anyone have any good porn that's more intimate than just sexual?
I still want my sex but there are times when I also want more intimacy in my porn rather than just fucking for twenty minutes
so far Sean Cody satisfied me on that area but even that's still hit or miss. SO.
I'm fine for any type and race~ thank you in advance 
I used to have it so bad for him but he was of one the porn stars that created my "Don't follow porn stars on social media" rules.
why..is this, if I may ask?
Yum.
So many delectable men.
But I cannot help but notice the very similar body types. Which, as an Asian, I understand– but still. It'd be nice seeing more...diversity, whether more smaller bodies and more bigger bodies.
But still.
Yum.
yeah, it does.
….I think I'm more aroused by consent more and more. Oh, sure, rough sex is good; but I'd rather have the bottom actually ENJOY it, personally speaking.
Body type-wise, I know I appreciate more hairy guys as I get older. As well as bears and such. The same with races.
….PC monitor, which is quite..small to begin with.
Oh come at me bro. 
What sort of stories do you want? Cute? Romantic? Dramatic? Dark? Serious? Sexual ? PWP?
What sort of art styles do you like? Do you prefer the more bishonen guys or more towards muscular guys? Or are you more somewhere in between? (despite popular maxim; some Yaoi -do- contain muscular guys)
How much sex do you need? Do you want a lot, or can you deal with a little or no sex?
How much drama can you handle?
There's so much variable I can offer you~
It's honestly kind of interesting how this phenomenon is seen strictly in the realms of a sexual relationship and nothing further.
Just..putting this out there.
I'm honestly skeptical but at the same time I recognize that labels are social construct– even 'gay' and 'bisexual' are but social construct.
Sexuality as in, hormonal attraction and social-emotional-romantic attachment might be a very colorful palette in reality.
So…..we lurk at a gay porn forum. Pretty sure we're familiar with the stereotypes. The jock, the nerd, the daddy, the sissy, the gym bunny, the size queen, etc, etc.
Have you met someone who fits in the stereotype you like ? Are they as attractive as they are in porn? Or are things more...grey?
Have your taste of men changes (expanding, narrowing, changing entirely) as you grow up?
Sexual preference exist. That is one. And it's okay. It's ironic that I'm fat myself and fat guys….mostly just didn't do with me.
but:
Try to avoid these, both mentally....and in your actions and words and thoughts.
Without knowing anything about your life and your actions (thus, mostly working from a blank slate)
Remember that your sexual preference is not extended to your platonic reference. Try to make friends with ANYBODY regardless of their physical appearances.
Remember that we are all people-- no one wants to be hurt. Regardless of how attractive / unattractive they are.
Remember that people have different circumstances. Someone might be fat due to poverty; others their biological makeup.
Of course it's not going to be POSSIBLE all the time-- some people will get hurt no matter how gentle / diplomatic / polite our rejection is. That's the nature of life, that's the nature of human relationships.
But do try.
And then what I personally found out is that, attraction changes as we grow up and met someone new.
So at least do keep your heart open, and your penis aware. Who knows-- your attraction might have some outliers here and there
There are a lot of problems in your relationship and I think you should deal with it one by one (and not as a tangled mess of a problem)
But first of all, hugs. I'm sorry your relationship is on the rocks and I hope you'll get through this happier and more fulfilled.
The key here is communication.
The easier. Simply put : talk to him about this.
But of course, details matter. tl;dr : Can you get aroused with him? If you -can-, what you want to avoid is your boyfriend getting the idea that "oh, I'm undesirable to him. He desires someone else, someone better." Considering he's in a rough place right now, mentioning his (further) flaws can be destructive for him.
If you cannot, though; then I think an important, hard (and not in a good way!) talk needs to be had, sooner or later. Tell him that you're not sexually satisfied. And it's not going to be easy. But sexual compatibility -does- matter in a relationship. Ignoring that won't do you good in the long run.
So you have to consider a few factors:
For example, is your boyfriend muscular? Was he used to be?
Have you had sex with him? Did it go well? Did you enjoy it? If you haven't, does the image of having sex with him arouses you?
He might be using you as a crutch or he might be trying to keep you away from suffering from his problems
So I think you need to communicate, again. Try to avoid accusing– but communicate your needs. Define it as specific as possible. (i.e : "I really want you spending weekends with me" vs "I want you to be more attentive."). Add that you understand that he's having a hard time right now, and offer your help-- as much as it is healthy and as much as you can/willing to offer.
Also, my experience..
…well, guy is quite open about these sort of things, so it was okay (a bit of awkwardness around, but we got by)
atm the friendship's over but that's a separate matter. Guy turns out to be quite a bit of a jerk, I turns out to be quite immature and insecure, and yeah.
First of all, in the great words of Selena Gomez, the heart wants what it wants.
And that's alright. You want who you want, regardless of whether you are able to get it or not.
Now -dealing- with it … is another thing.
@newbieff:
Should I tell him that I have feelings for him?
Do you think that if I tell him, I could lost him in a mean that we/he will never feel comfortable when we go somewhere together?
It depends. What does he think about homosexuality? Gay rights, gay people, gay activity….
Depending on how positive/negative and how aggressive he is about his belief, the answer will be different.
If he's the type who hates gay people and actively shows it, RUN AWAY. The fantasy of converting your bully and converting a homophobe rarely RARELY happens.
If he's the kind who is more indifferent about them, I suppose coming out to him might not be bad--
BUT!
And do remember that not only are you coming out to him, but you're also revealing your feelings to him.
Your relationship, your closeness, his behavior and yours-- it will all come into question.
Depending on what sort of character he has, he might feel cheated about it ("So you're getting close to me for my dick, huh? HUH?")
So yeah.
Do I still hope?
My suggestion is no.
Oh god, yes. Bad moaning, faceless guys. I think those are worse than pixelated dicks, to be honest.
I can see the rationale behind faceless guys – other than videography, it can be made to focus more on the performer in question, rather than having to pay TWO performers, but bad moaning,...gah.
Sometimes they can even sound like they are in pain which is GAAAAH.
Some do have soundtracks– but I think the most often would be vintage porn. Nowadays I think it's more...silence, moans, and grunts.
Maybe a problem of sound editing and/or recording?
I don't hate porn soundtracks-- at worst it's cheesy. At best it's amusing and -actually- tolerable.
...But I might just lack exposure to bad porn soundtrack...
…I have a definitely low standard when it comes to acting in porn, but yeah there's some definitely bad acting even there. It takes the enjoyment sort of.
Try to watch a gay romance film to notice the (BIG) difference.
Even more disappointing is if the guys look hot. 
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