Unheard of, no. But it's uncommon for gay men to not like anal sex in any shape or form.
The reason why I say it's not unheard of, is because me myself included, I do not really care for anal sex. I'd rather just not do it.
I mean I'd be open to do it, but I'd rather not.
There are a lot of fetishes and kinks and kicks and turn ons I do not understand.
There are a lot of fetishes and kinks and sicks and turn ons I have, that I'm sure other people do not understand.
I guess I'm one of those rare people that although I don't understand the thrill or point, I'm not one to judge, because I also have my bag of tricks as well.
So all I can say to you, if there is something that disgusts or bothers you, not to pay it any mind and not to be near it, and just respect that particular persons enjoyment.
As I'm sure there are things you like, that you would want to be respected with.
That's all.
I wouldn't necessarily call myself a chubby chaser, but I do like more bigger and stockier chubby guys with meat on their bones.
No it isn't.
You can say things like "Serious encounters only, In town for a short time. Do not contact me for sex." etc. Things like that. That's okay.
But saying things like "White guys only, must be good looking, no ugly men." etc. Is kinda petty and unnecessary.
If someone you don't like contacts you, block and ignore them and don't pursue anything with them.
From what I heard years ago, the people behind Modelteenz were very much weird and creepy, which is why the site was shutdown.
Some of the poses they had the boys doing were really suspect to me.
This was one of those issues which in the past, I was on another side with, now I've taken a completely different approach.
I used to think it was racist for you to not find a racial group attractive. I did.
But now, I can totally get it, and understand. It's okay really. Those who understand, understand. Those who don't, (as me myself was apart of that group) I hope like myself they eventually get the picture.
You cannot help what you are attracted to, and what you put above all else as far a dating and relationships go.
I am a flamboyant and feminine dark skin black man.
However, if I had my way, my ideal man would be a guy complete opposite of that. He's a bear chubby guy, who's more than likely white. As I do prefer white men, and most of the shit I jack off to, are white men.
So therefore it's not racist, as you are just attracted to what you're attracted to.
What is not okay, is people being shitty about it. For example, headlining different groups or races and warning them not to contact them. Or being rude to those you don't find attractive.
If you receive a message from someone not your type, ignore it. If you are approached by someone not your type, reject them kindly.
So that's how I feel.
Queer is one of those words, likewise with homosexual, I seem accusomted to, and comfortable using. Especially when I don't know any other proper words to use.
For example with homosexual, "I was looking up homosexual history on the internet."
I can use gay yes, but that's more friendly and social and not educational or formal.
"I was looking up gay history on the internet."
To me I don't see them as bad words.
Same with the word queer.
"I am a queer man, looking to talk to other queer men."
As queer is more umbrella to use. As the man could be gay, transgender, bisexual etc. and it's just simpler that way.
I could say LGBT aside from that, but that's not only confusing, but also puzzling. As men are not lesbian.
"I am an LGBT man, looking to talk to other LGBT men."
However, if someone does not want me using those words in their company, (as I understand that to some people they are bad words) I will refrain from doing so.
That's my take.
"Poll: Rename Category - “Shemale” to Transgender" - https://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=48999.msg265188#msg265188
Well you can pretty much forget about this.
This is not gonna happen, as clearly this forum is not accepting of trans people.
Which is why we as gay men are never gonna improve by the way.
Well, Domosuke, regardless…one’s personal “feeling” towards transgender people has no bearing on what really needs to be resolved--it shouldn't anyway. Same with the comments and results at my forum post and poll requesting/suggesting the category rename–opinions specific to my choice.
None of that should matter.
Renaming the particular category is something the site should be addressing anyway--“Shemale”--a term deemed no longer fitting.
“Defamatory: "tranny," "she-male," "he/she," "it," "shim"
These words dehumanize transgender people and should not be used in mainstream media. The criteria for using these derogatory terms should be the same as those applied to vulgar epithets used to target other groups: they should not be used except in a direct quote that reveals the bias of the person quoted. So that such words are not given credibility in the media, it is preferred that reporters say, "The person used a derogatory word for a transgender person." Please note that while some transgender people may use "tranny" to describe themselves, others find it extremely offensive.” - GLAAD Media Reference Guide - Transgender - http://www.glaad.org/reference/transgenderConsider these two current category names as examples–“Black” and “Asian”--I’m pretty sure “Negro” and “Oriental” wouldn’t go over too well.
So, whether you like my suggestion or have one of your own–Vote for Change!
"Poll: Rename Category - “Shemale” to Transgender" - https://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=48999.msg265188#msg265188
I was one of the main supporters on that thread to get the "Shemale" category changed. I voted to change the name.
You and I both were shunned to kingdom come for that.
The thread then went cold sadly, and it's assumed for the most part the operations of this forum have no interest to change it at this time, and it's sad, but what can you do?
Not specifically pertaining to this topic, but definitely related…
"Poll: Rename Category - “Shemale” to Transgender" - https://forum.gaytorrent.ru/index.php?topic=48999.msg265188#msg265188
Well you can pretty much forget about this.
This is not gonna happen, as clearly this forum is not accepting of trans people.
Which is why we as gay men are never gonna improve by the way.
I am shocked at the community here… recently signed up. Thought I would be part of an inclusive, kind, caring community, but all I am seem to be seeing is this shit... I don't understand the rationale. I understand there are going to be right-wing or "alt-right" LGBTQ but I don't understand why? What has right wing politics done for the LBTGQ?
Well this is not a gay sexuality support/unity forum. This is a gay porn/erotic/adult site.
Many guys on this site I wouldn't be surprised are very homophobic and for whatever reason like to cum to naked guys, yet don't consider themselves gay, and don't want to be involved the in the gay rights movement.
I personally don't understand it, but I do realize it and accept it.
Many guys, (not all, buy many) who are homophobic happen to be civil with their virtues and are also racist, sexist, transphobic, etc.
So I'm sorry if you didn't realize this, because I did.
I'm not an SJW. I'm not conservative. I'm nothing. I'm me with my own opinions as a gay black man who is hated in this world.
Who am I to say that person is wrong.
My brain is wired to like dick instead of vagina.
So who am I to judge someone who's brain is wired to hate their genitalia and gender roles and feels they are the wrong gender?
But you should be entitled to your opinion. People down voting is stupid.
It doesn't matter.
White curtains or black curtains.
Candy Crush. Temple Run. Subway Surfers, Duo-lingo (no it's not a puzzle but it's kinda fun if you want to learn another language and kill time), Sudoku.
no I'm not doing yoga right now.
TPBM knows how to cook
friends only
work out in the morning, work out at night
Technically yes I am a musician. I like music, performing and playing. lol.
TPBM is going out tonight.