i admire responsible parents. i believe being responsible is just like love - it does not limit itself to gender or sexual orientation.
i would like to have kids of my own some day but for now, i'm contented with my nephews and nieces (that i spoil sporadically).
to those of you raising kids right now, i wish you all the best and congratulations!!!
also, for those harassed because of being gay and raising a kid, just hang in there. when you're doing the right thing, no matter what others do to pull you down, you won't be going anywhere but up. love lifts up people and your kids will give you that (and those detractors will become even more envious knowing you have become successful and you proved them wrong!).