No change for me - incel before, incel during, incel after. There are constant things in this world.
Posts made by fezobe
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RE: How are you dealing with hookups during covid?
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RE: Shut down sexuality
And now for the funny stuff. Roughly once per year I fail self-restraint and create a profile on dating site. Each time it's a mistake.
This time I've found someone at least willing to humour me for a while. I tried to escalate a bit…
Then it turns out he doesn't even live in my city (or in Russia at all, and yes, I made him do a video confirmation of his surroundings) anymore, and has a constant boyfriend too. He was just too lazy to update his info, and chats for fun.If fate stoops to such bullshit to remind me of my place, I... it's... well, fuck it. Now I regret fearing death, 'cause suicide really starts looking like a valid option.
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RE: The love of Platon
Thinkers often tried to justify their failing (or things perceived as ones in their time) by bullshitting.
Some try to pass it as religious revelation, some build entire philosophy on premise "I can't be bad, therefore it's good", and so on.Historical context: Greek society was overly masculine, man was always expected to be a top, an active predator and penetrator. Main course of male-male relationship was a pederasty, while equal relationships were considered "sissy stuff".
And in Plato's period all homosexuality was dubbed shameful, so he was trying to exonerate himself. -
RE: STD again
Good news: these can be cured, if you immediately go to doctor.
Bad news: if you don't have constant partner, actually, there's not much bad news. Just go to doctor, ASAP.As to having it AGAIN: have you tried using condoms?
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Gay Fantasy Porn with plot
Previous poster requested something decent, and my request is opposite.
You know "Anita Blake" series? Lots of sex and some plot here and there, in fantasy setting.
Well, my only complaint is that it's mostly straight sex.Do you know something similar for gay audience? As in: long series, or a bunch of shorter ones, lots of sex without major squicks (so, no gore fetish, no bestiality, and so on), fantasy/magical setting (preferrably not vampires and shifters) and some more or less solid plot (vampires and shifters got REALLY dumb these days, they bore me to sleep).
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RE: What is your Biggest fetish?
Spit-roasting and throat-fucking with bottom's head thrown back. Pretty vanilla, huh?
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RE: Christianity and Gay
Why do some church accept that and most don't.
Because some churches are run by people who care about their subjects, or at least PR, while other are simply a front and a convenient excuse for a bunch of disgruntled middle aged white men to hold onto their entitlement without doing anything to earn it. In both cases holy text and its interpretations is just a fig leaf to cover the ass.
And why some churches are first, and some are second - ma-an, I wish I knew, and how to change the second into first, but alas. -
RE: Gay friendly religion
Raelism is explicitly LGBT friendly.
Japanese Shinto doesn't pay attention.
Voodoo is surprisingly tolerant, in theory, but in practice it depends on region and political situation.
Taoism aspires to peacefully transcend sexuality, and thus does not condemn gays. Priests are expected to marry women, but you don't have to be a priest.
Buddhists sometimes claim to be ones, but they are lying - dharmic religions are homophobic at their core, just like abrahamic ones (they have shared notes several millenia ago). At best they're just like modern tolerant christians.
Confucianism allows you to bang anyone as long as you make 1-2 babies (total, not per partner), but it's sort of out of fashion today.Some neo-pagan/Wiccan circles are supposed to be this, but they're mostly laughingstock and bunch of posers.
Pastafarians and Unicornists are definitely this, but, well…
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RE: Shut down sexuality
No, there is no way to turn off your sexual and romantic needs. You can ignore them, suppress them, etc., but you can't turn them off.
I watched this film the other day, about a pedophile. The film was just okay but in one scene, a psychiatrist he seeks help from is very blunt with him about the fact that all he will ever be able to do is suppress his desires and not act on them, but he will never "get well" or be able to "cure" his pedophilia and rid himself of his sexual desires.
I am so sorry that you are in Russia where there is so much persecution.Living in Russia is just an icing on the cake - at least in my city you can hook up with someone. The main trouble is skin and head problems, with which I wouldn't get any even in country with legalised gay marriage, but anyway.
Thank you for the answer. Not comforting, but at least definite.Sorry to hear about you.
Maybe you can find some chat friend on this platform and develop some frankness with them.You know, I tried chats. For some reason they make me only ennuous and sick. Maybe it's the chats, maybe it's me and stunted ability to make connection.
Its okay to want to be alone its not ok to think you deserve to be alone.
Yeah, so I deserve to not be alone, but being unable to get it? What's the difference besides semantics?
I hate this tune - "okay, you won't achieve anything, but you still must toil and not give up, because otherwise your life is a failure". Because, I don't know, I'm ruining the image or something, for the ones who do not have my problems? When you're already the failure, what's the point? -
Shut down sexuality
So, I have nasty skin condition, meaning nothing physical is allowed, and in recent years I've got some mental issues, so platonic relationship is kinda hard too (I tried to keep self-control, still several good guys are now pissed at me).
And in Russia with all these "propaganda laws" available pool of potential partners is pretty small even without such problems.Is there any way to, er, turn off all sexual and romantic needs? Rationally, I understand my predicament, but not all parts of me want to listen, and that frustration adds to stress and makes mental issues worse.
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RE: Best mobile game you played
The World Ends With You - ported from consoles, but is a good game
Mandrake Boys - just your regular "wait&tap" addiction, but art is cute
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RE: Whats the best adventure game u have played?
"The Longest Journey" and "Dreamfall". Though "Dreamfall Chapters" was not up to the standard.
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RE: Would you agree that gays IN GENERAL are attracted to "their own kind"?
I'm into twinks but I long since ceased being one.
Though I'm into gays instead of straight men, does this count?
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RE: Is Being Gay a Choice?
As well as eating when you're not hungry.
The only thing left to define is which one of these you count as "being gay", 'cause otherwise whole question is meaningless.
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RE: Looking for gay movies
Yeah, viable option too, totally forgot to mention it, I just suck at surfing these databases.
Thank you.