Posts made by juancho

from a bisexual, these are the possibilities:

1. he is thankful that finally he has a close friend to hang out with who would understand his being half-gay. in my experience it is harder for a bisexual to find gays and straights to accept us. the gays would think we are all in denial and the straights would live in fear that if we would not snatch their girlfriends, we'd definitely molest them or something!

(sorry for using the words "snatch" and "girlfriend" in the same sentence in a gay forum… LOL)

i think he's just basically thankful to finally have someone to talk to about gay/bi stuff.

2. he could be just joking. i have more straight friends than gay/bi friends and they tend to joke a lot about these things when they are already comfortable with you.

majority of the times, they don't mean it seriously.

the open-minded straight guys even have a lot of questions about gay/bi people (albeit, most of those questions seem stupid to us)

3. he could be attracted to you and was lightly flirting with you or giving you enough hints to see if you like him too without sounding/appearing like a desperate man-slut!

these are just the possibilities that i can think of.

the wrong thing for you to do is to assume any one of these and act accordingly.

the right thing to do and the decision that will not damage your friendship would be to talk to him about it.

there's no such thing as a normal penis size, however there is the average size.

average size for asians: 4 - 6 inches (when erect and measured from the base)

average size for caucasians and blacks: 5 - 8 inches (when erect and measured from the base)

(by caucasians, i mean of, constituting, or characteristic of a race of humankind native to Europe, North Africa, and southwest Asia and classified according to physical features —used especially in referring to persons of European descent having usually light skin pigmentation)

penis size in relation to sex and/or attraction, this would be subjective.

ex: a guy who is only used to having been fucked with a 4-inch dick and who is suddenly assaulted with a 6-inch dick might find that large for him.

in the same reason that a guy who is used to being fisted would definitely find a 7-inch cock small.

these are just examples.

it's funny, i never notice the plots of these so called "pornos"…

LOL

:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

i trim.

tried shaving before but it's a lot of work and it hurts when the hair starts growing.

plus i prefer a little body hair especially in that area for my mate.

i have no intention of thinking that i'm having sex with a prepubescent boy when i'm having sex with a man.

but to each his own.

that's just me.

oh and, since its already august and your post about the skin bumps was in may, i hope its already gone by now.

otherwise, we're talking either a long-term infection or a tumor/cancer/cyst.

OP, i believe this is a good thing.

a parent who really cares for his/her offspring would be concerned (just like your dad) and would be able to detect something out of the ordinary (and by ordinary, i meant heterosexuality).

you may have been very careful about not exhibiting stereotypical gay traits but since your father is concerned he has, in his own way, known you deeply by just observing you and looking after you, he has already formed some sort of "idea" of what you might be.

while he may have shown you signs of being slightly misconstruing homosexuality (e.g. the cause of AIDS, etc.), at least he has opened up to you and opened his mind about the possibility that you might be a friend of dorothy or at least a cake boy!

it is very hard for heterosexual males to accept the fact that one of their offsprings might be a homosexual but the fact that he didn't get angry when you asked if he fooled around with a guy (which is, btw, indirectly telling him that you think he might be queer - which a lot of straight guys find offensive) is a good sign. it means he is more open-minded to the issue on hand than most straight guys and this will make it easier for you to open up to him.

i would suggest that you slowly open up to him about your life, passion, experiences (the harmless ones first) because he would appreciate knowing you more and in the process you'll discover a lot about him as well (which makes for a very good male bonding experience which is very hard for straight guys to do).

and when you think it's right or that he can take it already, tell him the truth.

as a caring and loving father, i think he deserves that!

i only do any of these 3

1. boxer shorts
2. tanga briefs
3. commando (i know this the absence of an underwear…  )

most of the time, i wear boxer shorts (i only wear black, white and rarely gray underwears) under my clothes because they are comfortable but there are times when i go commando while wearing jeans (love it!)...

i wear only jockey and hanes tanga briefs when jogging, working out or doing any strenuous acitivity.

i go commando when at home (i live alone).

i buy my underwears at the mall.

there's no such thing as normal number of masturbations or sexual encounters…

it varies from person to person (with consideration to his lifestyle, career, health status, etc.)

there is, however, what is called abnormal: it is when your masturbation/sexual practices interferes with your activities of daily living and retards you from being productive in life!

translation: if your job performance suffers because of masturbation and/or sex, or you exchange living real life with masturbation and/or sex, then Houston, you HAVE a problem!

also, it is true that regular ejaculation helps prevent benign prostatic hypertrophy (BPH) and prostatic cancer.

so when you masturbate or have sex, think of it as not only purely "for fun" but medically-relevant as well!

(like as if we really need reasons to masturbate or have sex…  :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: )