20 with a woman, 23 with a guy.

@RainbowCloud:

WOW…  A lot of people saying they would date older.

For those who have dated older, what is it about the older guy that you were attracted to?  Was it that they had to be in top notch physical shape?  Was it their personality?  Being an older guy (32) wanting to date younger, I have found that often times when trying to talk with younger guys, they become creeped out, as if the older guy is only looking for one thing.

Reverse that...  For the older guys responding in this topic : What did you do to catch the younger guy's attention?  Where did you meet?

For both : Is this just a daddy / son fantasy, or what you are attracted to?

I've been in both positions (pun intended)  :D. When I was younger, I mostly dated men/woman older than me. There's a certain "swag" and sexiness I found hot. It's like an almost cockiness that's not annoying. For me (younger and older now), I was attracted to someone who took care of themselves, cared about their appearance, were confident within themselves, and a good human being. As I've gotten older (I'm 40), I've met younger guys online and in person who are really into me. I think I've adopted the qualities I have always been attracted to.

At 32 (or any age), don't even stress it. Love yourself and enjoy the ride.

There's some HOTT stuff on that site!!!

What if the other 2 brothers are bottoms???  :afr:

You know, this is a very interesting topic. I never notice (or think about it) unless I'm sharing a bed with someone I'm not involved with sexually. It's only during those times I'm conscience and don't want them to see my "morning glory."

I don't think I have them every morning, but then again, I don't pay attention.

I don't think he's gay either. I think he knows he has a gay following and shows support in his work. I think the same thing about James Franco.

and just to add to what Valicore said, regardless of their sexuality, the guys are usually nothing like they appear in the movie/scenes in real life. It's a scripted fantasy and the actor (straight or gay) is really just an "ACTOR."

I've seen actors who play the butchest tops, interview and be the biggest Queens you can imagine. I've seen exclusive bottoms on film turn out to be versatile tops in real life..

I would just add (and this is again my opinion and experience) while bars and clubs may be better than apps, I wouldn't look for anything long-term at either. You might find guys to dance with or have fun with, but a good percentage of those guys are the same ones on the apps. I only speak of in American big cities.

Men  :cheesy2:

@Aleedinver:

Wow… I didn't believe there was someone so straight-minded (pun intended) to bottom only like he COULDN'T DO the "top" part of the work... in this case well, for me the answer is the same of the post about watching porn while ina relationship.
Do you love each other? Is this love less strong than your selfish desire to be ONLY fucked in all your life?
Sorry, it's not love.

But what if topping someone doesn't give you an errection at all (or causes you to lose one)? Isn't that beyond selfishness?

I never felt good watching porn with my partners.. even someone I was just dating. Maybe some can have fun watching it with a significant other, but for me I only watch porn when I'm single or not sexually satisfied.