Emotional porn, surprisingly.
This is me being picky, but not a lot of studios are making porn with feelings or at least passion. The only one I see is IconMale (and its sister site, NoirMale).
Most are just hot men fucking other hot men.
Which is fine, but sometimes I need a bit of dick in my fluff and a bit of fluff in my dick.
I think the most important thing is to not look at porn as a reference, much less an ideal.
I dunno if the OP will return but: there are lots of types of aggravation.
Is this the small kind that keeps piling day by day? Or is it a sudden change because certain life events? Or is it more like a gradual decrease of certain restraint / boundaries?
Overall I'm just glad he can find opportunities outside porn.
You're all arguing over different definitions of what gay and straight are without acknowledging that there are different definitions.
Functional: if you can have sex with a man you are gay. If you can have sex with a woman you are straight. If you can have sex with both you are bisexual.
Attraction: If someone has sex with a man ony for a pay check but persues sex with women he's not gay. (One of my favorite performers from Sean Cody came out as bisexual and had an uncomfortable scene with a guy who was only there for the money and refused to try to have any fun.)
Identity: People get to name themselves. I've known Gay guys in monogamous heterosexual relationships. Straight guys in same-sex relationships. People who don't ever have sex who identify with gay or straight or bisexual. And people who do have sex who identify as Asexual.
Myself, I notice that guys can have sex with people or objects that they are not attracted to. I'm not going to call a guy who sticks a dildo up his butt a dildo-sexual no matter who many times he does it on camera.
Yep, this is really good.
I think what most people are saying when they call themselves straight was more about 'straight in attraction', as in they leaned more towards women. Changing times does make some men willing to try sex with other men without labeling themselves as gay or bisexual– which is where MSM as a term is based on, I think.
This is both interesting and frustrating at the same time because it implies that being gay is a matter of culture / behavior / attitude, or at worst the old idea that being gay means you have to be a drag queen swishy femme, and I think this is the same root to so many femmephobia in gay community these days.
Not to mention the difference in romantic attraction and sexual attraction.
So I cannot help but wonder if the amount of the so-called gay4pay or straight guys doing gay sex would decrease if the labels gay / bisexual / pansexual / demisexual / queer are not as stigmatized as they still are these days.
Gha ha ha I can ramble a bit about this.
But yes, go around websites like Nifty and Literotica THEN compare it with websites like Archive of Our Own and you'll see quite a difference in the average.
Like, Nifty and Literotica can and will spend paragraphs upon paragraphs to describe the most delectable / hot / passionate sex. But the longer you read the longer you'll notice that a lot of those are truly…sex-oriented. Characters leaned more towards porn archetype and two-dimensional characters are much more common there.
Ao3, meanwhile, definitely focused on relationships, feelings, and emotions. A lot featured no sex, or glossed over sex.
For me, both works on different levels. Sometimes I want to imagine scenarios, for which I'll read Literotica and Nifty, but other times I want details, exquisite details, and for that I'll go to Ao3.
And then of course a caveat: this is just the average works. The bests works on all sites that I have read are usually more balanced in both sex and romance and character development.
At this moment I like XL.
Before that, hmm. I like Ty Roderick's face.
Overall fave is probably Brandon Cody (a.k.a Sean Cody's Brandon ha ha ha so genius). His smiles are just…hngh.
…..that can truly be a MAJOR side-eye or a MAJOR eyebleep.
Which I guess would make a nice porn story but.
I quite like Sam Smith, but only in small doses.
On small doses he's another good version of 'tortured singer with great voices'. I particularly like Lay Me Down and Stay With Me.
But listening to him in succession made me feel that something in his songs felt… not artificial, just overwrought. Like he's trying extra hard to make his songs all Grand Love Suffering and Angst and losing a bit of rawness in there.
I haven't watched it, but yeah sure. Of course after you saw Steven Universe they're going to have a VERY HIGH bar to leap across…
But at the same time, admittedly Disney has a bigger and therefore more conservative bass all around the world. They'd probably have a much narrower room to move around in this case.
The state did this but an individual is apologizing. It feels strange. The people who enforced the policy aren't apologizing.
Is this just more PC or it this necessary?
from the article,
"passed a new law which will allow them to clear their names."
I think yes, it's necessary because it's not just empty words. What you described would be ideal, yes, but I think it helps to see cases like this as governments being a separate being from individuals running it (compare/contrast: the American Government between Obama and Trump)
And then what JohnAllenson said, all of them.
Oh my effing lord.
May they rest in peace and may justice be served.
This is kind of sad, personally.
I mean, yes, it's a porn scenario all right, but imagine being the wife.
Yeah, this is very aggravating.
The poster itself was excellent satire. Nasty? definitely. But excellent nonetheless.
Regarding the politics, eh, people see what they want to see. Some would gladly call something like this OMG LEFTIST PROPAGANDA while then turns around and say no femme no asian no fat masc only, and I just wish they could get some glasses for their moral myopia.
Because this is a nasty poster calling out nasty people. If you're nice, you don't get called out.
Thanks.
We have sex according to a formula, with lights off. I like his body fine, even though it's not perfectly my fetish. He is sturdy and strong, but very insecure, considers himself too fat, and doesn't like his body. I don't think we ever talk about sex. Whenever I brought up masturbation he would say "you're not allowed to do that" in a joking-but-also-not-joking way. So that pretty much shut off all discussion of sex.
….are you implying he has a puritan / strict view of sex, or a...domineering personality?
We did have some discussion about how we spend time together. He needs to be more social, and he likes to go out. I don't drink at all and while I like being social I need to spend a lot of time at my desk to meet the career goals I've set for myself. That was also part of the reason I didn't want to move in. I just really didn't want to break my groove.
He told me he felt like I was judgmental when I counseled him. I mostly remember telling him he was being way too mean to himself. When he lets his guard down he is the sweetest most affectionate guy ever, and that makes me never want to do anything that could ever hurt him.
I think this is a good step, but yeah; seems you need more communication, and given your next post…that's...kind of dangerous.
And yes, I echo the professional suggestion.
Was circa 2012 and his girlfriend/partner at the time was also in the biz. They had a falling out over something that from my very basic understanding of Spanish and reading between lines seemed to have been entirely his fault. I do know they broke up, very publicly (on social media anyway) and she seemed genuinely hurt. It happened to coincide with a rather tumultuous time in my own life so with my small grasp of Spanish and the assistance of Google translate I told him I thought he was very hot but that I couldn't stand men that hurt women. I wasn't trying to suggest that he had physically assaulted her (though I did suspect that) but I am pretty sure whatever I said came out as if I was accusing him of that very act. Whatever I said hit some sort of chord and he blew up at me online. It was in Spanish but I was pretty sure he was threatening my life, only available for me to attempt to decipher for a few minutes before he blocked me and I wondered how hot his Latin blood might boil.
Clearly, I was not without fault, still… Shortly after that Robert Rosenberg made some homophobic tweets about a guy that had been beaten up in Prague or some such (again translation but this actually made some headlines) and Danny Mountain was going on and on about going to see Pink Floyd but really he was going to see Roger Waters (and that fucking cunt is not Pink Floyd) and I enforced a no more porn in my social media because I just don't want to know. I have snuck the odd one in here and there but end up deleting them eventually except for that Antonio Miracle but we are what they call "destiny" I think...
Holy shit that's rough. Sorry that misunderstanding happened and so sorry you had to experience that. 
I guess some people are best kept on a distance, eh? ._.
Ok, well I don't mind what it is really as long as it contains muscular men, having sex or not i don't mind.
I do enjoy a little drama OK that is a lie the more drama usually seem to be better but I don't mind how much.
The above reply might apply for you too 
For more muscular men, I'd also recommend Takashi Matsu, Shunpei Nakata, and Gengoroh Tagame if you can swallow some hardcore shit (I'm talking about hardcore bondage, domination, that sort of stuff, although he as -one- work that's all sweetness and fluff)
Oh are you really?
You gave me so much choice that I don't really know what to choose LoL…
I'm somewhere in between, but I'm not that fond with the ones with too much bishonen. Well, perhaps depending on the story, again.But story-wise, I'm into all genre you mention except Sexual. And if you have Furries, that would be nice too.
The point is, it has to have a good plotIf you happen to have some, please do share ;D
What is PwP by the way?
PwP = porn without plot; a more…straightforward Fap material.
Okay then, basing from the information:
More porn-y choices : Mentaiko, Tsukasa Matsuzaki, SAKIRA
Drama : Ogeretsu Tanaka, Okadaya Tetsuzoh, Inoue Satou
Romance : Naono Bohra, Isaku Natsume (comedy-ish)
Slice of Life : Kusama Sakae
