Take a look at this.. hxxp://www.huffingtonpost.com/michael-rohrer/coming-out-as-a-side-guilt-free_b_3192179.html and let me know what you think.
Posts made by Gr1zz
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RE: If you are not into anal, are you still gay?
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RE: Do you let your political views affect your sex life or your porn folder?
Well, I tend to keep it human, as far as race is concerned. As tempting as omox is, Ferengi dental work is just a little too scary for me.
But then, I thought Saddam Hussein was hot.
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RE: Any Trump Supporters here?
Elect Ron Jeremy
Because if the country is going to be screwed, at least it should be done professionally! -
RE: The Big Bang Theory
I like the show, but don't usually find the guys stimulating, except when they show up with fuzzy faces, then it's Raj that catches my eye.
I still find myself wondering if the Sheldon line, "Suck it, Zachary Quinto!" came before or after he came out.
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RE: Caught cruising
Did this "cop" offer any proof that he was actually a real policeman?
There are some sickos who get their jollies from harassing others, and the feelings of power they have over others. (While some of them may actually be police, the vast majority of them are not)
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RE: New Jersey Gay Marriage Bill Vetoed By Chris Christie
Sounds like Mr. Christie should stick to cookies.
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RE: Gonna Be an Uncle!
I bet you are tickled pink!
The system seems to have a sense of humour… look at the related items below, particularly the second one!
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RE: Movember – Who's going for it?
I would have done it, even though I have no idea what would be under my face fur, but they insist on moustache-only… which, to me, sounds like a crude attempt to sell razor blades.
That, and I've never really learned how to shave... faces, that is....
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Movember – Who's going for it?
While, according to the rules, I'm not quite able to participate (not willing to loose everything but the moustache), I'm wondering who else will be joining in. For more details, check out
WHAT IS MOVEMBER?
Movember is the month formerly known as November, where men and women across the globe join together raise awareness and funds for men’s health issues. Men grow a Mo (moustache) for 30 days to become walking, talking billboards, for our men’s health causes - specifically prostate cancer.
Men who support Movember, called Mo Bros, start by registering at Movember.com Mo Bros start Movember 1st clean shaven, then grow and groom their Mo, for the rest of the month, raising money along the way. Women who support Movember, called Mo Sistas, also start by registering at Movember.com. Mo Sistas champion the Mo by supporting their Mo Bros, organizing events, leading a team and spreading the important message of men’s health.
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RE: Dreadful News :(
I know it's been a while, but I found this about Tim, and thought I should share… it's been a year, and this is the most recent thing I could find, although LancasterOnline has a RSS feed that was last updated in June...
hxxp://lancasteronline.com/article/local/353908_Questions-in-man-s-death.html
Apparently, they keep murder cases open for 100 years, according to
hxxp://lancasteronline.com/article/local/370107_Cold-cases-remain-on-the-books.html
I can't help but be saddened, when I see some of his posts here, and think of the person behind them. He clearly had a kind and generous soul, and the gap that his passing created continues to be felt, even as time goes on. The only consolation I can think of is that he must have been needed more someplace else.
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RE: Wade Neff
Total YUM! I wish I could meat him… err, meet him.
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RE: Powers and you, was: Cafe Del Mar CDs
I hoped someday that someone would be screwing with me…
but this is not what I expected.
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RE: CUT or UNCUT
I'd have to agree with everything posted here, except for the first post. Memory serving, xxx was a waste of too much of my time. I'd much rather cover Vin Diesel in peanut butter and, well, that belongs in a different thread.
It's not a deal-breaker for me, but it is a nice bonus. If I'm getting involved with someone, there are many other more important things. If we are having a discussion over coffee, for instance, I'm not going to be appreciating it anyway.
The only other thing, I'm not particularly fond of the term "uncut". Cut has other conflicting meanings, (see: Ripped abs, for example), and it makes it sound normal to lop off a perfectly functional piece of one's anatomy. I prefer to use "intact", which doesn't imply something that isn't finished yet.
Oh, and there is another related poll in progress over here: http://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=15193
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RE: Fetish please look
Just an illustration of "Ugol's Law":
If you ever find yourself asking, "Am I the only one who…", stop right there, because almost certainly, you aren't.
One of the great things about the net is that, with so many people online, it breaks down distances, and lets people who share interests to contact each other. What a wonderful time we live in, where people who like getting hit in the face can now find each other. I must admit, I never thought of such a thing being sexual, but at least now people can share such things, and once a critical mass develops, it's only a matter of time until "hit on my face porn" becomes available.
:bithfight:Even better, those who like being hit are now much more likely to find those who like to hit, :fight: so we can end up with a match made in cyberspace. :spank: :inlove:
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RE: Foreskin lovers: the uncut cock appreciation thread
I wish I could honestly say that I've ran into these personally, but such is not the case.
At least I can admire them, and know they are out there somewhere in the world.
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RE: Why do many gay men seem to be clones ?
My suggestion is that it's kind of like racism. I personally reject racism because I'd rather take the effort to hate people as individuals instead.
The reason you see them as clones is that while they may share some characteristics, you have yet to examine them closely enough to discern the differences. I suspect that a little conversation could be just as helpful as genetic testing to expose them as distinct, unique individuals, and not clones. Of course, they may be interchangeable in many areas, but I would consider it shallow to think of them as all the same.
You will find the same sort of thing in many other environments, including, for example, sports bars, where the majority of the patrons are supporting the same team, often wearing the same team colours and uniforms, chanting the same slogans, and cheering in unison, as if they were synchronized robotic automatons.
As far as "What's wrong with a regular bar", in many of them, you could be putting your life in danger if you kiss another fellow, or even do something as explicit as holding hands, or looking at each other the "wrong" way. Some people find it enjoyable to be able to relax, and act on their feelings without having to self-censor every action, thought, and deed.
Oh, and that uninhibited sex behind a building may be interpreted by law enforcement types as lewd conduct in a public area, which has the potential of getting you confined in a locked room (with walls, or bars), and they may not be terribly quick to react should some of the other people in said locked room choose to act in an uninhibited way that may or not have your consent.
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RE: Gay Rights
I don't know for sure, but my gut instinct is that while the whole thing is being discussed in terms of "we" and "they", the chances and speed of improvement are going to be a lot lower than they should be.
Historically, the main factor that unifies groups is an attack from an outside force. The white supremacists at my school were the worst things ever, until the other school's sports teams showed up… and school lines were the division, until the police showed up. The pattern is easy to see when you are looking for it.
If we are lucky, it won't take something like an alien invasion to unite the world, but I won't hold my breath. I just hope that it won't come from that planet between Saturn and Neptune, otherwise, we would likely be blamed for that! :-)[nb]Yes, I know it's a big ball of gas, with little chance of having any life, but that hasn't stopped a lot of politicians from causing us grief![/nb]
There's also the problem of _ists (where _ can be just about any identifying factor: sex, race, age, class, and so on). It's very difficult to discuss such things when people can be divided into groups, even if they don't claim group membership themselves. There seems to be some sort of implied immunity as long as you are a member of that group, but I call bovine faecal matter on that one. I've personally been called many nasty things, and been told there is no way I can understand or even be supportive of uterarian-americans[nb]also known as women :-)[/nb] because of those things between my legs.
To me, discrimination is discrimination is discrimination, whether its within the group, outside of the group, or crossing the boarders that someone inside (or outside) of the group puts up.
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RE: My penis from stateside
YUM!
I really like the first one, but would like to see it more at eye level.
Of course, anyone who knows me here likely realizes I'm a foreskin fanatic, and what I'd do to see (or touch, or taste!) more would fill volumes.
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RE: How's mine?
Oh yeah! I really like the furry legs, too. I'd love to not have to floss! And a furry crotch is a wonderful tactile sensation, too…
Now if you will excuse me, I have a fantasy to get lost in.