy, VPN, or seedbox. All that being said however, there lies a further legal complication when it comes to any potential legal action in most countries. Your IP address will only identify the connection that is being used. With a lot of court paperwork and red tape, it is only possible to obtain the information of the ISP subscriber. The challenge that this presents is that although you can identify the service subscriber through expensive and time costly methods with such information (which is hard enough to gather as it is), in most countries, you must also be able to prove who the user is on the other end of the computer. Short of getting an admission of guilt from the user directly, it is impossible to prove the identity of the user behind the computer, which in most countries makes these efforts useless since one must prove the identity of the user and not the subscriber.

If after all of that you are still worried about the security of your connection, I strongly recommend the use of both a VPN to tunnel your connection through, as well as the use of PeerBlock or PeerGuardian, along with any list updates you can grab for them as they will greatly increase the level of difficulty in being able to trace a connection back to the actual ISP subscriber's connection. And again, even if this is made possible through the magic of a really sophisticated technical guru (which I highly doubt would ever happen in reality with the proper steps taken), it would still leave the question of the identity of the actual user on the other end of the computer.

All that being said, be aware that in some areas such as the United Kingdom, the rules are a little different. In such areas, it is the responsibility of the ISP subscriber to ensure that their internet connection (namely their WiFi connection) is secure. In areas like the United Kingdom, if you fail to properly secure your internet connection, the subscriber is responsible for any actions made using that service.

Speaking of the forums… I noticed for a while that mgr's version of the forum had been implemented for a short while before getting switched back to the original version. Is there any word on if and/or when mgr's new version of the site will be implemented both for forum and for the site itself?

My only question here is what is the advantage of MKV files over a more traditional format such as AVI or MP4?

This seems to be a common thing since the domain switch. The simple version of it is that when you login, there is a cookie that stores your information in order to remain signed in. When the domain changed, the current cookie is effectively rendered as useless because it binds to the domain. Once you have re-established this cookie with the new domain by logging in, you should be clear to go.

@leatherbear:

Another HUGE waste of research money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I completely agree. There are so many other things that the money that was spent on this useless study could have been spent on.

On this topic, it is looking like such laws will soon change in Canada on account of a research study being conducted to test the effects of someone who is HIV+ donating blood to be used for someone else that is HIV+. So far, the study has been able to conclude that such a practice may actually be worth while, which would help relieve the shortage of blood because it would leave blood that would have otherwise been used for someone who is HIV+ for someone else who is in dyer need because they had another HIV+ donor in which to donate the blood.

Perhaps Canada really is leaps and bounds ahead here…

Not gay?! I somehow doubt that :lolp:

Until recently, I wasn't aware that such a torrent bump was possible at a moderator level. Now that I'm aware, this will make things a lot easier to work with working from this point forward. It's at least a good thing to know about marking the original date and time added for reference when doing this.

@raphjd:

I've long advocated banning RM file since they are ALWAYS crap quality.  Sadly, too many people complained so we still have that crap video format.

While we're on that topic, can we add the same for Flash Video files (.flv)… They can be just as annoying and poor quality.

If it is just a simple matter of a DNS entry not being acknowledged, it can in theory make it just as simple to just manually enter the IP address for the site in your hosts file to bypass any DNS server all together, thereby eliminating the problem for such sites such as GT.ru… just a random thought.

Now that's just sad… I'm not quite sure if they really mean what they said, or if it's just a code for "that's a subject that's too controversial for us to even begin to touch, so we're just going to say no"... Kinda makes you wonder, doesn't it?

OMFG!! This is flippin' brilliant!

@notquiteme:

and if we had a blood shortage and an abundance of gays willing to give blood, I'm sure that the dying people will be more than willing to accept their blood.

I agree… This "organization" is nothing more than an example of why the human race is doomed through their own stupidity. It's a pretty sad state of affairs actually.

This is infuriating to say the least… On top of trying to hide behind a "case by case basis" bullshit, which apparently means nothing, they're tearing a PHA (Person with HIV/AIDS) away from their primary source of care. In addition to tearing apart a marriage, they're also fucking with the health and well-being both physically and mentally of one of their OWN CITIZENS!

Since when is it a policy of the United States government to endanger the lives of the people that they are sworn to protect? I can foresee a pretty massive lawsuit coming into place here based on the fact that stress is one of the key factors involved in maintaining a reasonable CD4 count. Imposing such a stress on a PHA in this regard would be the absolute worst thing you could possibly do for their health for this fact alone, much less the other contributing factors. This makes it official... I have officially lost ALL faith in the US Government. They're more of a dictatorship than a democratic society. They seem to think they can police the world and do whatever the fuck they want and try to justify it at the same time. This is truly sickening.