Posts made by deflorare

Just ask him if he wants to be more than just friends. If he says no, leave him alone.

I would really like to begin riding my bike places. But where would I park my bike? That's the problem…

Physically, maybe Thomas Jane.

16 with my first boyfriend. I am yet to receive anal sex from someone who is good at it, though, and I am yet to be 'top' too.

I am meeting a trainer soon but he's attractive.  :blownose:

Jimmy Johnson, Colby Jansen, Dirk Caber, Kevin Faulk, Rick McCoy…

There are loads.  ::)

Neither.

@cadler:

Everyday twice a day except Sundays I only hit the gym once on Sundays! ^-^

Nobody in the world needs to work out that much apart from bodybuilders.

I usually bathe, but I like showers too.

I've never understood the ignorance around bathing, when people say things like "it's sitting in your own filth". I relax for a while, cleanse myself with soap, and then get out. I don't just sit in what I've rinsed off.

I've been in this situation before. The best thing to do is end the friendship.

@bebekid:

It's amazing to read your stories and see little bits of myself in many of them.

I've always known since I was 5 or 6.

Black men are the most beautiful men.

I think that what people mean when they ask a question like that is 'Who is dominant and who is submissive in your relationship?' But when using 'male' and 'female' instead, it doesn't make any sense. In some relationships,  females are dominant and men are submissive.

I think monogamy is the most noble and beautiful way to love someone. It would break my heart if I could never experience that in my life.

I like both!

@WackyRabbit:

The question should be " Have you ever seen good acting in any porn?"

Haha

@jonas32:

My husband and i have been together from about 1993. We are monogamus, but we do have threesomes from time to time.

Not really monogamous, then.

It's sort of cute, actually.

@nescho:

that's true.
you can't really go on a sexdate and expect it will evolve into something more - it rarely happens.
it's better to just go and hang out with guys who are only looking for friends, and if there's chemistry - something will eventually happen. and even if it doesn't - it won't really hurt to have one more friend in your live
also, don't just date guys who you find super hot, give a chance to those who may not be your "ideal" guy, but still have at least something that attracts you. when I met my last boyfriend - I didn't find him really much attractive and thought we'll just be friends and then within two months I fell in love with him and he became more attractive to me than any superbuilt guy. It was all about the way he made me feel, not about how he looks. we had a great chemistry together and that was the main thing.
never go just for looks, even if you end up together - people get older and looks change all the time so in time they'll be less and less attractive to you if the main thing that attracts you is somebody's physical appearance.

so in summary - don't just drool over hot pics, and cross the guys who are only looking for sex. if something more that sex isn't an option right from the start then it's unreal to expect it.
I know there are lots of those who say they want something more and then they just jump on you (like you said), but when that happens tell them you're not up for that. you don't have to accept every sex offer.

Very true.